Many times, people cannot control their emotions.
This lack of control has nothing to do with willpower.
Humans' own different hormone secretions will affect the ups and downs of mood. In extreme cases, they may even make decisions on behalf of your brain.
For example, if you take too many drugs, the strong stimulation will make people enter an unconscious state.
Or if you exercise too much, physical fatigue will affect people's desires.
etc.
Lisa was now in a strange mood.
I thought I had met an interesting homeless man, and we ended up having a meal together.
Just eating, nothing more.
But Cheng Daqi pulled her hard and completely messed up her mood.
Have a meal?
She looked at the food on the table now and just wanted revenge.
Already AA, she wants to eat more than a grown-up girl!
According to the theory of emotional peaks in male-female interactions, Lisa has now entered the 'top' state.
If Cheng Daqi has been in contact with her for long enough.
In the future, she will definitely forget the unpleasantness she had with Cheng Daqi today, and will only remember eating a lot of delicious Chinese food, and the process was also very interesting.
In other words, people will forget the specific details in the memory, leaving only the emotions.
Strong emotions are enough. Whether they are good or bad can be controlled later.
This logic is extremely counter-intuitive.
Let’s take the relationship between Cheng Daqi and Lisa as an example.
The core factor behind it is whether Cheng Daqi will bring enough positive emotions to Lisa in his future dealings with her.
As long as there are enough positive emotions, the unpleasantness of the first meeting will become an interesting thing in the memory.
This logic of getting along is essentially a deformation of strengthening the first impression.
No matter what method you use, you must leave a first impression and an extraordinary first impression (it is extremely easy to use in relationships between men and women, and it is effective in personal testing, but do not break the law when using it).
"Cough! Cough...cough...F**K, what is this?"
Her throat felt like it was exploding, and the spicy smell of authentic Sichuan food surged through her nasal cavity, irritating Lisa's nasal mucosa.
This blonde girl, who was trying Sichuan cuisine for the first time, was so spicy that her nose ran out.
What made her so angry was that Cheng Daqi was not only indifferent to her embarrassment, he took out his phone and started taking pictures.
Damn auto mechanic!
Lisa was numb.
What kind of rare Sigma man is this?
One thousand yuan for two hours of security, and you can bring yourself to eat something so spicy that your face will be distorted.
Not only is he smiling in an ungentlemanly manner, he even takes a photo of his ugly appearance.
Cheng Daqi really refreshed her stereotypes of Asians.
Polite?
If anyone ever tells me that Asians are polite again, I will stab them to death with my high heels!
Lisa, who was in pain from the spicy taste, had tears in her eyes, and she stared at Cheng Daqi with burning eyes.
"Come on, come on, drink some tea to moisten your throat."
Cheng Daqi refilled Lisa's cup of tea with a smile.
On the second day of American Tramp Hell, I let the blonde stare lovingly through tears.
Well, no problem.
"You ate too fast. Eat slowly and don't be in such a hurry."
Lisa was secretly annoyed after hearing Cheng Daqi's consolation.
It's so spicy that it's impossible to eat even half of it.
One day, I was cheated twice by the man in front of me. It was so annoying!
"Is this how your Chinese food tastes? It's so spicy, how can it be delicious?"
The female manager of OC Perfume started to find fault.
She wanted Cheng Daqi to admit that choosing the meal was a mistake.
Holding out his fork, Cheng Daqi pointed at the dishes on the table and answered.
"Many people regard chili as a seasoning, but chili brings a sense of pain. The pain makes our body mistakenly think that we are 'injured', thereby secreting endorphins, giving us the ultimate dining experience."
"You ate too fast. Like me, just take your time."
Lisa doubtfully picked up another piece of boiled beef and put it into her mouth awkwardly.
The rich spiciness and multi-layered aroma ferment in the taste buds.
Not only did she not choke on the spicy taste this time, she even experienced the feeling of 'endorphin' secretion.
"Oh, okay, I admit it's really good."
"You can try other cuisines next time. Sichuan cuisine is just a small category of Chinese food."
"What do you mean, what is Sichuan food?"
"Sichuan cuisine is equivalent to California cuisine in the United States, and there are many local cuisines in China that are as famous as Sichuan cuisine, such as Shandong cuisine, Huaiyang cuisine, Cantonese cuisine, etc."
"Maybe I'll give it a try, I've had enough of French food and pizza."
The two of them ended their lunch chatting with each other.
Lisa accompanied Cheng Daqi to the bank to get her reward.
Watching Tesla go away, Cheng Daqi touched the knife in his pocket and felt reassured.
Although a thousand dollars wouldn't really change his plight, it was always easier to have money in your pocket.
When you have nothing, a penny can really overwhelm a person.
As for Lisa, her relationship with the girl was, at best, an interesting partnership.
They just met, and there won't be any interactions until he gets his legal status.
However, as a native of San Loduo, Lisa can have more contacts in the future, which can be regarded as a personal connection.
After sorting out the chaotic thoughts, Cheng Daqi decided to first find a Chinese immigration consulting agency to understand the issue of illegal immigration status.
Now he can't rent a house, get a work card, or work, and it's inconvenient to do anything.
As a long-established gathering place for Chinese immigrants, there are many Chinese travel agencies and immigration consulting companies in Fatty Ding Square.
These companies also generally have signs advertising recruitment, with a Chinese label saying 'We are hiring even if you don't have a passport or identity'.
They are regarded as human brokers in Fatty Ding Square, and they work part-time to introduce illegal workers to illegal Chinese immigrants.
Cheng Daqi found an agency with the sign "Li Haiping Immigration Consulting" and walked in.
A little bit of trivia: in many subdivided service industries, stores named directly after the owner are often more reliable.
Of course, this is just a general conclusion based on big data and is not applicable to specific special cases. After all, there are always exceptions.
"Hello, I would like to do some consultation. Is it convenient now?"
There was a teenage girl at the front desk. When Cheng Daqi walked in, she was entangled with enemies in the canyon.
"Ah? Consultation? Dad! Someone comes to you for consultation!"
Upon hearing Cheng Daqi's Chinese language, the young summoner directly used the summoning technique without raising his head.
After looking at her record, Dragon Turtle top laner, 0/11/2, Cheng Daqi smiled dumbly.
Any reader can crush her with his feet.
"Hello, welcome, sit here, let's sit down and chat."
A bald, middle-aged Chinese man wearing glasses walked down from the second floor and led Cheng Daqi to sit down.
"My surname is Li, what issue would you like to know about?"
The middle-aged man was making tea and getting into work skillfully.
"If you don't want to be a distinguished guest, Li Sheng calls me Xiao Cheng. Are you from Wanwan?"
Being an unfamiliar place in the United States, Cheng Daqi had to first determine where the boss came from.
Pan Dao is necessary everywhere.
And the accent he uses is Cantonese with a Hokkien flavor, ensuring that no matter where Li Haiping comes from, he can handle it easily.
Chinese American bosses come from all over the world, but people from Fujian, Hong Kong, Taiwan, and Guangdong and Guangxi account for a large proportion.
Fujianese Cantonese, the best choice for traveling in the Chinese community in the United States.
Cheng Daqi has worked hard in Ludao for so many years, and this accent can be easily simulated.
"Haha, although this place is called Little Taipei, there have been so many people from the mainland in recent years that most people from Taiwan have moved away. I am from Bengbu, Anhui, and have been in the United States for more than ten years."
Looking at the young man in front of him with slight surprise, Li Haiping answered with a smile.
Cheng Daqi was dressed in sportswear. At first glance, he thought he had met a stupid young man.
But as soon as Cheng Daqi asked, he knew that this person was not easy to fool.
Cantonese, which has a bit of a Fujian flavor, refers to people and students. It’s hard to judge the ingredients.
