The daughter of the head nurse found a collection job in a small or medium-sized hospital in the city.
Although the salary of this job is not high and there is no "grey income", it only requires commuting to and from get off work on time, does not work night shifts, and does not require any effort. Therefore, it is still very suitable for little girls who have just entered the society.
But the head nurse's daughter often couldn't distinguish between "public and private" when settling accounts and collecting payments.
For example, sometimes, some people come without change, and she has good intentions at this time, so she finds the change from her pocket to pay the other person, and then takes her part out of the public funds later.
But over time, it becomes troublesome to do it alone again and again. She would accumulate a certain amount, and then get back the change she paid to the patients or their families from public funds.
But in this way, over time, it will inevitably happen that you take more or less.
At this time, her habit was noticed by the people around her.
Some people around her are jealous of her good background: she grew up in the city, her parents both have jobs and have medical insurance.
Some people are jealous of her good family conditions: she is an only child and she found such a leisurely job right after graduating from high school.
Some people were jealous of her good looks. At this time, the head nurse's daughter had grown into a tall and graceful girl, with an outstanding figure and appearance.
Either out of jealousy, to claim credit, or to make room for others, someone reported her indiscriminate behavior to the leader.
It happened that the leader came to check the accounts, and the head nurse's daughter had a few hundred dollars worth of money that she couldn't reconcile.
Ordinarily, for a few hundred dollars, it would not be a big deal if it was discovered early and quietly filled up.
But because her parents usually knew nothing about the rules of the property system, no one warned her or gave her guidance after she joined the job.
Her parents did not instill in her a rigorous and meticulous concept of money, especially in work involving money, and they did not have much awareness of risks.
The daughter of the head nurse was always careless, thinking that if it was a few hundred yuan or a few thousand yuan, the difference would be made up, and it would be nothing if found out, and it was not a matter of tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands.
She didn't know that the financial system was very strict and no mistakes were allowed.
She didn't know that her behavior was "ignoring the distinction between public and private affairs" at the most serious level.
Even if she was said to have "misappropriated public funds", she could not defend herself.
She didn't know even more about the sinister nature of people's hearts in the world. There was no fault in it, but they still had to find faults, let alone such an obvious and low-level loophole!
The head nurse's daughter was expelled from the unit.
After the first beating from society, the head nurse’s daughter went through many more beatings:
A “friend” borrows money and refuses to repay it;
Relatives, near and far, trick her into spending a lot of money to buy a lot of products that she may never use;
Trick her into investing, trick her into buying shares...
The end of all of this is that the money in your hand disappears without a trace.
Then, those who defrauded her of her money mocked her as "uneducated"!
Ridiculing her that she doesn't understand economics, has no "brain", and doesn't know how to "manage money"!
Ridicule her for having no "vision", no "pattern", and no "mind"!
The head nurse's daughter now deeply hates her elementary and middle school teachers. It was their blow to her and their cynicism that made her always on tenterhooks. She began to fear going to school and meeting teachers at school, and eventually lost interest in learning! I also lost the opportunity to learn, use knowledge to improve myself, and change my destiny!
And her classmates told her now that the reason why the teacher treats you badly is because you did not give gifts to the teacher, and there were no "powerful" people such as the principal, district chief, mayor, etc. to stand up for you.
Only then did the head nurse's daughter realize that the teacher's kindness to other students was not because of how good the students were, but because the family gave them gifts or someone in the family was a high official.
The head nurse's daughter went home angrily and asked the head nurse,
"Why do other mothers give gifts to teachers, but you don't give gifts to teachers?"
The head nurse felt very wronged and told her with tears in her eyes,
"I also gave you a gift. Don't you think there are often days when you come back and say that the teacher has been very good to you during this period? It's because of the gift from your mother!"
Hearing this, the head nurse's daughter was very shocked. She said in disbelief,
"But Mom, you didn't tell me that you gave the teacher a gift! You kept saying that the teacher didn't treat me well because I didn't do well enough, because I didn't study well, but there are many children in our class who don't study well. , the teachers didn’t treat them the same way they treated me. Sometimes the teacher’s attitude got better, and you said it was because of my good performance during this period that the teacher changed. If you had told me that it was because of the gifts, I wouldn’t If there is so much pressure, I won’t try so hard to please the teacher. I will watch the teacher every day and try my best to do things I don’t like!”
The head nurse was also full of grievances and even more angry.
"I don't want you to know that I went to give gifts because I don't want you to see the dark side of the world. I hope you will always be sunny and happy! I gave the teacher a gift. The teacher has a good attitude towards you and will not bully you. Now, what pressure do you still have? Why don't you study hard while the teacher's attitude has improved? I know it, you are not good at studying! Don't make excuses for yourself not to study hard! "
The head nurse's daughter smiled sadly,
"Mom, I am the person involved, and I have the most direct and profound experience! I feel that the change in the teacher's attitude is short-lived and not lasting! It always gives me a feeling that I can't grasp it! You are just in time to give the gift this time. When I was a student on duty, I thought I did a good job on duty and the teacher liked it, so I worked hard on duty. I did both my work and other people’s work. However, after a few days, the teacher wanted to No matter how hard I work on duty, he is not satisfied with me, and I don’t know why! I live in fear every day! Especially the teacher sometimes doesn’t know whether he is deliberately making things difficult for me and deliberately distracts me. When you ask me questions, I don’t know anything, so I hate learning even more and am afraid of learning! Do you know how powerful your classmates are? If the teacher’s attitude is good, everyone will smile at you. When the teacher’s face changes, the classmates will ignore you. . How do you want a child to face it? How do you adapt? How do you accept it? How do you want me to be sunny? How do you want me to be happy?"
The head nurse cried and wiped away her tears, and asked Ji Jun with tears in her eyes,
"You are a graduate student. You have read a lot of books. Your parents are also knowledgeable and educated senior intellectuals. You must know a lot of truths. Can you tell me where I am wrong? Am I doing this wrong?"
The head nurse asked again,
"Tell me, why is your life so good? You have been able to meet teachers who have been kind to you since childhood, so that you did not get tired of studying and were admitted to graduate school step by step?"
Ji Jun felt very speechless. The teachers she met were only weirder than this one, not as weird as this one. She also met many snobbish classmates.
Just when Ji Jun was about to explain the matter to the head nurse without knowing the meaning, an older nurse beside her quietly shook his head at her, and Ji Jun stopped talking.
At this time, an old director of the department who had retired and returned to the job said to the head nurse mercilessly,
"You can't blame the child entirely for this matter, but you should blame yourself more! You have been protecting her like a bird in a cage. Then suddenly you no longer have this ability, no, you do not have this ability at all, and Yes, your so-called "protection" happened to coincide with the time when your child didn't have to face the wind and rain, and you thought you had "protected" her. Then, now that your child has to face everything on her own, you just let her know nothing. Entering the forest and facing nature, she couldn't fly at this time, and she didn't know how to compete with others for food. She didn't even know that there were so many dangers in nature. In addition to being attacked by those ferocious wolves, insects, and tigers, she The leopard bites. Do you think she has a second way out?"
The words of the old director made the head nurse burst into tears. Ji Jun felt very sympathetic, but she didn't know how to comfort the head nurse or blame the head nurse. She felt that she had no position.
The old nurse pulled Ji Jun out of the office and said slowly,
"We have reminded her before that she should either not send it, or if she wants to send it, she should take her child with her, so that the child can see the mother's humiliation in front of the teacher, and see that the mother's hard work is exchanged for the teacher's short-term smile, and more His sarcastic words will touch and impact her heart. Only in this way can it be possible to arouse her inner unwillingness and make her work hard!"
Ji Jun was deeply touched by the words of the old nurse. This old nurse had prepared a bouquet of flowers worth 200 yuan and a 5 yuan greeting card for the child's teacher on Teacher's Day.
The father of the child's deskmate is a rich man. The father of his deskmate gave the teacher a necklace worth about 5,000 yuan.
Then the deskmate showed off to the child, and the child was deeply stimulated. She came back and said to the old nurse,
"Mom, please return the flowers and just send greeting cards. Our little money is not in the eyes of the teacher at all. No matter how hard we try, we can't keep up with the wealth of my deskmate, so why bother!"
The child of the old nurse was completely disappointed with the teacher who was so unscrupulous for profit and had no illusions.
At the same time, children also know that this society is so cruel, even the campus is full of cruel fights!
The old nurse continued,
"The head nurse didn't listen to a word of what we said. The reason why I didn't let you say it was because you had no weight. She didn't ask you to get an answer from you. She just said that she was telling her dissatisfaction. If someone listens, she will But. She is just complaining. Even if she is asking you, she does not need an answer. She already has the answer in her heart, and she never realizes her mistake. And once you express your opinion, she will be dissatisfied. But when the old director said it, it was different. What is this called? This is called official status."
Ji Jun thought, this is what the ancients said: "Don't bear heavy burdens if you are weak, don't persuade others with soft words, don't join the crowd if you don't have money, don't seek relatives if you are in trouble"!
People speak softly, and even if they are right, it is difficult to be accepted and recognized.
