Divorce hurts the most, not the adults, but the children.
However, if you can't keep it in your heart, then the situation of this family will only get worse.
Although Lu Xiaoning has moved away for a long time, as long as she comes back, there will be no peace in this family.
Lu Xiaoning had already broken up with Gu Fengrui in order to get a divorce. She would rather be free than stay in this family.
Therefore, as long as she came back and couldn't get divorced, she would make a fuss in front of the children without caring about the children's fear and fear.
"Leave, I agree on behalf of Xiao Rui."
Mr. Gu knew that his eldest granddaughter-in-law had already decided to leave, but he couldn't bear to let the children be sad and sad, and he didn't want the children to be without their mother.
Otherwise, with Lu Xiaoning's current condition, he would absolutely despise her, and she would be worse than a girl from the countryside.
Lu Xiaoning never expected that her wish would come true this time, and she couldn't help showing an expression of surprise.
"Grandpa, divorce is okay, but you still have to agree on the conditions first."
How can we just leave without having to negotiate the terms first? !
Lu Jiaoer was speechless as she listened. Didn't the old man have a lot of experience? Why wasn't he smart here? !
"What does it have to do with you as an outsider?! There is no place for you to talk here."
Lu Xiaoning was just happy when she was suddenly poured cold water on Lu Jiaoer's words, which made her angry and furious. She glared at Lu Jiaoer and said nervously.
I heard that this woman from the country is not a good thing. She must have a lot of intrigues, otherwise she can rely on her brother-in-law with a bright future and a good family? !
Because of Lu Jiaoer's words, Lu Xiaoning was particularly wary of her, particularly disgusted, and looked at her fiercely.
"You may not have a place to talk in this family, but Xiao Lu does. Now she is the Gu family's wife, and the old man is willing to listen to her."
However, what Lu Xiaoning didn't expect was that the old man suddenly spoke up and completely supported and agreed with Lu Jiaoer. He was on her side.
"Thank you grandpa for your support, sister-in-law. No, ex-sister-in-law, you can get divorced. But you also have to pay child support, right?! Children can't grow up just by giving them a mouthful. They also have to study, eat and wear clothes. These are all It’s money, you and your eldest brother should each contribute half, right?!”
How can divorce be so easy? ! Divorce after a few decades will basically take a long time.
Child support and custody rights must also be related to the issue of support for the children when they grow up.
According to Lu Jiaoer's understanding of this era, considering the situation of the Gu family, Gu Fengrui must have provided money to support the family and the children, and Lu Xiaoning should not have taken out the money.
Of course, Lu Jiaoer didn't really intend to ask Lu Xiaoning to pay child support. He just wanted to disgust her, make her angry and make her feel sad.
From active to passive, the feeling of being counterattacked must be uncomfortable, right? !
"You, you, you, the man has always been the breadwinner of the family. It's a joke. I have never heard of a woman asking for money. As expected, you are from the countryside. You know you are obsessed with money."
Lu Xiaoning was really mad at Lu Jiaoer's words. She never expected that this country woman would actually want to pay for herself? !
It’s really unheard of, never heard of, country women are really snobbish and love money.
"That's not what they say. A family is run by both husband and wife, and each has responsibilities and obligations. Otherwise, why would you need a marriage certificate?! Doesn't it look good?! You also accepted the betrothal gift, right?! The eldest brother has supported the family these years. Is he raising you too?! Let’s not talk about the eldest brother spending money to support you. Let’s just say that the children are jointly owned by the husband and wife. Isn’t it natural for you to use money to raise the children?! Go outside and ask, which couple is not like this? !”
"You... our affairs have nothing to do with you. This is what Gu Fengrui is willing to do. What's the use of a grown man if he doesn't support his family?!"
"Okay, since you said so, then the eldest brother also supports the family, what use do you have as a woman who doesn't give birth to children and doesn't work?!"
"you……"
Lu Xiaoning was extremely angry at Lu Jiaoer's words. This country woman just wanted to make things difficult for her and wanted money.
Mr. Gu was stunned when he heard this. He never expected that his daughter-in-law would dare to speak so much. He could even hear what she meant.
It's not worth your life to piss someone off.
"what on earth do you want?!"
Lu Xiaoning was really angry for the first time in the Gu family. Usually she was the one who made people angry, but now it was the other way around.
Lu Jiaoer didn't speak, but looked her up and down with critical eyes.
I don’t know what this man is doing because he looks good? ! Can't hold on anymore. Of course, Gu Fengrui is also very good-looking, but it's a pity that it's useless.
Lu Xiaoning felt uncomfortable and angry, but the Gu family finally let go. She didn't want to lose such a good opportunity. Her sweetheart was leaving the country soon, and she had to follow him.
"As long as I can do it, I agree to everything."
After a while, Lu Xiaoning finally couldn't hold it any longer and said with insufficient confidence.
Things are changing.
At this time, Mr. Gu only thought of this sentence.
"You don't need to do anything. We are not the kind of heartless people, nor are we the kind of people without conscience and morality."
Lu Jiaoer had a smile on her face but spoke in a sinister tone. She was obviously in a good mood.
Lu Xiaoning, she knew that the other party was thinking about her, but she couldn't refute it.
"My plan is to cut off the relationship and have no contact with each other until we die. You won't support me when I'm young, and I won't support you when you are old. How about that?! Do you agree to this condition?!"
Lu Jiao'er cares most about this. How many people don't raise children, but when they get old, they still have children to support them. They also have requirements for alimony, and they still have to be blamed for giving money and effort. Why? !
"I promise, I promise everything."
Lu Xiaoning didn't even need to think about this condition and couldn't wait to agree without saying a word.
She is going abroad and will definitely not come back. Moreover, she will also have children of her own in the future, so she does not need those two children to support her.
"You need to write this down and find some reputable witnesses."
Lu Jiaoer once again proposed to find someone to prove it. It was better to forget it after saying it than to put it in black and white.
Mr. Gu agrees very much. He is no longer afraid of embarrassment. Who hasn't had some troubles? ! It’s just that his family has a lot of them.
Lu Xiaoning had no objection either.
"Any more?!"
"In addition to the fact that you can never visit, your mother's family can't visit the children either, so as to avoid shameless nonsense in front of the children."
This must be guarded against. Who knows if it will brainwash children? !
The old man also nodded, thinking that he really had to be on guard, who knows what will happen in the future.
Lu Xiaoning also agreed.
"Any more?!"
"The last one, the last condition for divorce, is that you have to get along well with your children three times. I don't want Xiaodongdong to know that his mother doesn't want him at such a young age, and I don't want him to have to spend his whole life when he grows up. To heal an unhappy and unhappy childhood.”
"I don't need you to stay here overnight. I just need you to accompany them to have a meal and play for a while. Finally, tell them that you have been sent abroad to work and will probably be away for a few years. Your attitude must be good, your tone must be good, and no beating or scolding is allowed. My child, don’t show any disgust. As long as you can do the above, you will be guaranteed to leave the country smoothly."
Lu Jiaoer didn't want Xiao Dongdong to become such a person. No child should bear the shadow of childhood for irresponsible adults. The person who needs to bear the shadow should be the adult.
Although the Gu family's material conditions are very good, they are not necessarily rich spiritually.
Mr. Gu looked shocked. He was shocked by Lu Jiaoer's words, and his hands were shaking gently.
"Okay, then you must ensure that I can get a divorce and leave smoothly."
Lu Xiaoning hesitated for a moment, then nodded and agreed. Although she knew that she could finally get a divorce, she didn't know why she wasn't so happy in her heart.
"No, old man, I personally guarantee you."
