4302 The emotion of being needed

Style: Historical Author: Pure heartWords: 2228Update Time: 24/01/11 23:59:34
Why is Zai Chun so kind to Queen Arut? Is it because the queen is so beautiful? Obviously not, because the appearance of the concubine is not inferior to that of the queen, and the women in the harem are much more beautiful!

So is it because Arut is very virtuous? Of course this is true, but in the Qing Dynasty, under the net of feudal ethics, basically all women were very virtuous. After all, this was a patriarchal society and a society where filial piety was respected!

There are countless aristocratic women who are as virtuous as Arut, and some are beautiful!

But there are so many choices, and Zai Chun is still a pervert by nature, but such an emperor is so caring and doting on this queen!

what is this? Many people simply cannot understand the twists and turns involved!

In fact, the only person in the world who truly understands Emperor Tongzhi is his master, the Second Devil Xiao Letian!

Xiao Letian wrote in his memoirs many years later that Zai Chun's love for the queen was actually a manifestation of "being needed" in psychology!

Humans are profit-seeking animals, and they all like to get, and get, and get again and again. Whether it is food, money, or women, the more the merrier!

Therefore, people rely on giving gifts to establish relationships. In other words, if you want to have a good relationship with someone, you have to pay benefits in advance!

If you have nothing to do, just drop by the house, give gifts, treat guests, and have a drink! We even go to a brothel together and drink wine together. These are all benefits to the outside world. I treat you well in exchange for our closer relationship!

The establishment of this intimate relationship between monarchs and ministers, or between superiors and subordinates in a company, is mostly reflected in the loyalty of subordinates and rewards from superiors!

I am a minister, so I will kowtow to the Emperor and shout long live, and do my best to do the Emperor's errands, thereby proving that I am capable and loyal to the Emperor!

Only in this way will the emperor treat you as a close minister and trust you!

Employees in large companies think the same way. I have to produce more results, I have to work more, and I have to be loyal to my leader, so that my leader will be close to me in the future!

Are these methods wrong? There's nothing wrong with it, but because everyone knows these superficial methods, it won't be uncommon if more people use these routines!

In Zaichun's harem, except for the queen, the other concubines were actually trapped in this obvious strange circle. They thought that this way could get the emperor's favor, but they never expected that the queen did not take this path, but got the favor. Zai Chun’s extraordinary love!

What is the reason? In fact, it is the 'being needed' plot in psychology!

Because the Arut family came from a weak aristocratic family, this woman's background was not deep, and her natal family's power was very weak. Zai Chun knew from the beginning that this girl was not strong!

More importantly, this Arut family was not liked by Cixi, and Ci'an's concern was only superficial and not very deep!

This girl was abused and inhumanly suppressed by her mother-in-law on the first day she entered the palace. What a pitiful queen!

But the more this happens, the more it arouses Zai Chun's protective desire. Maybe Zai Chun himself doesn't know it, but his subconscious keeps telling him!

"This girl needs you! Only you can protect him! You are his only hero!"

He needs you, Queen Arut needs you, no one can save him, only you, Zai Chun! This forms a plot of Zaichun's own 'being needed'!

You must know that Zai Chun is particularly lacking in need at this moment, because in the entire court, most people don't need you Zai Chun!

Haha, do you think it is Xiao Letian who needs Zai Chun, or Zai Chun who needs Xiao Letian more?

Do you think Cixi needs Zaichun as a son, or does Zaichun need Cixi more? After Emperor Tongzhi died, didn't Cixi also support Guangxu?

Not to mention Jaizi Liu, do their old guard need Zai Chun? Of course, they must say that they need it, but in fact, Zai Chun is a piece of shit!

Including those direct descendants in Zaichun's hands, do they really need this emperor? They kept showing off their strength in front of the emperor and proving their combat effectiveness!

In fact, these are all subtexts. They kept reminding the little emperor, "Your Majesty! You really need us! You need us, your direct descendants, to be able to secure your position. You must understand!"

That's it! This is how Zai Chun feels! Subconsciously, he knew very well that it was he who needed the whole world, not the whole world who needed him!

At this time, the fragile Arut was a ray of sunshine shining into his heart, and he was the little prince's most beloved rose!

Only Queen Arute is the one who really needs Zaichun. Without Emperor Tongzhi, she cannot survive in this world!

What a gloomy world! For Zai Chun, the whole world is dark and dangerous. How many assassinations did he encounter as a teenager?

Inside his powerful shell is actually a frightened soul, and this fragile soul can only be warmed by the more fragile rose of Alute!

"I...the Queen of the Qing Dynasty, Arut...I need your majesty's protection, real protection, and I completely rely on the same protection!"

Well, the most lacking part of Zaichun's emotions was made up by the queen. Only in front of the queen, he is a real man, a real emperor, a real mountain, a mountain that others can rely on. !

Xiao Letian closed his notebook, put down his pen, lit a cigarette, and recalled his poor apprentice!

"Actually, who doesn't need this kind of warmth in life? In this world, we struggle to give the illusion of being strong, but we can't hide our true nature as weak!"

"Who lives without a sense of danger? Who doesn't know that life is impermanent? Only when weaker people lend a helping hand to me and when I redeem them, I am actually truly redeemed!"

"You can see this emotion vividly from the greatest people...that is your parents!"

"When a baby is born, what can he provide to his parents? But the parents must give this child heartfelt love and raise him even if they have to sell blood!"

"The deepest emotion is one, being needed! Because this child must rely on the mountain of parents to survive!"

"Parents raising children can give them the greatest human emotion! I am important. I am the only indispensable person in this child's heart!"

"In the short few decades of my miserable life, only this child, who is made up of my own flesh and blood, will think that he is a truly strong man!"

"Yes! Among all living beings, I am alone and as humble as a grassroots! But in the eyes of my children, I am this world, this universe, and everything in between!"

"The humility and failures in my life can be washed away in the smile of a child!"

"It turns out that I am so great, it turns out that I am so strong!"

As the green smoke curled up, Xiao Letian recalled the miserable child, and the ink in the pen tip began to dry up!