"You have to remember one thing, everything is achieved through patience!" Cai Bixia wiped Xiang Ying's forehead with a cold towel. "You must learn to be patient in life. If the head of state doesn't ask you, don't say anything. If you say it, just say it." It proves that you are too determined to get the best!"
"My father once said that in the court, sometimes subordinates do very well, but they are always scolded by their superiors for no reason. You have to be careful in this situation..."
"Why is this? Why is it that no one scolds the colleague you hang out with even though his work is not as good as yours? No one puts pressure on him? Do you really think this is Shangguan's partiality? Do you really think it's because he is better than you? Is it hard backstage?”
"You little fool, this is actually a technique used by the superior to control his subordinates. It is very likely that he wants to reuse you!"
"Ah? What's the point..." Xiang Ying sat up immediately.
"What's the truth? Of course it's the truth..." Cai Bixia pushed him back to the bed and continued to wipe the heat from his body with a cold towel. "Generally speaking, if a superior wants to make use of you, he will find a way to suppress you in advance. If you think your superiors understand the true meaning of life, they want to see how high your mental endurance is!"
"The higher your official position, the greater the pressure on your shoulders, and the higher your position, the less you can shirk this pressure... You are a young boy, and when you encounter business difficulties, you have to go to the boss, but When the boss encounters a problem, who does he go to? Why not take it upon yourself!"
"It's the same with us Chinese people. When a soldier encounters a problem, he goes to the squad leader, and the squad leader goes to the company commander, and they report it upwards level by level... But who does the head of state go to when he encounters a problem? There is no one to turn to, and he simply pushes away the pressure on his shoulders. If you don’t go out, you will have to force yourself to solve it and bear it in the end..."
"Being a high-ranking official comes with the hardships of being a high-ranking official. As long as you bear the pressure, you deserve such a high salary and high benefits!"
"Don't be confused. In fact, just think about your own family. When a child has a problem, he will first think of his parents, and when a parent encounters a problem, he will first think of the more capable people in the clan..."
"What kind of person is the most respected? Of course, the one who can bear the most pressure and solve the problem is respected? If someone in the family files a lawsuit or conflicts with other clans, who will settle the matter? You can't rely on it. How about dealing with those coquettish children?"
"This is actually an iron law in officialdom! Whoever can withstand the most pressure and who can solve problems best will have more official aura, and it will be easier for him to accomplish something!"
"Those who are selfish and push the envelope, take advantage of advantages, and push back on hard work are destined to fail to flourish in officialdom!"
Seeing that Xiang Yingruo had realized something, Cai Bixia put down the towel and poured himself a glass of wine and took a sip. "Back to the question just now, it is precisely because senior officials in the officialdom understand this truth that they respond accordingly." An exploratory method!"
"The more they try to promote you and reuse you at critical moments, the more they try to suppress you, bully you, give you more work and scold you, because they have to test your limits, and that limit is the limit of your official position! "
Cai Bixia held the cold crystal cup and said seriously, "Xiang Ying! Remember, where is your goal in life? You must first understand how much pressure that goal will bear!"
"I know...I know that your dream in this life is to inherit the mantle of the master and become the prime minister of the Chinese nation and an enterprising prime minister! Since you have set your goal, you must first study how much pressure the master has borne. !”
"Do you really think that the head of state with power in East Asia is the best in the world? You are wrong, the pressure in the master's heart is so great that you can't imagine! The Manchus and the Qing Dynasty want to kill him, the British and French also want to kill him, and the Chinese nation's national destiny is going to improve. You know you will encounter How difficult is it?”
"All the current favorable situations are the result of the head of state's painstaking efforts step by step! When he was writing a book in Beijing, facing the aggressive Manchu offensive, didn't the head of state have to smile and pretend to be a grandson?"
"After a big victory in Ryukyu, don't you have to cover it up and try to deceive those bastards in the Forbidden City?"
"The French have attacked us Chinese repeatedly and massacred tens of thousands of Naha people, but we don't have to endure it! Because the head of state knows that at that time we simply don't have the capital to completely fall out with France! We have to wait until the Franco-Prussian War begins After that, we can use the power of Prussia to take our national destiny to a higher level!"
"Everything before this requires patience!"
"Only when facing the British, the head of state has to be patient. Before he has the strength to compete with the Royal Navy, what can you do if you can't bear it? Open the porthole and look, the British warships have covered the entire bay. This is A cruel reality that must be endured!”
"Can't bear it? If you can't bear it, they will kill you and sink you to the bottom of the Indian Ocean. If you can't bear it, you won't be able to survive! This is the law of the jungle!"
Cai Bixia let out a long breath and gently stroked Xiang Ying's face with his hand, "Little fool, you shouldn't take the initiative to dump the contents of your stomach today. You have exposed your desires in advance, and now the head of state knows about you." What is the goal of life!”
"Ah! Could it be that master is angry with me?" Xiang Ying's face turned pale, and a thought suddenly flashed in his mind, "Is it possible that the Chinese will still restore the monarchy in the future?"
Cai Bixia's body trembled, "Probably...probably not! The head of state has stated this attitude several times. He has never wanted to be the emperor, nor does he want to be the emperor!"
"Yes, I firmly believe that the master is not angry with you. What you are encountering now is the test of the head of state!"
Cai Bixia said categorically, "If your inner thoughts are seen by the head of state, the head of state will test you according to the ideal in your heart. In the future, you will receive too much pressure from the head of state!"
"Because the head of state must first test your bottom line to withstand pressure! He must judge whether you Xiang Ying has the ability to shoulder the pressure of the Chinese!"
"Pressure will come one after another like ocean waves, and the painful feeling will suffocate you. New difficulties are waiting for you to overcome, and problems will come endlessly..."
"You will fall into an extremely painful situation. The feeling of giving without getting anything in return will torture you to the point of going crazy. The squeeze when overcoming each difficulty will make you breathless!"
"Until you give up, until the moment you want to give up! That critical point is the limit you can reach in life! At that time, the head of state will naturally decide what position you are suitable for. Those who should be a general will be a general, and those who should be a minister will be The man who became a minister and became prime minister..."
"The one who is destined to come to the end..."
Note: Book friends, have you ever encountered this situation? You obviously work hard in school, but the teacher just keeps finding faults with you, often punishes you with extra homework, and just bullies you when nothing happens.
Now that I have a job, why do I have to do more than another person in the same position? Why does the leader always put the difficulties on himself instead of putting pressure on him?
Do you ever feel angry about unfairness and want to explode?
I have a message for you: 'All dharma can be achieved through patience! 'Sometimes others put more pressure on you, that's because they have seen that you are a piece of steel.
No one is interested in putting pressure on scrap metal, because everyone knows that even if those people put pressure on it, it will be in vain. They can't solve it at all, so they might as well not waste their words.
We must admit that this world is unfair. There are many people who try to use gray power, and there are indeed many people who are trying to be clever.
But remember one sentence, when people are being bullied when they are good, the second half of the sentence does not mean that the horse is being ridden by others. It was tampered by later generations. The original second half of the sentence is 'People are kind and nature does not bully!' '
Working hard to withstand pressure and solve problems is the only way to improve your strength. The ultimate test in study, life and work is your ability to bear pressure and solve problems.
Maybe there will come a day when the same problem is placed in front of everyone, and only you can solve it easily, while those who are trying to be smart will be stunned and helpless.
By that time, won’t the value of your life be reflected naturally?
In fact, many people have already understood these digressions I am talking about, but we must admit that there are still many young children among book friends, and young people who have just entered society.
Those of you who know better than me, don’t laugh at me, just laugh it off.
As for those children who have not heard these truths, I don’t expect you to accept them immediately, but I hope you will leave some space for this passage in your heart, even in the most remote corner.
Maybe after experiencing the hardships of society, one day these words can help you break through your confusion and become enlightened!
Sigh... These truths are no longer taught in schools now, and parents don't believe them anymore. I can only count them as pure and foolish, and if I can influence everyone, I'll count them!
