Seeing that the communication and comfort effect was not very good, Wang Qiang changed his mind.
He started with some moralizing and light criticism.
He must tell Du Long... you can't always blame yourself over there.
As Wang Qiang emphasized, it's okay to blame yourself, but just blaming yourself without summarizing and changing... is meaningless.
Simply blaming yourself will only plunge yourself into endless denial.
In the end, the actual problem cannot be solved, but becomes worse.
There is no self-reflection and summary of changes to ensure that every action can minimize or even avoid past mistakes.
This is the attitude a responsible person should have.
After Wang Qiang finished speaking, Derek took advantage of the opportunity and followed up: "Lao Huo saved you... you don't need to think too much.
Since you came out with our team, we are brothers. If you are in crisis, no matter who sees it, they will definitely come to the rescue.
Just like if your family is in danger, will you save them?
Do you worry when rescuing someone?
There certainly won't be...right.
So, Lao Huo saves you and this concept.
This is also what team means.
I don’t know what’s going on with other teams, but in our team, the team is home, and everyone in the team is family.
We act as a whole. No matter what happens, always remember that we are acting as a whole, and we must work together as a unit and cooperate with each other!
As for you feeling that you are dragging down Lao Huo and asking Lao Huo to risk his life to rescue you... you don't need to think too much about this.
Lao Huo is a veteran in the abandoned city. He has rich experience in dealing with various crises.
The beast wants to kill him? Not that easy.
Before he took action, he naturally considered the related risks.
He will not act rashly.
So, don't worry. "
Derek's words started with Huo Yuankai saving people.
The core focus is to eliminate Du Long's guilt.
But obviously Derek was exaggerating.
Yes, there is nothing to say about Lao Huo's rich experience in Operation Waste City.
The former has indeed been in and out of the abandoned city frequently and has experienced various crises. It can be said that he is not an experienced veteran.
But no one in the world, no matter how experienced they are, dares to guarantee that leaving the city in ruins will be foolproof.
Even Lao Huo couldn't do it.
Not to mention that Lao Huo took action to save Du Long at that time because he had no choice but to act out of desperation.
You must know that the jumper appears too suddenly, or jumps from high above his head.
The beast's attack speed is very fast, and it immediately takes action after locking Du Long.
At that time, Du Long was completely frightened out of his mind because he encountered such a situation for the first time. He lost his ability to react with zombies such as avoidance.
Under such circumstances, how could Huo Yuankai have enough time to analyze, judge, and take reasonable, correct and safe measures?
At this critical moment, Du Long's life and safety were at stake. A moment's hesitation on his part would lead to Du Long's bloody death from the zombies.
Therefore, Du Long's analysis was correct. Huo Yuankai was indeed risking his life to save him and taking a huge risk.
Lao Huo simply wanted to use himself to attract and distract the jumper's attention.
Only in this way can Du Long's safety be guaranteed to the greatest extent.
After hearing this, Du Long slowly raised his head and wanted to say something, but in the end he just opened his mouth and did not make a sound.
"It's okay, some things always require a process. Now that I have told you so much, you also need time to digest it. But Lao Du, I still say the same thing, don't think too much. We have all experienced what you have experienced, so Look at us... we haven't adapted yet.
We can adapt, and so can you.
But first, you must learn to adjust your emotions and state of mind.
In the abandoned city, if you don’t have the ability, you can learn. If you don’t have the experience, you can just accumulate slowly. But if the mentality is not good... then it is really a big problem.
. "
Wang Qiang still maintained his previous attitude.
To put it bluntly, Liang Dong analyzed the truth thoroughly enough and explained it clearly enough, whether it was him or Derek.
Although Du Long should indeed take care of his emotions now, he could indeed understand.
But just soothing and admonishing is not the answer.
Men, there are some things you have to learn to bear on your own.
This is exactly what Du Long needs to face and change.
It was also the first lesson I taught him when I went out today.
The reason why Wang Qiang said these words to Du Long was mainly because of his own experiences.
He was very clear about the Yang Xue incident at that time, if he hadn't adjusted his mood in time and cheered up from the misery.
If you stay stuck in that thing and can't extricate yourself, your life will be over.
And because I have experienced it myself, I understand even more clearly that some things cannot be solved by relying on others' advice and comfort.
If you don't adapt and adjust yourself, you will be miserable all day long...no one can save you.
Of course, more importantly... Wang Qiang felt that Du Long was a man.
He should be able to understand his good intentions and the deep meaning of his words.
As long as Du Long can test his own strength and adjust, it will undoubtedly be a huge improvement for him personally.
"Look, look, Lao Du. Do you understand what Xiao Wang said? There are some things that we can't just think about. The key is to implement them into actions." Liang Dong was sincere.
He didn't care whether Du Longming understood or not, and directly translated Wang Qiang's words.
"Let's go back and sum up today's situation, and try to avoid it next time. Otherwise, we won't be able to solve the problem no matter what we think about, and it will make people depressed... It's not worth it. What do you think?"
After being silent for almost 30 seconds, Du Long finally spoke: "Thank you everyone, I know everyone is saying this because they care about me. I'm fine, I understand. I think too much and complicate things.
Indeed, it’s useless to think about those things, just find ways to improve if you are lacking.
I don’t believe that I, Du Long, have been like this all my life!
One day, I must become someone like you, Qiangzi!
One day, I want to be able to become a truly useful person to the team!
"
"Okay! That's well said!" Wang Qiang applauded: "What I want is this spirit. Gentlemen, there is nothing you can do to defeat me!"
Gentlemen, as long as you still have breath, there is nothing you can't do!
I believe in your determination, Lao Du, and I also believe that you can grow into the person you say you are!
All of us are also waiting for that day to fight side by side with you!
"
At this time, Wang Qiang didn't care whether Du Long would be accepted by the team.
At least for now, people's backbone and determination are worthy of praise and encouragement.
Even if he really can't stay in the team for one reason or another in the future.
At the very least, if he has this awareness, he can survive better in the abandoned city.
"Hahaha! Okay, that's how it should be, Lao Du!
You were so worried about us before, and we were afraid that you wouldn't be able to get out of depression! Okay now, gentlemen, just do it!
"
