After Xue Jia's words were settled, Xue Guo, who had originally planned to get up to find Xue Qiang, stopped.
Fortunately, Xue Jia was there to give him such advice.
Otherwise, with Xue Guo's temper, he might have rushed directly to Xue Qiang's room by now.
Just as Xue Jia worried, with the current temper of Xue Guo versus Xue Qiang's emotions, it would definitely be like needle versus wheat, Mars versus earth, and there would definitely be a quarrel between them.
And such irrational bickering is obviously not conducive to explaining and resolving the matter clearly.
Such irrational bickering will only make things worse! !
Seeing Xue Guo breathing calmly and calming down, Xue Jia felt a little relieved.
If Xue Guo really wanted to cause an irreconcilable conflict today because of his "frankness", she would really be upset to death.
However, since Xue Jia chose to be honest with Xue Guo about this matter, he believed that his elder brother could control it.
After confirming that Xue Guo did not take any further action, Xue Jia continued: "Brother, don't blame Qiangzi too much! His starting point is actually good, and he also considers this family.
It's just because dad and you both have various objections to his opinions. The point is dad. You didn't know it before you came back. Dad didn't give Qiangzi a reason to explain himself.
This makes Qiangzi very frustrated, and you also know his father's temper. He never cares about other people's emotions when training, regardless of the occasion.
In Xue Qiang's situation, it would be fine if he was ignored and reprimanded once or twice.
But it has always been like this. He is also an adult and has a temper.
You can't ask him to keep suppressing it.
It's over. After you came back, Lao Xu's team originally left without stopping the day you came back.
But he chose to stay because he believed that you would understand him and reject Lao Xu's alliance cooperation proposal.
He also believes that you are the only one in this family who has the ability to convince his father to accept this decisive point of view.
Unfortunately, it backfired! !
He didn't expect that you would choose to support Lao Xu's proposal in the end.
Not only did they support it, they also put forward a specific action plan! !
This result is another double blow to hadron! !
Later, he was unwilling to give in and took me and Xue Fu to find you. He also planned to give you one last communication and enlightenment, trying to try his best to persuade you.
But in the end, brother, you also know that you said something very forcefully at that time... You will definitely keep doing this! !
After experiencing successive blows, Xue Qiang's whole will collapsed.
He couldn't help it. He came to me yesterday and said that he wanted to make everyone in the family anxious.
His point of view is actually understandable.
He thinks that it doesn't make sense for him to reason with you, and you won't listen at all.
Since Xue Qiang’s power is limited, and since you don’t listen to Xue Qiang’s words, he will pull the family together!
Although I have clearly vetoed this matter for him and expressed my disapproval.
But Big Brother, Qiangzi did this because he had no choice but to do so.
I'm not telling you this to ask you to argue with Qiangzi.
To be honest, the two of you are in the same emotional state now and can't solve any problem except conflicts and quarrels.
The real purpose of me telling you this is to tell you... the reality at home.
I believe that Xue Qiang’s thoughts are definitely not his alone! !
He was just forced to use more extreme methods to throw out ideas to himself! !
But other people in the family don’t have these thoughts?
I don’t think so! !
Brother, with the current situation, as long as you insist on continuing to promote your plan, extreme ideas like Xue Qiang’s will be inevitable! ! "
Xue Jia gave another long and upright speech.
On the one hand, he told Xue Guo that he hoped that Xue Guo could understand Xue Qiang and not blame Xue Qiang too much.
After all, as Xue Jia analyzed, Xue Qiang's starting point was good, and he was for this family after all.
The reason why he is so extreme is mainly because his family cannot understand him! !
As long as the family can understand what he says and does, and Lao Xue can listen to his analysis and opinions, there is no need to be so arrogant and unreasonable in reprimanding... Xue Qiang will not have such a big reaction.
On the other hand, Xue Jia wanted to make Xue Guo understand that the ideological trend in the family had been formed.
This cannot be avoided by Xue Guo's strong insistence.
If Xue Guo blindly ignores the opinions of his family and forcefully promotes the relevant process according to his own ideas, the final development of the situation is likely to cause a rift within the family.
Xue Jia believed that this was definitely not the outcome his elder brother wanted.
No matter how things develop, family stability is the top priority! !
If you can't even guarantee the stability of your own home, then all the talk is in vain! !
Xue Guo was silent for more than ten seconds after hearing this.
He was also thinking about what Xue Jia said.
That's all, he took a long breath and then said: "Jia, I understand what you want to express. These are what I am more worried about at the moment.
You are right, no matter how strong I am, I will definitely not be able to go long without the support of my family!
That's why I said I need your help! !
I need you to help me do work for my family and convey my thoughts to them.
As for these, I should have been the one to do them.
But on my side... to be honest, I don’t know how to tell my family!
You know, I am impatient and my temper is not that good.
If I were to talk about it, I would probably get into an argument! !
This is not conducive to solving the problem.
It's different for you. You are in management, and your language skills are much better than mine.
His endurance and temperament are also better than mine in every aspect! !
I've been thinking for a long time. Apart from you, the only person in this family who can communicate smoothly with my family... I really can't think of anyone else who is more suitable.
Are you willing to take my place and help me communicate with my family? I know it's a bit overwhelming for you to play this role of communicator right now. But brother, I really can’t help it. "
Xue Guo's words were very emotional.
He originally didn't want to throw out the helplessness in his heart.
As the mainstay of the family and a real man, Xue Guo is not the kind of person who likes to complain about his difficulties in front of others.
He has always been the one to swallow whatever happens and carry it on his own.
But at this moment, after listening to Xue Jia's heartfelt analysis, Xue Guo frankly revealed his difficulties and helplessness.
As Xue Guo himself emphasized.
No matter how persistent Xue Guo is, what he wants to do next will not last long without the support of his family.
No matter how powerful Xue Guo is, he cannot handle everything by himself.
The most important thing is that Xue Guo can't do it if he wants to get support from his family! !
Although I don't want to admit it, the actual situation at home... The family and Xue Guo are not of the same mind! !
This is the most tiring place for Xue Guo.
Everything he did was for the Xue family, but the Xue family was very resistant to his actions!
