"However, I also have to emphasize to you, Old Wei, that... your temper really needs to be changed! Especially when it comes to tasks and team decision-making... Some of our decisions are not aimed at a specific person, but the overall situation of the team and Consider the future comprehensively.
I also hope that you, Lao Wei, can understand more in this regard.
In the end, we are all brothers! I dare not say here that we will definitely have no conflicts in the future... That is nonsense! !
It is impossible for people not to have conflicts between people.
Everyone has different ideas. Unless there is no contact and no communication...then there will be no conflicts.
But as long as we have contact, conflicts and disagreements between brothers like us are bound to happen.
When encountering this kind of situation, I hope that both of us can calm down and think more.
I think there is no problem that cannot be solved through negotiation.
I believe even more...that these differences of opinion between us will not affect our brotherly feelings.
What do you think? Lao Wei! ? "
In terms of talking skills... Wei Dazhuang naturally cannot be Huang Shuang's opponent.
Huang Shuang used to be a leader. Reasoning and appeasing people were his strengths.
In comparison, Wei Dazhuang could only vent his anger... Huang Shuang's words were obviously more moving.
Listening carefully to Huang Shuang's words, he actually reprimanded Wei Dazhuang for all kinds of "misbehavior" and excessive behavior.
However, if he stops talking throughout the sentence, the person concerned will not be annoyed.
The reason is simple, Huang Shuang is a smart man.
While he pointed out Wei Dazhuang's shortcomings, he also did not forget to think from his perspective... and criticized himself.
This move is very powerful.
Even if Wei Dazhuang felt uncomfortable listening to Huang Shuang's words, Huang Shuang's empathy later made it impossible for him to find a point of attack.
Not to mention, Huang Shuang deliberately brought out the brotherhood to make a fuss in the end.
Wei Dazhuang is definitely a man who values love and righteousness.
Otherwise, he wouldn't have said that he was having a cold war with Huang Shuang here and was sulking.
He is like this because he wants to contribute to the team and share the worries of his brothers. Being rejected makes him unhappy.
After listening to Huang Shuang's heartfelt words, Wei Dazhuang fell into silence as expected.
Wei Dazhuang didn't speak, and Huang Shuang also kept silent.
He knew that after he had said so much, he needed to give Wei Dazhuang some time to think and digest.
As for whether Wei Dazhuang would be able to accept Huang Shuangzheng's explanation in the end... Huang Shuang couldn't figure it out.
But in his heart, he still hopes that Wei Dazhuang can accept it, and the two sides can "turn their hostility into friendship" and untie the knot between them.
The two of them solved the knot not only for themselves, but also for the whole team.
Otherwise, if Wei Dazhuang continues to quarrel with Huang Shuang like this, in the same small tank... this bad atmosphere will inevitably affect the other team members.
At this time when the Victor Alliance team needs to join forces to fight against the skinheads, the Victor Alliance team, which is at an absolute disadvantage, needs to unite.
And unity is precisely the only way they have been able to overcome crises in the past and survive in the apocalypse to this day! !
In Wei Dazhuang, he also expected Huang Shuang to say these words to him.
This was somewhat inconsistent with his impression of Huang Shuang, a capable and cultural person.
It is precisely because of this that Wei Dazhuang fell into deep thought for a while after Huang Shuang finished speaking.
Just as Huang Shuang expected, Wei Dazhuang was digesting what he said.
What he just said was a little too informative! !
After being silent for about a minute, Wei Dazhuang finally spoke again: "Okay, Lao Huang, you have said so much, what else can I say?
As for what you said, I will accept it 100% regardless of what you say.
But I agree with your last sentence, yes! ! Yes, we are all brothers.
The most important thing between brothers is mutual understanding and communication.
On this issue, I admit that I was a little too selfish because of my temper.
I did not consider the feelings of the team and you, I hope you can understand this.
As for other things, I have made it very clear to you about my psychological discomfort.
Regarding these things, I believe we will definitely have conflicts in the future.
So, don’t expect me to agree with everything you say after this conversation.
snort! I, Wei Dazhuang, am not that easy to talk to! !
I still have to deal with things that I don’t accept! !
I definitely didn’t say this! !
However, through today's contact, at least one thing is clear: if something similar happens again in the future, we can do whatever we want on the field, and we can find more opportunities to communicate in private after the incident.
The core purpose is just one thing, no matter what you do, don’t hurt the harmony between our brothers.
Do you think you can accept what I say? "
"Yes! That's so acceptable, Old Wei!!" Without any hesitation, Huang Shuang immediately clapped her hands in decisive affirmation.
Huang Shuang never thought of convincing Wei Dazhuang.
If Wei Dazhuang could change his mind with just one contact and communication... then he would not be Wei Dazhuang.
Huang Shuang came to communicate with Wei Dazhuang this time, on the one hand, to ease the other party's emotions and resolve conflicts between the two parties.
On the other hand, we hope to reach some kind of ideological agreement through this frank communication between the two parties.
This agreement is what Wei Dazhuang just mentioned. The differences of opinions are differences of opinion, but the brothers' feelings cannot be hurt because of this.
After all, as Huang Shuang emphasized, when he refused Wei Dazhuang's various outings, he was considering the overall situation from the perspective of his commander, and he was doing business.
When it comes to him personally... Huang Shuang has no dislike or specific feelings towards Wei Dazhuang.
If Xu Renjie hadn't been elected as the temporary acting commander of the station... Huang Shuang wouldn't have caused such a series of unpleasant moments with Wei Dazhuang.
"Old Wei, then we've settled this matter. If we encounter related matters in the future, you and I can have conflicts of opinion, but it's not about the person. We need to ensure that we have a private communication channel with each other, just like today."
"Of course, you can." Wei Dazhuang responded simply.
After getting Wei Dazhuang's affirmation, Huang Shuang took advantage of the situation and gave Wei Dazhuang some instructions on the key points to pay attention to in the action.
However, Huang Shuang also paid great attention to the method when he told Wei Dazhuang.
He did not adopt the serious and solemn preaching method.
If he takes this approach... he'll be kicked in the head by a donkey.
Wei Dazhuang's temperament will not and cannot accept it! !
Huang Shuang adopts more of a kind of teasing among friends, saying the core of what he wants to express in a joking tone.
This sounds like preaching, but it is undoubtedly easier to accept than straightforward preaching.
"Okay, Old Wei, you are leaving tomorrow. Take a good rest now that you have time. I won't disturb you anymore."
