Wei Dazhuang did not say these unpleasant words, which also shows that he still cares about brotherhood.
Although he was angry and aggrieved, he had not reached the point where he would turn against the team.
There is no doubt about this! !
Wei Dazhuang's psychological words have been clearly stated.
Next, what he needs is... Huang Shuang can give him a reasonable and clear explanation.
Therefore, Huang Shuang asked him to listen to the words, and Wei Dazhuang nodded patiently.
"Old Wei, I know you don't believe what I'm telling you. But we have never said we doubted your ability!! Let alone refused you to go out because of your ability!!
Especially me, Huang Shuang, you said it yourself, you are an old team member.
Compared to me, Huang Shuang, your seniority in the team is much higher than mine. He has combat experience and is better than me in every aspect.
I, Huang Shuang, personally have absolutely no dissatisfaction or thoughts towards you, Lao Wei.
However, as a temporary commander, Lao Xu left the security of the station in my hands when he left. I must be responsible for him.
I can't say that I made the right decision.
After all, I have never been in this position before.
If my decision makes you dissatisfied, Lao Wei, I would like to apologize to you here.
But an apology is an apology, and I still have to make it clear to you, Old Wei, that your temper is too grumpy.
If you are not allowed to participate in some tasks, you are really worried about losing control of your actions for one reason or another.
As for this mission to Lao Xue... I can say responsibly that I will not accept Lao Xu's choice of you for psychology.
At least initially, I couldn't understand or accept Lao Xu's agreement to accept your proposal and let you participate.
Because I feel that in this operation, we don’t know the situation on Lao Xue’s end.
There is a high probability that people will not accept our proposal to cooperate.
There is actually nothing that should or should not be done about this matter.
It is a duty for others to help us, but it is a duty not to help us.
But Wei, your character, on the court, if the other party refuses, will you accept it calmly?
Based on my understanding of you, I am not afraid that you will be unhappy. I can be 100% sure... you can't accept it.
And you are the kind of person who puts everything on your face and doesn't beat around the bush.
You will definitely fall out with someone on the spot.
I'm just afraid that you will do this, so I don't want you to participate! !
I won’t hide it from you. I specifically talked to Lao Xu about this matter. And just finished the conversation. "
What Huang Shuang said to Wei Dazhuang should be said to be very clear and thorough.
Even for this mission...he did not hide his objections.
This also fully shows Huang Shuang's sincerity in coming to talk this time.
As the saying goes, break and then stand.
If you want to truly understand the war and confrontation between Wei Dazhuang and Wei Dazhuang, you must first be honest.
Especially when facing someone like Wei Dazhuang who doesn't know how to bend his mind... If you are not straightforward and frank enough... Wei Dazhuang himself is not convinced by the words of Huang Shuang and others, saying that you are deceiving him.
In this situation... if you give him all your thoughts, he might not even give you a chance to talk to you like now.
This is definitely not what Huang Shuang wants to see happen, and it is definitely not what Huang Shuang wants to achieve.
If today's communication cannot alleviate the situation, but instead makes the emotional conflict between the two parties more serious... Huang Shuang would rather not make this trip.
Therefore, what Huang Shuang said was straightforward, without any ambiguity or hesitation! !
And after Wei Dazhuang heard Huang Shuang's "truth"... his reaction was also very real.
His brows were knitted together, and the word "Chuan" could be clearly seen on his forehead.
Wei Dazhuang was very angry and the problem was serious.
Huang Shuang must have noticed the solemn expression on Wei Dazhuang's face.
But Huang Shuang didn't say that she was afraid because of this, or that she regretted being so candid.
On the contrary, this is what Huang Shuang hopes to see.
He just wanted to make it clear to Huang Shuang what the two sides said to each other in this situation where both sides were equal.
Just now, Wei Dazhuang had already made his thoughts and opinions on relevant matters very clear and straightforward.
Now it's Huang Shuang's turn.
"Old Wei, I told Old Xu to cancel your action plan. The reason is that I mentioned it before. It has nothing to do with your ability. Your ability is absolutely suitable for participating in this mission.
The only reason I don't accept it is your temper. You usually can't control your emotions well when encountering problems.
We went to Lao Xue's place to discuss cooperation, but we encountered a problem, lacked manpower, and needed the other party's help to fight the enemy together.
It’s not about what Lao Xue needs our cooperation to deal with.
So, just from this point of view... The ugly thing I said is that we used to ask others to do things.
When you ask for help from someone, you have to act like you are asking for help from someone! !
Why can't we say that asking for help must be forced? !
They don't owe us anything. Even if we saved his old Xue’s life before!
We can’t just ask people to become skinheads with us because of this! !
Moreover, collaboration must be based on voluntariness.
Otherwise, even if you forcefully win people over, there will be big problems in the future.
Of course, these are Huang Shuang’s personal opinions.
What I said may not be correct. You, Wei Dazhuang, must be unconvinced.
But Lao Wei, I believe you yourself know that it is a fact that you have a bad temper. It is true that you are capable of doing things, but it is also true that you are impulsive! !
As the temporary acting commander of the station, I must consider the overall situation in everything I do.
You, Wei Dazhuang, might say that you have a bad temper and that your impulsive temper is normal and a thing of the past.
You won’t do that on this mission! !
As for me, I still have to make judgments based on your usual style of conduct.
I can't risk it! !
However, after I informed Lao Xu of my objections, Lao Xu said to me... You want me to understand you, and you want me to understand what you want to solve for the team.
Also, he asked me to put myself in your shoes and ask me what it would be like to be rejected every time.
After listening to Lao Xu's words, I thought for a moment, if it were me... I would also feel psychologically uncomfortable.
At the same time, Lao Xu also emphasized that we need to give you, Lao Wei, a channel to vent.
So, after I figured this out, I came to find you.
My purpose in coming here is to have a sincere communication with you, Old Wei.
I know there has been a lot of friction between you and me over the past period of time due to tasks.
You, Wei Dazhuang, are also very dissatisfied with Huang Shuang's decision.
I'm here to listen to you and give you a chance to vent.
At the same time, I also want to apologize to you. Some of the things I considered were indeed inappropriate.
I was so focused on the big picture that I ignored your feelings.
This is my shortcoming and I did not handle it well. I hope you can forgive me, Wei.
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