Han Lu's learning efficiency is low, which has a lot to do with his learning methods. Han Lu realized this early on. It seems that she has low learning efficiency, but in fact it is not the case. Low learning efficiency is only for science. Han Lu's liberal arts study It is not difficult to learn, so the deeper problem is that he does not have the ability to think independently about science subjects, because Lu Baoping has always explained mathematics to Han Lu since he was a child, and he has never analyzed a new knowledge by himself. This also resulted in Han Lu absorbing new knowledge much more slowly.
Therefore, Lu Baoping's three-step strategy for Han Lu seemed to have stopped at the first step during her three years in junior high school...
After intensifying her study, Han Lu not only had no time to play, but also had very little time to sleep. She studied until midnight every day and was so sleepy that she couldn't open her eyes in class in the morning. But even so, Han Lu's The results still didn't change much, which made Lu Baoping even more anxious. She didn't care how tired and tormented Han Lu was, she only knew that she had to squeeze Han Lu hard, so she planned to start educating Han Lu with beatings and scoldings. , but what she didn't expect was that Han Lu had changed now. She was half a head taller than Lu Baoping when she stood up. Only then did Lu Baoping realize that she could no longer impress him.
Even if she couldn't beat Han Lu, Lu Baoping could never just let Han Lu go. She changed from beating to scolding, to using moral kidnapping to restrain Han Lu. Han Lu's most proud achievements in the past were no longer the same. He couldn't accept the collapse. He didn't know why everything turned out like this. He didn't work hard enough.
These doubts, coupled with Lu Baoping's incomprehension of Han Lu, the cold looks from school teachers, and the exclusion of classmates, made Han Lu's originally introverted character become more introverted and distorted, making her feel even more inferior than before. In this way, the temper that had been accumulated for more than six years was no longer under control and emerged crazily. As long as Lu Baoping scolded him, he also scolded Lu Baoping. At first, he just talked back. Lu Baoping did not realize the subtleties of Han Lu's psychology. Change, as long as Han Lu talks back, she will definitely scold him back.
The relationship between mother and son became worse and worse. It was at this stage that Han Lu gradually changed from the good child who was obedient and respected her parents to an "unfilial son" who bit her teeth and made harsh remarks to her parents. All of this was Lu Baoping's selfish and greedy fate! .
Junior high school is the fuse of all cause and effect. This stage seems to be just Han Lu's learning problems, but it is also the time when the family conflicts intensify, because junior high school students already have a basic understanding of the world, and he knows what is right. What is wrong, have your own opinion on things.
In Lu Baoping's eyes, all this was like a doll that had been manipulated by herself before becoming self-aware. This was something Lu Baoping could never accept. In her opinion, she still wanted to manipulate Han Lu like a doll.
This world is about karma, cause causes cause, cause causes cause. Good causes and good results, good results and good causes. Evil causes evil consequences, evil consequences evil causes. The pity is that Lu Baoping never realizes her mistake. She never realizes that her son has two completely different personalities in elementary school and junior high school. In elementary school, Han Lu was obedient and obedient. She believed deeply in her parents' words and never Will talk back to her parents; after junior high school, Han Lu has no respect for her parents at all. She talks back lightly and often yells and threatens her parents.
The changes in the sky and the earth did not cause Lu Baoping to think deeply at all. At that time, Lu Baoping was more concerned about Han Lu's grades. When her son talked back to herself, she simply thought that Han Lu's rebellious period had come. This Children at this stage are disobedient to their parents. As long as this stage is passed, everything will be fine. She believed that Han Lu would understand her kindness one day.
However, Lu Baoping did not realize that the problem was much bigger than she imagined, and all of this could not be covered by a sentence of rebellious period. In the past ten years or so, Lu Baoping has forcefully forced a well-behaved and obedient son to speak harshly to her. This shows that she did not plant good causes in the first place, and what she gets will naturally not be good results.
Therefore, Lu Baoping, who does not think she has done anything wrong, continues to go down the wrong road and continues to sow her evil causes. In her world, she is always right. Unfortunately, everything in the world is not based on her. The will of change is determined by the world's right and wrong. If Lu Baoping does not admit or correct her mistakes, reality will not tolerate her, and Han Lu will not tolerate her! One day she will pay the due price for all the sins she has committed!
First half of the first grade of junior high school
The period passed in a blink of an eye. Han Lu's final exam results were very poor, and she failed in both math and English. At the final parent-teacher meeting, Han Lu's junior high school teacher Ren Gaofei said impatiently to Lu Baoping: "Your child's grades are too poor. With your child’s grades, he will have to repeat the grade, but not in our Yuanhang No. 2 Middle School..."
As mentioned before, Lu Baoping couldn't bear to hear other people's insulting and sarcastic words. After listening to Ren Gaofei's lecture, she cried all the way home. She told Han Lu exactly what the class teacher Ren Gaofei said. They also add insult to injury and confuse right and wrong, saying that Han Lu is the only one in the class who failed in math and English in this exam. The fact is that there are many people in the class who failed in these two subjects and did worse than Han Lu. There is no other reason. , everyone has not adapted to the learning model of junior high school. Many people have gradually become good students after adjusting their methods after this exam.
Han Lu is different from others, because the one who was most affected by this exam was Lu Baoping. After Lu Baoping was ridiculed by the class teacher, she concealed the truth of the matter and kidnapped Han Lu with morality. In the following months, she was like She squeezed Han Lu like crazy. In her eyes, she would never allow her son to be such a waste. She believed that her son could squeeze out more money.
In the following months, and even during the Chinese New Year period, the conflict between mother and son became deeper and deeper, and the gap between them became wider and wider. Lu Baoping always thought that Han Lu was in her rebellious phase, so why did she wait until Han Lu passed this period? During the rebellious period, you will definitely regret the present, and you will definitely understand your parents.
It's a pity that all this is just Lu Baoping's self-righteous thoughts, because all this cannot be explained by the rebellious period. Facts have also proved that ten years later, when Han Lu looked back on these things, she felt that she had done nothing wrong, and she only hated I was too kind to Lu Baoping at the beginning, and the methods I used were not ruthless enough!
Because parents like Lu Baoping, who are selfish, self-righteous, greedy for profit, bully the small, bully the weak and fear the hard, are not worthy of their respect at all!
Afterwards, Han Lu also analyzed that the reason for the poor performance this time was because Han Lu had to dictate English words every day, and there were a lot of them. Basically, just one English dictation would take an entire night, and she had no time to review other subjects, and Han Lu's English is the worst among all subjects, and it is the most difficult to improve her grades. All of this is retribution for the two hateful and hateful incidents about English in elementary school!
After Han Lu thought about it, he suggested that Lu Baoping divide her evening time evenly, put English, the worst and most difficult subject to improve, to the end, and focus on other subjects. This will have an impact on the overall score and grade ranking. Very helpful. But Lu Baoping disagreed. When these words reached Lu Baoping's ears, it became clear that Han Lu was going to give up English, so Lu Baoping started her moral kidnapping again, telling her how important it was. I said it again, and said that in college, you must pass CET-4 in English. If you cannot pass it, you will not be able to graduate. Some social enterprise recruitment even requires CET-6...
Through Han Lu's suggestion, Lu Baoping also guessed Han Lu's idea. Because every day's English dictation requires parents to sign, Han Lu's idea was to let Lu Baoping help him fake it and not waste too much on this dictation word. time, but Lu Baoping was unwilling to help Han Lu fake it at all. The final result was that English killed many subjects that could have passed or even passed the exam, and earned cynicism from the head teacher.
To this day, Han Lu still doesn't understand why Lu Baoping was unwilling to help her with the fraud. It took more than four hours for her to sign a signature. How can she be said to be honest? Be honest? Haha, Lu Baoping goes as far as not abiding by the agreement she made with Han Lu, and goes as far as helping the company at work and helping her boss make false accounts!
I had never seen her act so upright and upright when she was making false accounts, and she was even a little proud of it!
This final exam had a particularly great impact on Lu Baoping, and Lu Baoping's behavior also profoundly affected Han Lu. The mutual influence between mother and son also led Lu Baoping to make the most absurd decision, and Han Lu also failed because of her lack of Timely discovery and timely prevention made Han Lu's learning deteriorate to an extreme.
After the start of the new semester, Lu Baoping believed that Han Lu's mathematics and English especially needed to be improved. Han Lu could at least pass the language, politics and history category, so there was no need to study more. Lu Baoping helped Han Lu write these liberal arts assignments. Han Lu, just learn math and English well!
Look, everyone, what a ridiculous decision! What a double standard, what a hypocritical mother!
Lu Baoping was unwilling to help her son write English dictation and sign forgery, but she was willing to help her son write liberal arts homework and deceive the liberal arts teacher!
Han Lu was also confused by the authorities, and realized it later. When she came to her senses, it was too late.
Han Lu's liberal arts studies are not considered good at all, and her scores in each liberal arts subject can only be guaranteed to be around seventy. This is also the legacy of Han Lu's deep foundation in liberal arts in elementary school. But even this little fortune was destroyed by Lu Baoping. on this wrong decision.
Lu Baoping helped Han Lu write liberal arts homework for half a semester until the mid-term exam. Lu Baoping's original intention was to give up liberal arts temporarily. Anyway, she felt that Han Lu had a good foundation in liberal arts, so it was no big deal to give up for a while. She must Learn math and especially English well!
