Later, Han Lu learned from her lesson that she shouldn't answer the additional questions unless she was 100% sure of getting them right. Anyway, they were not counted in the total score. As long as she didn't answer, she didn't make a mistake. Lu Baoping naturally responded to the two additional questions that she didn't answer. She will not get angry. This seems to be just a very trivial decision, but over time it has caused Han Lu to avoid the important and take the easy. When it comes to learning, she will not learn things that she can avoid, and only those things that cannot be avoided. Only then did I bite the bullet and go to school.
Is it Lu Baoping's responsibility or Han Lu's own responsibility for developing this bad habit?
I’m afraid this question deserves someone’s deep thought!
However, based on Han Lu's understanding of Lu Baoping, I believe she will never admit her mistakes, because in her world view, what she does is always right, and Han Lu will only be wrong!
Since entering the second grade, Han Lu has been working very hard on her studies. She gave up most of her beautiful childhood and immersed herself in the pain of studying. When other children were studying, she was studying, and when other children were playing, she was still studying. While studying, at that time, although he didn't know when he would be able to get rid of studying completely, he believed that one day all the hardships would be over.
In the subsequent study career, Han Lu achieved excellent results in both subjects. Whether it was Chinese or mathematics, whether it was quizzes, monthly exams or even mid-term and final exams, Han Lu's scores reached above 95 points and 100 points. Even so, Lu Baoping had never looked directly at Han Lu, thinking that all the results he achieved today were due to his dedicated tutoring. It would be damned if he could score such a high score without his own tutoring. It’s over! And I don’t know how hard it is to tutor such an old-fashioned brain. The same questions have to be taught seven or eight times before he can master them. Not only that, Han Lu is also a fathead, and he takes his time in everything he does...
Lu Baoping often scolded Han Lu like this, giving Han Lu countless "nicknames" such as Han Erban, Han Routou, etc. In her eyes, Han Lu was full of shortcomings, and she couldn't see anything about Han Lu. In her eyes, she can't see the advantages of her own son, but she can see the advantages of other people's children. Even the smallest advantages can be infinitely magnified by Lu Baoping more than a hundred times!
In elementary school, there was a perfect square formula and square variance formula. Han Lu could never learn this type of question. Lu Baoping looked at Han Lu's elm-like head and hated that iron could not become steel. She hit Han Lu hard and scolded her. , forcibly twisting her biological son's arm until it was bruised and bruised, she still couldn't get over it. During lunch, Lu Baoping made a plate of fried chicken legs, which only Han Lu was allowed to see, but Han Lu was not allowed to eat. What did she say? If you cannot learn the word problems of these two formulas in the afternoon, you are not allowed to eat dinner. When you learn it, you will eat it!
In the afternoon, Han Lu still had not fully learned these two formulas. These two formulas are very easy to change, and it is even more difficult to use them in applied problems. Lu Baoping explained this kind of problem no less than ten times, and said to her in anger. Han Lu's curses were even more unbridled.
Han Lu shed tears and looked at the person closest to her in front of her with great fear. They all said that only mother is good in the world, and a mother's child is like a treasure. But can this lyric really be applied to Han Lu? Thinking about what her mother had done, Han Lu felt nothing but chills.
During Han Lu's three-year study career, he vaguely discovered that his mother did not love him at all. She just regarded him as a learning machine, constantly squeezing and demanding. In her heart, he was probably just the child of her colleagues in the work unit. Comparison is a tool to fight for face. It is like two women getting a beautiful dress at the same time. When they meet, they must compare themselves with each other!
But Han Lu is a human being, not a machine. He has his own emotions, joys, sorrows, and thoughts, and is not a doll at the mercy of others. Every time Lu Baoping beats or scolds him, it will hurt his young heart. It will also change his inner world.
Perhaps, all cause and effect starts from this perfect square formula and square square formula...
After going through a lot of hardships, she finally learned this formula, but the price of learning this formula was expensive. It seems that from that time on, Han Lu discovered that she was different from other peers, both in terms of study and life. , there is a huge gap between them. The students in the same class as Han Lu have colorful lives, unlike Han Lu who only lives by studying.
In their world, there are blue skies and white clouds,
Sunshine and rain. It was as if they were born as saplings that thrived in the sun and would surely grow into towering trees in the near future. Han Lu was like a sapling growing in a dark corner. Although she could see the light, she could not enjoy it. , the distance from darkness to light is the farthest distance in the world.
Others all had happy childhoods. They ate fast food such as hamburgers and French fries countless times. Their children also had game consoles, bicycles, and many other toys. As for Han Lu, things like KFC are luxuries to her, and she can only watch them. As for game consoles, Lu Baoping won't even let Han Lu watch cartoons, and game consoles and computers are even more ridiculous.
I remember that starting from the third grade of elementary school, the school had a microcomputer class. Since Han Lu did not often come into contact with computers, she was far inferior to other students at the beginning of this class. Other students had a basic understanding of computers through the large-scale 3D games they played. Although Han Lu said that her uncle had a computer, except that he could go to his grandfather's house to play on the computer during the winter and summer vacations, he had no time to play at all. Even during the winter and summer vacations, sometimes his uncle was using the computer. Han Lu Lu didn't have the chance to play either, so Han Lu had very little time with the computer.
Logically speaking, this was a normal thing, but she couldn't remember which day it was when Lu Baoping suddenly discovered that her son knew nothing about computers and scolded him again, although this was not like Han Lu's wrong question in the exam. Although she was so fierce, it was also obvious that she was dissatisfied with Han Lu.
In this regard, Han Lu naturally argued that there was no computer at home, and she could not learn anything just by attending class for forty minutes. At this moment, Lu Baoping became more excited and said, "Don't think I don't know. You often stay at your uncle's house." If you play on the computer, why don’t you learn computer knowledge?
Han Lu was stunned for a moment. He seemed to have seen through his mother further. Lu Baoping not only refused to admit her fault, but was also good at finding opportunities to find opportunities and cleverly pushed Han Lu's fault for something that was not Han Lu's in the first place. , as if he shouldn't touch his uncle's computer at all.
Many years later, Han Lu also understood that even if she really didn't touch her uncle's computer at that time and took advantage of Lu Baoping's habit of blaming others for her faults, there must be something else she didn't know about. means.
Apart from computers, there are cartoons. I wonder if Lu Baoping has any impression. In her memory, has she ever seen her son sitting in front of the TV and happily watching cartoons?
I remember that cartoons at that time were in full bloom. Many classic and meaningful cartoons played a role in guiding children to correct educational values subtly. However, Lu Baoping did not think so in her eyes. She believed that cartoons were just entertainment. Entertainment has no meaning. It will only affect Han Lu's study, just like a computer. This is why Lu Baoping has never bought a computer. So, Han Lu has been waiting hard for something that others have long ago. It took more than ten years to get it!
At that time, Lu Baoping dominated the TV at home. Even her father, Han Pingfan, couldn't compete with Lu Baoping for the TV. Lu Baoping enjoyed the treatment of the head of the family and let her watch whatever she liked. My favorite shows, and most of these shows are idol romance dramas. .
She didn't let Han Lu touch the TV remote control at all. Not only when she was there, but also when she was away, she kept thinking about the TV in various ways.
I remember that at that time, Han Lu got out of school relatively early, around 4 p.m., and Lu Baoping came home from get off work at about 6:30. These two hours became the time for Han Lu to watch TV every day, "Han Bagui" "Story", "Little Magic Soldier", "Electric Shock Boy", "The Legend of Rainbow Cat and Blue Rabbit", etc. These are all programs that Han Lu watches in less than two hours a day.
But even so, Lu Baoping still didn't allow it. She seemed to know that her son used the two hours every day that were not under her supervision to watch TV, so when she came home from get off work every day, the first thing she did was to touch the TV to see if it was hot. If the TV is hot, it means Han Lu is watching cartoons! What was waiting for Han Lu was naturally Lu Baoping's curse.
The devil is as tall as the devil. At that time, cartoons were too attractive to Han Lu. No, to be precise, they were equally attractive to every child of the same age as Han Lu. Although Lu Baoping could Touching the TV was used to find out whether Han Lu was watching TV, but Han Lu also thought of a corresponding method, which was to put a wet rag with cold water on the TV when the TV was turned on.
Turn on the fan at home to dissipate heat from the TV!
When Lu Baoping was about to come back, she cleaned up the scene and wiped off the water droplets left on the TV with paper towels...
Maybe Han Lu did something wrong in this matter, but he didn't regret it.
The positive energy and correct values advocated in these cartoons form a great contrast with the environment in which Han Lu lives. What is shown in the cartoons is love and hope, but the real life in which Han Lu lives is In a world where a vicious and overbearing mistress held all the power of life and death, Han Lu was a good child who was submissive and respected her parents. No matter how cruel and vicious Lu Baoping was, Han Lu always endured it silently, thinking that Lu Baoping She is her mother, and her mother loves her. A mother's child is a treasure...
However, when he came into contact with these cartoons with the educational significance of the new era, the correct values formed by these cartoons took root in Han Lu's mind like a seed. The gradual growth of this seed caused Han Lu to After entering junior high school, I dared to resist Lu Baoping's oppression and fight for my due respect and human rights!
