What Zhou Wen was worried about happening to Zhang Xiaoping actually happened to Xu Dacheng.
Although Pan's father considers himself patriotic, patriotism has nothing to do with letting his daughter marry a soldier whose life is in danger at any time.
So Pan's father's rejection immediately made Xu Dacheng dumbfounded and a little bit blind.
He couldn't blame Pan's father for going back on his promise. He didn't fully agree before, right?
Pan Xiaoting, on the other hand, had a somewhat gentle temperament. Although she was very anxious, she did not dare to disobey her father's wishes and would only wipe her tears and remain silent.
Originally, if Xu Dacheng could come back to discuss with Zhou Wen, maybe Zhou Wen could find a way to make Pan's father submit.
Now, for Zhou Wen, where is the patience and time to do other people's ideological work? Just use power to force others. As for the future, we can naturally use time to smooth things over. As long as Xu Dacheng and Pan Xiaoting truly love each other, it doesn't count as robbing a civilian girl, right?
Xu Dacheng saw that Zhou Wen was very busy now and was embarrassed to let his personal affairs disturb Zhou Wen again.
He knew that the mercenary group had just started a business in Shanghai, and he couldn't cause trouble to his good brothers without saying that he couldn't help.
So Xu Dacheng decided to solve it himself.
The eldest brother of the Xu family is ten years older than Xu Dacheng. He has loved his younger brother very much since he was a child. In addition, he came to Shanghai to propose marriage at the request of his parents, so naturally he did not want to go back in despair.
The so-called brothers are of the same mind, and their strength is as strong as metal. The two brothers had no good solution, but they showed the stubborn character of Shanxi men to the fullest.
any solution?
Just rub it hard and soak it hard.
Whenever Pan's father goes to work, the eldest brother of the Xu family goes to Pan's house to give gifts, but they are not valuable gifts, just some snacks and ingredients. And despite the fact that the Xu family is a wealthy family in Shanxi, Xu Dali has been helping his family's business since he was a child. He has strong living skills and is also good at cooking.
Therefore, Xu Dacheng accompanied Pan Xiaoting to and from get off work every day, while Xu Dali helped Pan's mother with housework, shopping for vegetables and meat, and also helped with cooking.
As the saying goes, don't hit someone with a smiling face. Besides, Pan's mother already had a good impression of Xu Dacheng, so naturally she couldn't kick him out.
When Pan's father came home from get off work and chased people away with a straight face, the Xu brothers were not angry. They just smiled and stayed at the door of Pan's house, and bought some cooked food when they were hungry.
This made Pan's father so angry that he finally went to ask the police to chase them away, saying that two outsiders had come to the door.
As a result, when the police saw Xu Dacheng's military ID card, he turned around and left without saying a word, leaving Pan's father dumbfounded.
This alarmed the neighbors. Everyone came to see the excitement of the Pan family, and some who couldn't stand it came to condemn the Xu brothers.
Brother Xu Dacheng was clueless and just listened with a smile.
The next day it was my nephew who lit the lanterns - as usual.
Now things really got big, and more and more neighbors came to watch the fun.
Some good people asked around and found out that the daughter of the Pan family was getting along with someone. However, Pan's father suddenly changed his mind and disagreed with the younger two's marriage. At the door, he looked like if you don't agree, I'll rely on you.
And some sharp-eyed people saw that the Xu brothers often delivered large and small packages to the Pan family, and they looked like they were wealthy owners.
So, why is Pan’s father unwilling to marry his daughter? Could it be that the young man did something inappropriate that offended the Pan family?
There is no shortage of curious and good people in this world.
So, within a few days, someone really knew the reason for Pan’s father’s refusal to marry. It was said that the Pan family’s younger brother accidentally let it slip that Brother Dacheng was an officer who had just returned from the front line of the Anti-Japanese War, because Brother Dacheng wanted to marry him. Pan's father often went to the front line to kill Japanese soldiers. He thought it was too dangerous and did not want his daughter to marry such a soldier who was always in danger of his life.
This is really serious. Although the people of Shanghai during this period were arrogant and looked down on outsiders, their patriotic feelings and enthusiasm were unquestionable.
Just take a look at last year's Songhu Anti-Japanese War. People from all walks of life in Shanghai bravely supported the front line. Everyone, rich and poor, generously donated money and materials to the front line. You will know how much Shanghai people hate little Japan.
Like poking a hornet's nest, Pan's father was suddenly pushed to the forefront.
Neighbors looked at her with disdain, made sarcastic comments, and even an elderly man named Su came to point at Pan’s father’s nose and accuse him. How could Father Pan know that he would cause such a big trouble.
What does it matter to you whether I marry a girl or not? Why does it rise to the level of whether you love your country or not? Isn't this moral kidnapping? Why don't you marry your own daughter?
However, once this public opinion spreads, it will not stop as long as anyone wants. Even Pan's father's school knew about the matter, and the principal went to talk to him specifically, asking him to handle the matter properly as soon as possible and not let the school's reputation be affected.
What does proper handling mean? Isn't it just forcing oneself to marry a daughter? However, Pan's father had never seen this kind of situation where women were forced to marry by public opinion. After reading all the history books, Pan's father was so angry that he fell ill when he returned home.
The situation now went beyond everyone's imagination. Even the Xu brothers did not expect such a situation to happen. It is obviously a family matter, but now it has risen to the level of national feelings. Who can stand it?
Seeing Pan Xiaoting who was crying every day, Xu Dacheng and Xu Dali could only stare at each other, and they had no good solution.
Fortunately, Xu Dali is a calm person and knows that the first priority now is not to let Pan's father have any physical problems, otherwise things will really get out of control.
So he and Xu Dacheng quickly sent Pan's father to the hospital and asked Xu Dacheng to wait at the hospital.
Of course, medical expenses and drug expenses are naturally out of the question. If you have anything good, just take it.
The eldest brother of the Xu family sits in the Pan family, helping Pan's mother, who has lost her mind, to stabilize the situation at home, and constantly says good things to the neighbors with a smiling face.
As a result, after all this fuss, and the fact that Xu Dacheng helped Pan's father pee in the hospital, he really moved people, and Pan's father's tone became more relaxed.
In fact, Pan's father was not an unreasonable person, and he knew that these rumors were not spread by the Xu brothers, so he could only lament that it was his own misfortune.
After he had a deep talk with Xu Dacheng and received a series of guarantees from the boy that made his chest purple, he could only reluctantly agree to their marriage.
Although the process of Xu Dacheng's marriage proposal was full of twists and turns, and almost brought disgrace to his prospective father-in-law, he finally had a happy ending.
Moreover, Pan's father also agreed that after Xu Dacheng and Pan Xiaoting got married, the family would move to Shanxi to live.
why?
After this incident, the Pan family can no longer stay in Shanghai, otherwise they will be stabbed in the back for who knows how many years in the future.
