First of all, I would like to thank everyone who helped me resolve this issue. Now that we are negotiating, the matter is over.
Let’s talk about the negotiation results first:
He solemnly apologized to me and stated that he would no longer try to pester or search for the group of friends with whom he had previously exchanged insults and verbally praised each other for opening the box.
And promised to join the alliance.
I will open a separate chapter to explain,
He didn't really have any intention of doing anything illegal. It was my misjudgment.
I apologized to him.
At the same time, please don't try to argue with him or make threats.
And then a little explanation,
First of all, let me explain that what both parties in the incident said (including hints) were limited to oral pleasure, and they did not really want to do anything to further hurt each other.
It was just a verbal hint, but due to my personal reasons, I misjudged in the private chat with him and thought that the other party was really going to do something wrong.
I also need to apologize here for misinterpreting the other party's meaning, misinterpreting the meaning of "technical means" and his harsh words.
(Afterwards, he explained to me the technical means to find group messages for the trumpet, and then continue to find the people who were previously in the line.
Please stop spreading outrageous remarks about the other party, and at the same time, avoid your own bad thoughts. )
In order to prevent the other party from finding my group and using my group as a medium to cause harm to others (including tracing back message records, looking up accounts, and things I misunderstood), I made a decision in a short period of time to disband the group.
There is another reason why I urgently disbanded the group. I was worried that the lurking trumpet was already doing this.
Because after I asked the other person what he would do further, he did not answer me directly and remained silent after making harsh words.
I apologize here. From beginning to end, no one wants to do really bad things, but due to my misjudgment, I brought bad public opinion to both parties in the incident.
Both sides are also prohibited from attacking each other anymore.
It's hard for me to comment on the opposite side, although it's really hard to comment, but with the coordination credibility of an intermediate author and his guarantee, I need to make a promise——
That is, the other party really does not want malicious intent to develop.
Please do not make malicious speculations or attempt attacks.
Although he really hopes to find the group of friends who were scolding him at the time to complete the subsequent scolding battle.
But after negotiations he gave up.
Then comes the review:
After the release of Death and Death 2, there are different rumors and real sneak peek spoilers circulating in various groups.
After our group forwarded one of the widely circulated rumors, he, who was originally the manager of our group, explained to all members of Aite in the evening (10:30) that the person who continued to spread the rumor would be kicked out of the group.
I was coding at the time, but he did not inform me when he was doing this.
Since I rarely see Aite members, especially in the evening, the group exploded, and naturally a scolding war started.
During the exchange of insults, due to his inappropriate words, he offended most of the members of our group, which aroused greater repercussions, and the scolding war further escalated, including verbal threats.
When I watched the group, the scolding war was almost over. He suddenly quit the group as a manager, and then I and several other group managers started to manage the group.
Then after changing the story, he opened a trumpet account that night and entered the group again to provoke and curse people, and had a private chat. During this period, someone in my group also had a private chat with him.
I kicked his trumpet, and the group started talking again.
But on the evening of the next day, he privately messaged me again and publicly addressed me in the writers group, asking me to deal with yesterday’s matters.
He showed the private chat records and thought I should kick out the person who took the initiative to chat with him privately.
I was also preparing to do this to put the matter to rest, because it is true that private chatting is prohibited in the group.
But he later said that this incident would not pass and he would come back.
Due to my personal reasons, my thinking here has begun to be irrational.
I felt stabbed in the back after some of his comments.
So I misinterpreted some words later, and finally made the decision to disband the group in order to protect both parties.
I am not an unreasonable person. On the first day, I tried to find his book and QQ group with people who were yelling at him. I banned them all to prevent the topic from continuing.
This should have been a trivial matter, but the misunderstanding between the private chat and me made me finally choose to disband the group.
I also apologized to my group friends and book friends for this.
sorry.
Finally, thank you, thank you to those who comforted me, gave me ideas, and negotiated with each other.
And then some words of my own,
I could have cursed a lot about this matter, and I could have dedicated a separate chapter to my curse words sentence by sentence, but in the end I held back.
Are you fucking sick? ? ? ?
I am also very irrational. I typed a thousand words of emo literature early yesterday morning, including my feelings and gratitude to everyone, as well as denouncing my own weakness.
(Thrown it into the previous settings, the title is "A Little Word")
I also have my own considerations. After I disbanded the group, I have made a decision. If he uses methods that I don’t want to see, or entangles him further,
Then I will open a separate chapter to expose him, and take the initiative to expose his group and book.
I have been deleting messages looking for his books, just to avoid taking the step that would hurt both sides.
Please don’t try to pry anymore. One of our co-writer friends has already sprayed me with a lot of apologies.
But this incident also sounded the alarm for me. The book club will be rebuilt after the end of this volume, and I will strengthen group management.
The leave request note and this chapter will be deleted after today's update, and only the operations officer's summary will be left in the book club.
I also made a lot of mistakes in this matter, and I'm very sorry for the trouble it caused.
I have all the screenshots of the private chat. In order to protect both parties, I will not release them. But if you question me, I can show you the screenshots.
And let me emphasize one last time that he has realized his mistake and sincerely apologized to me.
