I have returned to my own state, so the updates have been slow in the past few days. I will slowly start to upload and add more updates in May.

In fact, I have always had a lot of conflicts, but I am a pleaser type of personality. I am extremely tolerant to friends around me and people I like. I almost respond to every request. To put it mildly, I might be half a licking dog.

How to put it, although every time we talk, I know that adjustment and accommodation should never be my business alone, but should be a two-way street. But my personality is like this, whether it is a friend or a person I like, as long as it does not involve issues of principle.

It's just that girls with avoidant attachment personality may not be suitable for me.

I have been alone since I was a child, and I like to get recognition and a sense of accomplishment by helping others. It also makes me feel the stability of this relationship, so that I can gain enough security.

But for a person with an avoidant attachment personality, it is difficult for her to give you positive feedback, and she may even overthink it.

Accommodation, accommodation, tolerance, suggestions, all these will make her feel restricted.

She laughed and said that my parents happened to invite friends to dinner at the restaurant next to the supermarket where we bought food. She felt that this was a kind of restraint, and even felt that it was moral kidnapping. Maybe I did it on purpose, just to try to get her. She was tied to me, but she forgot that she chose the supermarket where she bought groceries, and the restaurant next to it was also the best in the area. She also forgot how I took the blame for not going to myself during the phone call with my family The body refuses again.

Well, having said all this, I just want to apologize to everyone. I am in a really bad mood. Even if I go on a trip, I still think about every detail of my previous trip all the time, so I am delaying the update.

I probably won’t fall in love in recent years, and I’m not someone who comes out of the shadows easily. Anyway, I’m only 23, and I still have a lot of time, and I don’t have to worry about food and drink.

I will keep up with the updates starting in May, and I will slowly start adding updates, and then I will write out the extras that are still half-finished. They will not be the uncut version, but real extras.

Thank you all for your tolerance, monthly tickets and rewards during this period.

Finally, I would like to give you a piece of advice. If you are not prepared to be covered in wounds and fight fiercely for seven or eight years, don’t try to influence and save a person with avoidant attachment. Neither you nor I are the savior. You cannot get through them, and they will still come back. I'm worried that you have other agendas.