Old Yangtou and Mr. Tan followed Yang Ruoqing's advice and planned to calm down this time and wait patiently for Yang Huamei to take the initiative to talk about this matter.
Tan said: "It is not uncommon for widows to remarry. If that man can catch my eye, Meier can marry her."
"As for Lao Wang's family, I'm not afraid of their obstruction. As long as Mei'er cleanses herself and leaves the house, isn't it ok if she doesn't take away every stitch, thread, brick and tile from Lao Wang's family?"
"The main thing is to look at Brother Dabai and Xiao Hei. If they lie there to death and object, and Meier has to choose one, it will be hard to say."
After calming down, Tan also analyzed the matter carefully.
Generally speaking, the biggest help is for widows to remarry. Everyone's situation is different.
Take Liao Meiying as an example. Of course, Liao Meiying was not a widow at that time, but she was a living widow, and her situation was even worse than that of a widow.
When Liao Meiying remarried Zhang Youfu, the biggest help came from her husband's family, the old Yang family, not her own natal family, the Liao family.
The reason must be that the old Yang family is more powerful than the Liao family.
Fortunately, Lao Yang's family was open-minded, and the Liao family would not be stupid enough to hinder their daughter's happiness, so Liao Meiying married Zhang Youfu as a matter of course.
And for the sake of Zhen'er's growth, the old Yang family agreed to Liao Meiying to take Zhen'er to the Zhang family, but Old Yang only had one request, that is, Zhen'er should not change her surname...
Now that Yang Huamei wants to remarry, even if the elders of the old Wang family have objections, the old Yang family can come forward to negotiate.
Those people don't agree. To put it bluntly, it's nothing more than saving face.
Or maybe they don't care about face so much, but want to get some benefits from it and get some compensation from the old Yang family through caring about face.
Telling the truth, they had no reason to forcefully ask Yang Huamei to become a widow for Wang Shuanzi.
After all, they and Wang Shuanzi are just relatives of the same family within the five servers. To the outside world, they are indifferent, but internally, don't they live their own lives?
Yang Huamei had to be kept as a widow for a long time. When Yang Huamei was a widow, her family encountered difficulties. Can they always help?
If you can, fine, you have the final say.
If it doesn't work, then don't point fingers. It's almost done. At the worst, the old Yang family will give you some benefits.
Therefore, whether it is Yang Ruoqing, Tan, or Old Yangtou, all three of them know what is going on here.
Therefore, the three of them are not worried at all about the clan members of Lao Wang's family. The ones they are most worried about are Dabai and Xiaohei.
"Let's stop talking about Mei'er for now. We'll talk about it later when we see the progress." Old Yang interrupted Tan's discussion.
He took over the topic and said to Yang Ruoqing: "You are not at home today, and another thing happened in our old Yang family."
"Did the fourth aunt say before that Li Wei came to take Yong Xiao back to Lijia Village?" Yang Ruoqing asked.
Old Yang sighed heavily, and at some point a big dark cloud floated over his head, covering his head, making his face dark and gloomy.
"Li Wei is arrogant, unreasonable, selfish, and reckless..."
"If you say a few soft words, it won't be like this. When you come up, you will say that his mother is sick. She is afraid that she will not survive. She wants to take Yongxiao back to see her one last time."
Mrs. Tan beside her was already gritting her teeth and cursing: "No matter how ill he is, even if he stretches out his legs and dies, he won't do anything to our old Yang family!"
"Yongxiao is the eldest grandson of our old Yang family and has nothing to do with their Li family!"
"No matter if the child is born or before he is half a year old, no one wants to see what the child looks like. It is Bamei and Xiuxiu who take care of the child. The Li family doesn't care about the life or death of the mother and child!"
"They are so shameless. Damn, Yongxiao won't let him take them back. He's dreaming!"
Yang Ruoqing frowned slightly when she mentioned this matter, but she was more concerned about the outcome of today's incident.
"What happened next?"
"What else can I do? Your uncle and aunt gave me a slap in the face and called me back!" said Tan.
Yang Ruoqing said: "This is all thanks to my uncle and aunt!"
Old Yangtou said: "It's really thanks to your uncle and aunt being at home today, otherwise, just the two of them would not be as strong as that beast Li Wei when they were tied together."
"The men of our old Yang family are not at home, and you also went to the camp. Tell me, how dangerous it is!"
Yang Ruoqing nodded, "Children are easily frightened during the fight..."
Tan said: "I am definitely frightened. What I am most afraid of is that he will snatch Yongxiao away and hide the child and not give it back to us!"
In eight villages across ten miles, this kind of thing has happened before.
When the time comes, Li Wei and his son will hide Yong Xiao in the homes of relatives and friends elsewhere, and the relatives and friends will help hide it, leaving you, the old Yang family, to find him. How can you still dig deep in the ground?
When the child was still young, he was raised in other people's homes. Li Wei would visit secretly on a regular basis. When the child was older, those who were taught by them only recognized the Li family and not your old Yang family.
By then, even if you snatch the child back, the child will no longer kiss you, and he will talk and act just like Li Wei.
You said, even if we get the child back by then, what's the point?
Therefore, from the beginning, the child could not be taken away by Li Wei.
Yang Ruoqing had a look of anger on her face and said, "Li Wei, has he been so peaceful for the past six months, so he thinks that we, the old Yang family, are easy to bully?"
During the more than half a year of separation, Lao Yang's family never once went to Li Wei's house to cause trouble for Li Wei's mother and son.
There are two reasons why everyone doesn’t want to do this.
The first point is that everyone has their own things to be busy with.
Everyone in every room is studying, working on errands, and doing business.
Everyone wants to live a better life and become more prosperous.
Look, the fourth house built a new house in the first half of the year. Yang Yongqing, the junior fourth house, took over the management of the Yang Huazhong family's more than 100 acres of land, and seriously learned how to take care of crops.
Yang Huazhong and his wife went to the capital to help their son and wife take care of their children.
Yang Huazhou and Yang Yongjin are also working diligently in their own positions. Who has the free time to mess with other people's affairs?
The above is the first point.
There is a second point.
The second point is not to cause trouble for Li Wei's family, unlike these troubles that can excite Xiu Xiu and put her in a bad mood.
Seeing Xiu Xiu living with her parents' family for more than half a year, she gradually seems to have stepped out of the shadow of separation, and her attention has shifted to her children. She walks in and out every day with a smile on her face.
The child is also well-raised. Yongxiao is fat and plump. He is half a year old and can already sit up and turn over. According to Cao Bamei, Yongxiao can eat two stewed eggs and five or six meatballs every day.
In order to better take care of the girls at home, Yang Yongjin also applied with Yang Ruoqing to be transferred back to the restaurant in Qingshui Town to work as an errand in the second half of the year...
