In the subsequent chat, Yang Ruoqing learned that the woman in front of her, whose maiden name was Mo, originally came from a wealthy family in the local area, and she and her husband were childhood sweethearts and cousins.
Mo's natal family comes from a scholarly family, so Mo has been able to read and write since she was a child.
Although her husband is a martial artist, he is also a motivated young man with both civil and military skills.
"No wonder I see that both of your children are well-behaved. They look like children from well-educated families. That's it."
Children are a mirror of their parents. Children's words and deeds from an early age can basically reflect the parents' cultivation and quality.
Although some people may say that a child's temperament is related to his or her soul itself.
Not really.
The acquired living environment and the influence of parents have a certain impact on the child's temperament.
Otherwise, why do people in later generations emphasize the influence of the original family on children?
A good family of origin can provide a steady stream of warmth and energy for a child's life, while a bad family of origin brings trauma to a child that requires a lifetime of healing, and the child cannot even get rid of the shadow of childhood.
When Yang Ruoqing was an agent in her previous life, she taught in a township middle school for two years.
She discovered a very strange phenomenon, that is, those students with excellent grades in the class were basically very confident. If she looked through their family information, she would find that they basically had a healthy and sound family environment.
As for those students in the class who have poor grades, are too stubborn, or are autistic, sensitive, have low self-esteem, and are not confident, most of them have problems in their families.
Especially single-parent families.
Therefore, parents cannot give birth to children just because of impulse.
Now that you have given birth, you must take responsibility for your child and manage your marriage well.
Okay, let’s go too far, let’s get back to the topic.
Mrs. Mo in front of her went on to talk about what happened between her and her husband.
Yang Ruoqing didn't know how much of what Mo said was true or false.
However, she believed that the truth of the matter should be close to ten.
That is, Mrs. Mo originally had a husband's family with good conditions and a natal family from a scholarly family.
But something happened to her parents' family. Her father was a scholar, had a good reputation, and usually liked to write and write.
Because of her writing skills, she once won honor and wealth for her family.
But also because of some subtle and sensitive aspects between the words, I accidentally got involved in a certain officialdom battle.
The Mo family is simply vulnerable to a fight at this level.
Not only was Mo's family ruined and separated, but her husband's family was also damaged.
My husband originally worked as an official in the local county government, but he was also fired.
Father-in-law, brother-in-law, and others were all deprived of everything overnight.
Fortunately, her husband's family still had a few acres of farmland in their hometown in the countryside, so the family moved back to their hometown village and returned to farm life.
Mo's father-in-law, husband, and brother-in-law have a lot of strength, and they can manage the family's food rations with just a few acres of land.
When they have free time, father, son and brothers are never idle. They go hunting in the mountains, chop wood, and go down to the river to catch fish and shrimps. They do all kinds of things to supplement their livelihood.
Mo's mother-in-law failed to bear the blow and passed away when the family went through great changes.
The two brothers-in-law were not married yet, so Mrs. Mo usually stayed at home to look after her husband and children, take care of the housework, and teach the children like other village women in the village.
She also gave birth to two sons and one daughter to her husband's family in one breath. The father-in-law and the others worked at sunrise and rested at sundown every day. When they returned to the farmyard, they saw their three grandchildren hugging each other and having fun, which could give them something. Comfort and hope.
But they never expected that the good harvest would not last for a few years, and the peaceful farm life would not last for a few years. There would be a severe drought in their hometown, and there would be no harvest.
However, the tax corvee was not immune at all. The family smashed and sold iron to repay the taxes. In the end, the family was completely destitute and it was really impossible to open the pot. In desperation, they had no choice but to follow the example of others around them and drag their family and family to other places to beg for food.
"I really agree with what I said. People are so mean when they leave their hometown." Mrs. Mo turned away, wiped her tears and said softly, "I have been begging for more than a month. My father-in-law and two brothers-in-law have disappeared one after another... …”
“The originally lively family suddenly turned out to be just the five of us.”
"My husband was bitten by a dog again and his life hangs by a thread. Several children are so hungry that they can't walk. I myself don't have any hope..."
"Sometimes I think, if it doesn't work out, my husband and I will simply take the three children away together. Without us to protect them, the children will suffer if they stay in the world..."
"But then I thought about it, isn't that too selfish? Children haven't really seen the world yet!"
"We grit our teeth and can only drag on like this. If we can endure it for a day, we will count it as a day. If we cannot endure it any longer, the children will have to resign themselves to their fate..."
This village is probably the last stop. If we can't find a way to survive, we may really give up.
Unexpectedly, I met such kind-hearted people as the Luo family...
Thinking of this, Mrs. Mo couldn't help but stand up and kneel down to thank Yang Ruoqing.
Stopped by Yang Ruoqing.
"There is no need for this. We are all ordinary people. We can help you if you can. I don't care about you adults, but you have to look after three children. The children are so pitiful..."
Yang Ruoqing is an ordinary person with normal views.
She is a big businessman, but she is also a mother, a person who has not lost her conscience and goodwill.
She doesn't like to meddle in other people's business, and sometimes she shows her attitude that she doesn't want to get involved in the affairs of Lao Yang's family.
What does it matter?
All the rooms in Lao Yang's house were well fed and well fed, which led to a series of bad things. She was going to take care of it? She is stupid!
And today, the Mo family of five, especially these three children... Yang Ruoqing wanted to lend a helping hand to them.
No matter what happens later, at least for now, she has to lend a hand to help this family of five overcome the current difficulties.
"Your man is a martial artist, and he is also literate. I can't help you forever, but for now, I can let you stay at my house temporarily and heal your man's leg injury. This is what I can help."
"When your man's leg injury heals, the rest will be up to you."
A man who has hands, feet and strength, even if he goes to the county dock to sell his strength to others, can make some money so that his wife and children will not go hungry.
But before, this trip was too rough, his family lost people one after another, and he was injured again, so he couldn't go out to find something to do...
When Mrs. Mo heard Yang Ruoqing's arrangement, she not only took them in for a day or two, but also helped her man heal his leg injury.
And during the treatment period, their family of five did not have to go out to wander and beg, and could stay temporarily in the Luo family.
