Yang Ruoqing was really surprised when she heard that Luo Fengtang was actually planning to get married to the Zuo family in Huguang County.
"Tangyaozi, don't scare me. Did you have an idea for Brother Zuo and his son Zuo Jinling before?"
"No, Tang Yazi. Although that kid from Jinling is very good, there is a four-year age difference between him and our daughter, and our daughter is still four years older than him!"
Luo Fengtang smiled lightly, "Four years older is nothing. As long as two people are in love, it is safer for a girl to be four years older."
Yang Ruoqing didn't quite agree with what he said. For men and women of the same age, the flowering period of women is actually shorter than that of men.
This is why many couples seem to be of the same age when they first get married, but after a few years, they seem to be the same age.
Further back, women give birth to and take care of children one after another, which consumes the woman's energy, so she looks like a yellow-faced woman, very haggard.
As for a man, if his family background is not bad, by the age of thirty or forty, he will become a flower, exuding the charm of a man.
Therefore, Yang Ruoqing prefers women to be three or four years younger than men, both in her own marriage choices and in the marriage choices of her children.
But it can't be too small. If it exceeds one round, it will be inappropriate.
As for why, if you have been there, you will naturally understand.
If you don’t understand, then I’m sorry and I can’t explain it in depth. When you reach that age in the future and experience certain things, you will naturally understand.
So, back to the topic, Yang Ruoqing continued to ask Luo Fengtang: "How did you come up with the idea of getting married to the Zuo family? It seems that you are very optimistic about the Jinling child?"
Luo Fengtang asked Yang Ruoqing: "Don't you think highly of Jinling?"
Yang Ruoqing was stunned for a moment. Of course she was optimistic about Jin Ling. That child's facial features looked very much like his father Zuo Junmo's, and so did his talent and talent.
"Jin Ling is twelve years old this year, but he is already accomplished in both civil and military matters. I heard that Brother Zuo has passed on all his skills to Jin Ling."
At such a young age, there are a lot of things to learn, and he also has to inherit Zuo Junmo's huge industry.
Therefore, Jin Ling is very busy, much busier than other teenagers of the same age, so he has not been to Changping Village in the past six months.
The last time I came here was during the Dragon Boat Festival, and I came here to deliver rice dumplings.
"I really like that kid, but as a godson, I believe our daughter should also treat him as a younger brother." Yang Ruoqing added.
Luo Fengtang corrected: "But I think that child may not necessarily treat our daughter as a complete sister."
Yang Ruoqing blinked, and suddenly she remembered that every time the child came over, the one she clung to the most was Baby Luo. She had been close to Baby Luo since she was a child.
Especially when he was first brought back by Zuo Junmo, he was a little autistic, didn't speak, and only drew circles on the ground.
At that time, it was Luo Baobao who played with him, gradually pulling him out of his autistic space and leading him to live like a normal person.
Even Bingbing was kicked into the fish pond by Luo Baobao because Bingbing mocked Jin Ling and Luo Baobao helped Jin Ling stand out.
"Qing'er, I suggest you find a chance to check it out with our daughter and see what she thinks." After thinking about it, Luo Fengtang suggested.
Yang Ruoqing nodded, "I understand."
It is not convenient for him as a father to discuss these matters with his daughter, so she, as a mother, has to take action.
"Okay, I'll find an opportunity to ask her in the next two days and see what she says."
Luo Fengtang added: "Tell her that you can't force yourself to do this kind of thing. You have to touch your own conscience to feel who you like to be with more."
Yang Ruoqing blinked and smiled playfully: "I know, do you understand these things or do I? Just stop talking. It's a bit awkward to say it from your mouth."
Luo Fengtang Khan!
"Then I'll leave this place to you. I'll go to the county government office." He said.
Yang Ruoqing nodded. She came to the county town for three main things.
The first thing is to go to the county government to learn about the progress of Yang Yongxian's case.
The second thing is that when Luo Fengtang comes back, he will naturally go to the house of his sworn brother Xu Mang. The brothers will drink and talk together and connect with each other.
For Luo Fengtang today, he has a high and powerful position, but he does not forget his original intention and does not abandon friends like Xu Mang who know him at the beginning.
On weekdays, because he couldn't be at home, there were times when something happened at home, and Yang Ruoqing needed help from Xu Mang from the county town.
Therefore, the two brothers must take advantage of the Chinese New Year to sit down together, have a drink, and have a good conversation.
Yang Ruoqing deliberately didn't go. Without her there, the two men could let go more easily.
After all, men are still teenagers until they die. After three rounds of wine and five tastes of food, once the chat box is opened, some topics are not suitable for women to listen to. Hahaha……
At the restaurant, Yang Ruoqing went over and asked the three children what they wanted to eat at noon today.
Tuantuan and Yuanyuan were talking over each other.
Tuantuan wants to eat big chicken drumsticks, and Yuanyuan wants to eat shrimp balls.
Tuantuan also wants brown sugar glutinous rice cake, while Yuanyuan wants to eat glutinous rice pumpkin...
Luo Baobao asked Yang Ruoqing: "Isn't my father coming back for lunch?"
Yang Ruoqing shook her head, "Your father eats with your Uncle Xu at noon."
Luo Baobao said: "Then I can eat anything. When dad comes back, I will make hot pot!"
"Why do you have to wait for your father to come back to enjoy hot pot?" Yang Ruoqing asked curiously, "Even if your father doesn't come back, we can still arrange for hot pot!"
However, Luo Baobao shook his head: "My dad loves spicy food, and cooking hot pot is suitable for the whole family to sit around and cook together, so I have to wait for my dad to come back before cooking!"
Yang Ruoqing smiled. They were really a good father and daughter who cared about each other. His father became anxious when he thought about his daughter getting married. He felt that the little girl he had protected for more than ten years was about to be deflowered by a pig's washbasin. It was taken away.
As for a daughter, even if she is just cooking hot pot, she has to wait until her father comes back to be together. This kind of relationship really makes Yang Ruoqing envious!
"Okay, let's wait until your father comes back at night, and then we'll cook the hot pot." Yang Ruoqing said.
"Great!"
After lunch, the two little ones took a nap.
Yang Ruoqing and Luo Baobao took two stools and sat at the door of the house, eating melon seeds and stuffing themselves with the sun.
Yang Ruoqing specially made two bowls of red date and grapefruit tea and brought it out, "Come on, eating melon seeds will make your mouth dry. Drink some tea to moisten your throat."
Luo Baobao gave a thumbs up to Yang Ruoqing: "Mom is still thoughtful. Is this what I learned from my fourth mother-in-law?"
Yang Ruoqing smiled: "Then I really haven't reached her level. She is even more powerful."
A few great tools for chatting, tea, melon seeds, peanuts, and being able to hold back for an hour or two without going to the toilet...
The couple ate melon seeds and chatted, and Yang Ruoqing calmly steered the conversation toward their children's marriage...
