Only those who have experienced it like Bao Suyun will understand that marrying a man, marrying a man, dressing and eating.
A woman's so-called marriage to a good man is to not worry about her livelihood for the rest of her life.
As for those romantic things, they are all sung in the opera!
When it comes to real life, the most real happiness is not having to worry about livelihood, not having to worry about not having rice to cook at home, or having no money to buy new clothes when the seasons change.
"Go quickly and have a good chat with Xiuxiu. When you give birth to a baby, you won't have so many free days to talk like this." Bao Suyun urged Mianmian again.
Girls grew up together when they were teenagers, made sewing needlework together, and whispered all kinds of things together.
When I first started to fall in love, I shared many private things that were not convenient for my family to share with my little sisters.
Bao Suyun once lived in youth and lived through it, so she understands the feeling very well.
If we really want to get better, we can really have a friendship where we can wear a pair of pants together.
However, when they grow up and each of them gets married and has children, it would be better if they marry close by, but if they marry far away, then they will see each other less for the rest of their lives.
But even if the road to marriage is close, it is no longer possible to get together and chat as much as they want as girls at home.
Because each of us has a husband-in-law, we have parents-in-law to take care of, uncles, sisters-in-law and sisters-in-law to take care of, husbands to raise, and children to deal with.
There are many, many things to do, so gradually, the interactions between the girls in the past will gradually disappear.
Even during the holidays, everyone got together because of an opportunity, and finally sat down together, drank tea and chatted for a while.
However, before your body is warmed up, on the other side, your man is looking for you, or he is sending his children to look for you.
There are always family chores of one kind or another taking up your time. Gradually, you have less and less personal and private time.
When you finish all that work and want to go sit down with your best friend and catch up on old times, you find that your best friend has also been called back to do some work.
Gradually, the desire to get together gradually faded away...
So at this moment, Bao Suyun urged Mianmian to go over to Xiuxiu to chat and relax.
Mianmian took her little niece, and the two of them went to the yard next door to look for Xiuxiu while talking and laughing.
Bao Suyun was not idle either. Taking advantage of this moment, he quickly went into the kitchen to clear away the dishes and chopsticks for breakfast.
When it was all done, she planned to catch an old duck and kill it in the morning, and use half of it to braise it, using dried chili peppers and Sichuan peppercorns to make a spicy braised duck.
The other half is simmered in soup, and the old duck soup is simmered with some nutritious wild mushrooms or something.
As long as the children are at home, Bao Suyun is energetic and motivated to cook.
Separated by a wall, Yang Yong entered the house.
When Mianmian came over, she found that there was no one in the main room. She followed the quarrel to the backyard and entered Xiuxiu's house.
In Xiuxiu's room, mother and daughter Cao Bamei and Xiuxiu were quarreling, and they were pulling a bundle in their hands.
Xiuhong's sister and brother stood aside and watched, with dissatisfaction on Xiuhong's face and dissatisfaction with Xiuxiu.
Because as soon as Mianmian entered the room, she heard Xiuhong say angrily: "Sister, what's going on with you now? When we get married, it's like we're a different person? Mother didn't say anything wrong with you, mother just wanted to stay. You had lunch at home before leaving, why are you so anxious?"
"What's going on? Why are you arguing with your second sister-in-law? What do you have to say?"
Seeing this, Mianmian quickly added.
When the people in the room heard Mianmian's words, they all turned around and saw that the person coming was Mianmian. Cao Bamei's eyes showed a glimmer of hope.
"Mianmian, you're here just in time. Please help me persuade Xiuxiu quickly. She listens to you." Cao Bamei said.
Mianmian looked at Xiuxiu with questions in her eyes.
Xiuxiu couldn't wait to say to Mianmian: "I said I wouldn't have lunch and went back early. My mother was stubborn and had old ideas. She insisted on keeping me for lunch and made me wait until the sun went down and Xiaowei came to pick her up... …”
Mianmian said: "Then you can have lunch before leaving. What are you in a hurry for?"
Cao Bamei said: "Yes, what are you anxious about? It's not like you left in the evening and Lijiacun ran away!"
Mianmian glanced at Cao Bamei, guessing that the two had a few arguments before, so the second sister-in-law Cao Bamei's words contained a bit of complaint and dissatisfaction.
And Cao Bamei's tone obviously made Xiu Xiu even more unhappy, or in other words, made Xiu Xiu feel embarrassed.
Sure enough, Xiuxiu stamped her feet and said, "Sister-in-law, listen to what my mother said!"
"I'm in a hurry to go back. I don't want to put a burden on my mother. Why don't I miss a meal? It's not like I don't have the chance to come back for dinner. My mother's house is so close..."
Cao Bamei said: "Even if you don't eat lunch, your sister and brother and I still have to eat, and we all have to cook lunch."
"If you stay and eat together, you only have one more pair of chopsticks to use. How can you say it adds to the burden?"
Xiu Xiu frowned: "If I stay to eat, you will have to cook more dishes for me anyway. Isn't this how I feel for you? In the end, I will be ridiculed and scolded!"
Cao Bamei shook her head and said, "Shao Bang."
Xiu Xiu snorted.
Xiuhong shook her head, held her brother's hand and said, "Let's go. Second sister will take you out to play. We don't want to stay in this house anymore."
Xiu Hong took her younger brother and turned around to leave the house. The two siblings had their dissatisfaction with Xiu Xiu clearly written on their faces.
When the younger brother walked to the door, he turned to Xiu Xiu and made a face.
When Xiuxiu saw her brother like this, she was so angry that she raised her hands and said, "Who did you learn from, you little brat? Are you going to bully me too?"
The mistress immediately hid behind Xiu Hong. Xiu Hong protected the mistress and turned to Xiu Xiu and said, "It's enough for you to be mean to me, but don't do this to our brother. He will be your mother's family's supporter in the future!"
Xiuxiu snorted coldly and put her hands on her hips: "You are so mature at a young age, and you always rely on your mother-in-law's family for support. What on earth are you thinking about?"
Xiu Hong stared at Xiu Xiu coldly and said, "I just want to ask you what's on your mind!"
"Ever since you got married, all you have in your mind is your man and your mother-in-law. Do you still remember this natal family? Where did you grow up? Did you pop out of a rock?"
"When you get married, you should be more grateful for the kindness of your parents, instead of being such an ungrateful, white-eyed wolf like you, bah!"
Xiu Hong almost pointed at Xiu Xiu's nose and scolded her. After scolding her, she held her brother's hand and left without looking back.
Xiuxiu was so angry that she complained to Cao Bamei: "Mom, have you heard it? The two of them joined forces to bully me! Do you care or not?"
Cao Bamei turned her face away.
"Okay, you don't care, then I, the eldest sister, will take care of it!" Xiuxiu threw the bundle in her hand aside, rolled up her sleeves and went after her younger brother and sister, wanting to teach them a lesson!
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