Sure enough, Dazhi's face suddenly turned red, and he looked obviously uncomfortable.
But he still tried to calm down and echoed Yang Ruoqing's words: "Yes, my aunt and uncle are talented and beautiful, and they are a match made in heaven."
Yang Ruoqing smiled, she was worthy of being a scholar, she praised others in a different way, and she spoke it with ease.
"Zhi'er, you are now fifteen years old, and you will be sixteen years old after the end of the year. According to the calculation of false years in our area, it is appropriate for you to eat as much as you did when you were seventeen."
"It is said that a man should first establish a career and then have a family, but in the opinion of your father and I, if there is a suitable girl, it is not bad to have a family and a career at the same time."
"I would like to take this opportunity to ask you, do you have any plans to start a family now?"
Dazhi thought he heard wrongly, but he didn't expect his mother to take the initiative to ask him about that aspect. He raised his head in surprise, "Mother?"
Yang Ruoqing looked at him with a smile, her eyes full of encouragement.
It seems to be saying, my dear, just say what you want to say, my mother is waiting here!
Dazhi frowned slightly, as if he was brewing emotions and mobilizing the courage around him.
Yang Ruoqing patiently stayed where she was and waited.
"Mom, it's windy here. I'll help you go back to the study and sit down."
Dazhi came forward, held Yang Ruoqing's arms with both hands, and sent her to the study.
Yang Ruoqing laughed silently, yes, her son is now older, so he is really in trouble.
In the study, Yang Ruoqing was helped by Dazhi to sit on an imperial chair. Then, he came to Yang Ruoqing, brushed up a corner of his robe, and knelt in front of Yang Ruoqing.
"Mom, my son has something to ask for, and I hope it will come true!" He placed his palms on the ground, completely burying himself, and pressed his forehead against the cold ground.
Yang Ruoqing was really surprised by his reaction.
She quickly leaned forward to support him, "Zhi'er, get up quickly and sit down to talk. Why do you give such a big gift as soon as you come up? I am your mother, not an outsider. Get up quickly."
"Mom, let your son kneel on the ground and say it!" Dazhi said.
Yang Ruoqing was stunned, then gently patted his shoulder: "You silly boy, can you look more sincere if you kneel down and say it? Are you going to turn around when your clothes are dirty on your knees, or should I wash them for you?"
She pointed outside again: "Look at the rainy weather, it's difficult to dry a set of clothes. If you really love me, please get up and talk!"
After hearing this, Dazhi suddenly realized the problem. He was quite embarrassed. He quickly stood up and bent down to pat the light dust on his robe.
"It's okay, it's okay. The floor is scrubbed every day and there's no dirt on it. Sit down and talk to your mother about what you want to ask for."
Dazhi finally sat on the chair next to Yang Ruoqing. He sat up straight and said with a blushing face: "Mom, to be honest with you, my son does have a favorite woman in his heart, and he also wants to start a family, and then he is focused on studying and studying for fame. .”
Yang Ruoqing secretly let out a breath, what was supposed to come finally came.
"Men should marry when they are young and women should marry when they are young. When you grow up, you should have this idea. Even if you don't take the initiative to bring it up, my mother will ask you. Now that you take the initiative to bring it up, it is better." Yang Ruoqing explain.
Dazhi was a little surprised when he heard Yang Ruoqing's words.
"Mom, aren't you angry? I was originally worried that you would blame me for being distracted from studying..."
"Haha, you are such a silly baby. Why would Mom blame you? You are so old. If you only focus on studying and ignore other things, then Mom will be really worried."
Yang Ruoqing's words were not meant to coax Dazhi, they were sincere.
At the age of fifteen or sixteen, you are already a candidate for the exam. In modern times, you would be admitted to a prestigious university as a graduate student at the age of fifteen or sixteen, and you did not delay your studies at all!
Moreover, this is a feudal society, and boys and girls generally get married early.
When he started a family, he had someone in the house who was both cold and hot. He only needed to concentrate on his studies, and there would naturally be people to take care of the food, clothing, housing and transportation for him.
"Zhi'er, tell me, who is the girl you like? Among the four girls at home?" Yang Ruoqing asked again with a smile.
Dazhi blushed and nodded slightly.
"Ha!" Yang Ruoqing was happy.
But she thought that she was a mother, so she took a deep breath and tried to maintain the elder's composure, and asked him again: "Who is it?"
Dazhi blushed, "Xiao Qiao."
"Xiao Qiao?"
At this time, Yang Ruoqing's expression was a little strange.
On the one hand, she was relieved, because her guess was right again, and the way the two children got along gave her a different feeling.
Being able to have Dazhi personally admit that he likes Xiao Qiao and mustering up so much courage shows that Dazhi is indeed interested in Xiao Qiao, otherwise it would be impossible for him to beg his 'old mother' to come to him, right?
But on the other hand, Yang Ruoqing had an indescribable feeling, which was not very comfortable.
Of course, part of the reason is the instinctive repulsion of the same sex, and the feeling that my son will be snatched away by another woman.
But Yang Ruoqing can completely overcome that feeling. She is an open-minded and open-minded mother. She does not support her mother's son. She hopes that her son and daughter-in-law will love each other and have a harmonious family.
but……
"What about Xiao Qiao? Is it just wishful thinking on your part? Or does Xiao Qiao also like you?" Yang Ruoqing planned to ask clearly before expressing her thoughts.
When asked about this, Dazhi didn't hesitate for a moment, and even straightened his back and said with some relief and pride: "Of course we are in love."
"Oh..." Yang Ruoqing nodded, looking thoughtful, with no trace of happiness or anger on her face.
Her calmness calmed down the boiling blood in Dazhi's body little by little, making him feel a little uneasy.
"Mom, why do you react like this? Don't you like Xiao Qiao?" he asked tentatively.
Probably not? My mother went over to visit Xiao Qiao in the morning. The two women chatted happily. Da Zhi was watching secretly from the side, and I could feel that my mother was not perfunctory.
If it was really perfunctory, it would be impossible to stay in Xiao Qiao's house for so long, and from caring about Xiao Qiao's health to what books she has read, what medicines she has taken since she was a child, who is in the family, and what the family is doing Making a living, I asked a lot of detailed questions!
Even if my mother spent more time chatting with Yao Ying, Yao Yue, Huang Guier and the others, she would probably not spend as much time chatting with Xiao Qiao alone.
Perfunctory? That’s not enough for perfunctory reasons!
Just when Dazhi was in a state of confusion, Yang Ruoqing spoke again.
"Zhi'er, it's not that I don't like Xiao Qiao. Let me tell you the truth. Among the four girls, Xiao Qiao is my favorite."
Dazhi raised his head, the anxiety in his eyes dissipated, and he was filled with joy and expectation again. He said "Hmm!" and waited patiently for Yang Ruoqing's next words.
Yang Ruoqing continued: "No matter if it is you or your brothers and sisters, when you are discussing marriage in the future, your father and I will not forcefully interfere."
"We are different from other parents. We do not arrange marriages for you. You can choose the person you like."