Yang Ruoqing corrected her from the side: "It's not that my daughter-in-law hasn't entered the house yet, it's that my daughter-in-law hasn't even written her horoscope yet."
Mrs. Sun couldn't help but laugh, and then she realized that she was 'reprimanding' Mrs. Liu not to laugh.
So Mrs. Sun tightened her face again and said to Mrs. Liu, "I didn't even ask you to pay for the bride price. Your third brother paid it because he just wanted Kang Xiaozi to have a family."
"If you understand some sense, you won't say those words from now on. Suyun and I will pretend we haven't heard them."
"If your third brother and fifth brother hear what you said earlier, they will definitely be heartbroken and angry. By then, Kang Xiaozi's marriage will be ruined, and he will be a bachelor for the rest of his life, with no one to rely on, and you will have no place to cry. , it’s too late to regret!”
Bao Suyun nodded in agreement, "Third sister-in-law is right. Fourth sister-in-law, you really need to change your mind. Don't stick to the same old ways and think that your mother-in-law will overwhelm your daughter-in-law."
Mrs. Liu was about to cry but had no tears, "I never thought about suppressing my wife. If we can live in peace, I would certainly be happy, but I am not worried that if I don't suppress her, she will suppress me in turn! So I have to take action first." If you are strong, you will suffer disaster if you attack later."
Sun and Bao Suyun were speechless. What are they thinking?
Yang Ruoqing narrowed her eyes and looked at Mrs. Liu, feeling that Ms. Liu was a bit 'persecuted and fanciful'.
Always think about the worst aspects of family relationships, husband-wife relationships, and relationships between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and take precautions.
Could this be related to Liu’s own experience?
When Ms. Liu was a girl in her natal family, her mother and her two sisters-in-law had constant quarrels every day.
When Mrs. Liu married into Lao Yang's family, she was stepped on by Mr. Tan for the rest of her life.
The relationship between husband and wife is also not harmonious. In this simple place in the countryside, most of the people around him are monogamous, but Yang Huaming accidentally got Xiaojuan back and gave birth to an iron egg.
As long as you see Tiedan, you will see the obscure years when wives and concubines lived together in the same yard...
Therefore, in Mrs. Liu's mind, she has long formed a kind of extreme thinking of fighting with her mother-in-law, fighting with men, fighting with the vixen mistress, and finally fighting with her daughter-in-law...
Unlike Sun and Bao Suyun, she was treated tenderly by her husband, and the couple trusted each other and had a tacit understanding.
Ms. Liu felt very insecure in her heart. She gave birth to three daughters and one son, but none of them could really live with her.
He'er was even worse than her.
Ju'er and San Yatou are both married. Ju'er is relatively well off. She is in town and can come back to see her from time to time.
But after all, Ju'er is a married woman who has given birth to two sons. She is also in trouble, and her money is limited, so she has to take care of her two sons first.
Although San Yatou has greater financial ability than Ju'er, San Yatou has a relatively long journey and is in another county.
Liu Xueyun used to work with Yang Ruoqing, but later Yang Ruoqing returned to the village to have a baby and return to her family. That was because she was a woman and had to devote part of her energy to her family.
But Liu Xueyun is different. He is a man. He must have a career and support his family, so the third girl cannot go back to her parents' home often, especially now that she is pregnant.
Based on this analysis, Mr. Liu is also a poor person.
Thinking of this, Yang Ruoqing couldn't help but feel a little sympathy for Ms. Liu, and couldn't bear to criticize her anymore.
"Fourth Aunt, please don't get excited. Sit down and let's talk." Yang Ruoqing changed her tone to a gentle and friendly tone towards Ms. Liu.
Ms. Liu sat down and looked at Yang Ruoqing, still a little excited.
Yang Ruoqing said: "Fourth Aunt, let me ask you the truth. Do you hope that Mr. Kang will get married and start a business, and give you many grandchildren? In the future, when you get older, he will provide for you until you die, and take care of He He after a hundred years. As a eldest sister, Er, let Ju'er and San Yatou also have their parents' home to go back to? Instead of letting them go back to their parents' home, they can go back to Tiedan and his wife, and then leave after a meal if they don't get along with each other?"
Mrs. Liu stared at Yang Ruoqing steadily, her eye circles gradually turning red.
"Qing'er, as long as I'm not bad, I'm looking forward to that day!" Mrs. Liu said.
She glanced at Sun and Bao Suyun again, "There are no outsiders here, so I can say whatever I want."
"Even if Ju'er, the third girl, Kang Xiaozi and the others have a good relationship with Tiedan, they are not born from the same belly after all. Tiedan is close to his brothers and sisters now because he is a child and he has not fully grown up yet. When I was older, I never thought about the existence of his biological mother in Lao Yang's family, nor did I marry a wife, nor did I have a daughter-in-law blowing the pillow wind into my ears."
"When Tiedan grows up and gets married and has children of his own in the future, he will only be close to his wife and children. I'm not worried about your fourth uncle, because Tiedan is his biological child, and Tiedan will take care of him until he is old. thing, and the only thing I can count on is my own son, that is Kang Xiaozi, so I definitely hope that Kang Xiaozi can start a family and start a career at a marriageable age like other people's sons, and let me be a grandma. .”
Yang Ruoqing curled her lips, her eyes filled with relief.
"Fourth Aunt, if you think so, you are absolutely right."
"No matter how nice Tiedan and his wife are, they can't be as caring as Mr. and Mrs. Kang. Even if your son and daughter-in-law have a little bump in life together, it's just a small friction between teeth and tongue. In the end, it's still you who are united and work hard. Let’s do it together.”
"Qing'er, I'm afraid you don't have such a good wife. Who doesn't want to live a prosperous life? I don't know how much I envy your mother and your fifth aunt!" Mrs. Liu said a little embarrassed, and then went to Mrs. Sun and Mrs. Sun. Bao Suyun glanced over and his face turned red.
Sun and Bao Suyun both smiled slightly.
Yang Ruoqing said: "Fourth aunt, you don't have to envy my mother and my fifth aunt. You can do it as long as you want."
"Ah? Really? Qing'er, please don't fool me, Fourth Aunt... Didn't you say before that Mr. Kang's wife didn't even know her birth date?"
"As long as you start taking action, you will soon have everything you need." Yang Ruoqing said.
"But, before that, you have to learn to be a good mother-in-law."
"No matter your age or seniority, you are the mother-in-law and the elder. You should guide and care for your daughter-in-law. If your daughter-in-law does something right, you have to encourage and praise her. If your daughter-in-law makes any omissions, you should not rush to reprimand or ridicule her. Ridicule, you have to be patient and teach me. If things continue like this, I believe that as long as your wife is not a person with shit in her head, she will be able to exchange people's hearts with yours, and exchange true love for true love."
Even before Yang Ruoqing became a mother-in-law herself, she had already begun to teach Mrs. Liu the secrets of being a mother-in-law.
I feel that my ability to talk on paper is too great, but I don't know if I will be able to do it as properly and thoughtfully as I said now when I face Dazhi and Chen'er's wife in the future.
"Qing'er, what you said is so good! I can't help but applaud you!"
Mrs. Liu looked straight at Yang Ruoqing and murmured. She was completely immersed in the feeling Yang Ruoqing said. She wished she could find a daughter-in-law to come back and love her immediately.
