Hearing Sun's personal admission that she agreed with 'two-end marriage', Yang Ruoqing's previous depression was immediately dispelled by a steady stream of strength.
Mrs. Sun can accept it because maternal love has changed her mind.
And Yang Huazhong's fatherly love for Xiaoan is not inferior to Sun's maternal love at all.
Mr. Sun could figure it out and accept it, and so should Yang Huazhong, but his temper was not as easy-going as Ms. Sun. As the head of the family, he had clear opinions on certain matters.
But it doesn't matter, time can gradually soften his feelings.
"Mom, I thought about it carefully. It won't help if we just tell my father about this matter. I'll go back to my fourth and fifth uncles, Uncle Changgen, Uncle Danniu, my Uncle Luo, and even my Gong Gong. After being bribed, I asked everyone to come together to persuade my father, and they kept crushing me like a war between chariots and wheels, and my father would definitely agree. "
This is called brainwashing.
You may not have the courage to do bold and innovative things alone, but when there are many similar voices around you, you will somehow gain courage, and you may even feel that this thing is actually not bad.
"Then you decide what to do. Anyway, I have no idea at all, and I don't dare to persuade your father." Mrs. Sun said again.
"Mom, you don't need to persuade me, everything will turn to its extreme."
Mother and daughter reached a tacit agreement on this matter, and Mrs. Sun returned her mind to the egg fried rice in her hand.
Seeing that Yang Ruoqing was almost to the bottom of her meal, Sun was secretly happy. She raised her bowl and took two chopsticks into Yang Ruoqing's bowl without Yang Ruoqing's attention.
"Mom, what are you doing? I'm full."
“When I’m full, I don’t need more than these two chopsticks.”
"I'm dizzy, okay, I'll eat."
"Qing'er, there's something else I want to ask you."
"What's going on?"
"When did our little girl, Xiao An, and Lian'er get together? Why didn't I hear anything about that kid?"
"He would tell us everything when he was little, but he kept this matter a secret. Now he has really grown up."
When Sun said these words, he was half happy and half disappointed.
Yang Ruoqing could naturally hear Sun's complicated emotions, just like in Chen'er and Dazhi's family letters, many contents were no longer explained in detail as before.
When they really grow up and reach the age of marriage, they may only have a few words left in their letters home.
But it's nothing. The loss is also accompanied by relief, because the child has grown up, has his own independent thinking and personality, and has his own thoughts and secrets.
No matter how harmonious the relationship between parents and children is, you cannot be completely transparent with each other and have no secrets.
Everyone has their own privacy and secrets.
Yang Ruoqing touched Sun's shoulder affectionately: "Allow him to have his own privacy and secrets. We just need to understand that no matter how old Xiao An is, he is your mother's son. What's wrong with you as a mother, even if he is anywhere in the world? , no matter which girl he is with, as long as his mother calls him, he will return to her side to take care of her, isn't that enough? "
Sun smiled: "Of course I know your brother is a filial child."
"Isn't that enough!"
"In my heart, I am looking forward to him getting married as soon as possible, but seeing how secretly he hides the girl Lian'er, I feel a little bit uncomfortable..."
"Haha, mom is jealous."
"Don't talk nonsense. How can I be jealous of my son and be laughed at?"
"Mom, it's normal to be jealous. I will definitely be jealous when Chen'er and Zhi'er get married in the future. I can't help it. Who wants my son to be the flesh that falls off my mother's body? However, as long as they are a harmonious couple and love each other beautifully, Love, I’m happy to be jealous!”
Yang Ruoqing comforted Sun again, making Sun laugh.
"Xiao An originally said he would return to Qing'an County tomorrow, but your father said he wouldn't be allowed to leave until the marriage was finalized. So how should we handle this matter next?"
After feeling a little more relaxed, Sun asked again.
"The premise for my father to say those words is that Xiao An has not said that he wants to get engaged. My father is so anxious that he can't say anything harsh."
"No, it can be regarded as blowing up Xiao An's sweetheart. Naturally, my father will no longer forcefully detain Xiao An to kiss her at home, because he knows that this method of kissing at home is a bit unworkable for Xiao An."
Sun suddenly realized that this was indeed the case. Instead of settling the matter between Xiao An and He Lian'er, she dragged Xiao An on a blind date? Isn't this to harm other people's girls?
You can't do that kind of unethical thing!
"What do you mean, we won't stop Xiao An and let him go back to Qing'an County?" asked Sun again.
Yang Ruoqing nodded, "Of course, we can't delay his errand."
"Qing'er, as for the He family... do we parents want to go there too? Before your father knew what Xiao An was thinking, he even made plans with me and said that he and Xiao An would go to Qing'an County together in the first month of the year. He said he would go to the He family to wish the He family a happy New Year and send some rice, grain, oil and supplies along the way. "
"Xiao An's thoughts have come out now. Your father is so angry... I don't even know if he will go to the He family to pay New Year greetings again..."
Regarding this issue, Yang Ruoqing laughed a few times.
"I think maybe my dad will go, maybe he won't go."
"However, no matter whether he goes to the He family to pay New Year greetings or not, the gifts prepared for the He family will be sent to the He family as originally planned, because my father is a person who sees black and white, and the most important thing is that , he is generous, on point, and has a grateful heart."
He Qingsong died to save Xiao An. For this incident, Yang Huazhong was enough to give the He family a lifetime gift, and he would not even blink an eye.
But if Xiao An wants to marry into He's family, that's absolutely not possible.
So this is a contradictory combination.
"When my father comes back at night, mother, you can ask tentatively and see what he says."
"Okay, I'll ask then."
"Oh, by the way, Qing'er, tomorrow is your uncle Shuanzi's first birthday. Our old Yang family will send a representative to burn incense sticks in front of his grave. Your father asked me to tell you this."
Yang Ruoqing suddenly realized that time passed so quickly. In the blink of an eye, it had been seven days since Uncle Shuanzi passed away.
"Fortunately, mother, you reminded me that Tang Yazi told me yesterday that when my uncle passed away, he was ill and bedridden and could not go to mourn. Now, he has to go to the grave to burn incense sticks."
"Well, you can burn incense sticks and let your uncle Shuanzi keep you children and adults safe."
Hearing Sun's all-important words, Yang Ruoqing just smiled lightly on her face, but she didn't believe it in her heart.
If you want to be safe, you have to take care of yourself, don't do dangerous things, and don't commit suicide attempts.
Uncle Shuanzi couldn't protect himself when he was alive. Now that he's dead, can he still have the power to protect others?
Why!
