"Yongjin, did you pay attention to the dishes yesterday? I have no impression at all." Cao Bamei turned to ask Yang Yongjin.
Yang Yongjin smiled and nodded, "Yesterday I was responsible for the dishes for two tables. One of them was the Jiang family. Li Wei and Jiang Xianjun were sitting on the same stool. I even said a few words to him!"
"How are you, young man?" Cao Bamei asked subconsciously.
"How tall are you? How do you look? Do you look decent when talking and eating?" She asked again.
Yang Huazhong on the side smiled calmly.
The focus of men and women is different.
When he discussed this matter with Yang Yongjin before, the first thing Yang Yongjin asked was what was the character of the descendants of the Li family? Have you done anything bad before?
But what Cao Bamei pays attention to is first her height, then her appearance, and finally her character. Hey, this woman just likes to look at her face!
Can your face be eaten?
Damo in the yard next door has the ugliest face in the ten miles and eight villages, but his responsibility is also praised by all the ten miles and eight villages!
Here, Yang Yongjin thought carefully about it, and began to follow the order of Cao Bamei's questions and describe the Li Wei he saw in his eyes to Cao Bamei, from his hair, eyebrows, and eyes.
After working in restaurants for more than ten years, Yang Yong is now sharp-tongued and logical. If a painter were sitting next to him, he might be able to draw Li Wei based on the details he said.
As Cao Bamei listened, she composed the picture in her mind. Gradually, the image of a strong young man with thick eyebrows, big eyes, a high nose, double eyelids, dark skin, and a simple and honest smile emerged.
"One time, he helped to pick up the food. When he stood up, he was about the same height as me. Judging from the movements of his hands, handling the food gently, I guess he must be a more careful boy. His movements are very familiar. I think he should often do this at home. Doing these little things is not the kind of person who doesn’t work hard!”
Yang Yongjin then scrutinized Li Wei based on some details and his own life experience.
Cao Bamei also passed the first level of 'hearing'.
"Third uncle, I believe in Yong Jin's vision. Li Wei's appearance should be no worse than Jiang Xianjun's." Cao Bamei turned around and said to Yang Huazhong.
Yang Huazhong nodded, "Yesterday, the two young men happened to be sitting together. To be honest, they are really comparable. The only difference is that Jiang Xianjun's skin color follows his mother's, which is fairer, while Li Wei is darker. Jiang Xianjun looks like She is more quiet and delicate, which matches Mianmian very well. Li Wei, on the other hand, is more honest and simple, but a little more fierce."
Cao Bamei smiled and nodded gently.
There were some things she couldn't say in person. Not long ago, the fifth uncle and the fifth aunt's family happily married into the Jiang family. Although Jiang Xianjun has a good appearance and a gentle personality, everyone has their own preferences for carrots and vegetables. In Cao Bamei's view, Jiang Xianjun still prefers Jiang Xianjun. A little bit more 'girly', and a little bit more girlish.
Men should still be masculine, and it is better to be wild.
Like...the original Tang Yazi.
"Third uncle, what's the situation like with the Li family? I've only heard a few words about Li Jia being the head of the Li family village before, and I haven't paid much attention to the affairs of the Li Yi family..."
After the boy's external conditions were initially met, the 'mother-in-law' Cao Bamei began to inquire about the boy's family situation.
In the big item column of family situation, it is not only necessary to examine the financial situation of the other party's family, but also the relationship between family members and the personality and temperament of the parents, because this is related to the daughter's living conditions and way of getting along after she gets married.
Usually, if the mother-in-law does not have a good reputation, it will be a huge negative factor when the son proposes marriage.
This issue is what Yang Yongjin is most concerned about. Xiuxiu is Cao Bamei's daughter and also his daughter.
His daughter's lifelong happiness is his concern.
The couple both looked at Yang Huazhong, not daring to miss a word.
Yang Huazhong was also very cautious about this issue, because it related to the judgment and decision of the couple on the marriage, and even more to the lifelong happiness of his grandniece.
"Yongjin, eighth sister, first uncle needs to make things clear to you,"
"Third Uncle is here to help Li Jia find out. Whether this matter can be done or not depends on the opinions of you two and Xiuxiu himself. You must not take Li Jia and me into account just because it is Third Uncle who I came to ask. In our friendship, when it comes to Xiuxiu’s life-long matters, we don’t consider anything else, but only focus on the other person’s family background and character, do you understand?”
Yang Huazhong's cautious and calm attitude infected Yang Yongjin and Cao Bamei.
Yang Yongjin and Cao Bamei looked at each other, and Yang Yongjin said: "Third uncle, don't worry, we understand what you mean, just say whatever you want, we will make our own judgment!"
Yang Huazhong took a sip of tea, gathered his thoughts, and began to tell them in detail about his knowledge and feelings about the brothers Li A and Li B.
"...To be honest, I haven't had much dealings with them. I only started dealing with them when Mr. Mo got lost last time. The time was very short."
"I have been in contact with each other for a few times. Personally, I feel that brothers Li Jia and Li Yi have a very good relationship. The elder brother takes good care of his younger brother and helps him with all the big things. The younger brother also listens to his words, surrenders to him, and trusts him."
"Li Jia should still have a certain prestige in Lijia Village, otherwise he wouldn't be able to become a righteous person. I have never seen Li Wei's aunt and Li Wei's mother. However, usually the two brothers are married and have a relationship. That it can still be so good means two things:"
"One, either they are the big men at home and have the final say, so their mothers-in-law don't dare to interfere with them."
"Second, our respective mothers-in-law are very virtuous and sensible, and we get along well with each other. Otherwise, if the wind blows between us, no matter how good the brothers are, they will turn against each other, don't you think?"
Yang Yongjin and Cao Bamei looked at each other again and nodded.
"It's true. The third aunt and the fifth aunt are the best examples." Cao Bamei said.
Although she had a good relationship with Liao Meiying and Zhao Liuer's sister-in-law and had never had any quarrels, the three of them knew in their hearts that it was just politeness and humility for the sake of appearance.
And Yang Yongjin and Yang Yongzhi are also independent men in this area, and they are not easily blown away by the wind on their pillows. Therefore, if women are smart, they will learn to keep their beauty on face. Only stupid women will unscrupulously instigate brotherly relations, so that Everyone is embarrassed.
Okay, now is not the time to review the relationship between our sisters-in-law. We have been together for so many years, and it is already good to be able to get along like this. The most important thing right now is the future of Xiuxiu.
"Third uncle, if you just hear this, I think the Li family is not bad, and they are not bad as in-laws. However, hearing is deceptive and seeing is believing. If the Li family intends to enter into this marriage, then we will sit down and have a good relationship. Let’s talk, and we also need to clarify some situations with the Li family in person.”
