In the backyard, Xiao Duo Xiao Hua Huang Mao and others were still comforting Xiao Jie.
"Xiaojie, after all this trouble and the reprimands and warnings from the elders on both sides, maybe Zhang Ban really knows that he is wrong. If he really knows that he is wrong and will change it, do you want to give him another chance to change his ways?" Xiaohua asked.
Xiaojie shook her head decisively, "There is only a difference between zero and a hundred times for this kind of thing. Xiaohua, you are not me. You haven't experienced the feeling last night of waiting to read the letter and being frightened and chilled to the point where your whole body was shaking."
Xiaojie turned her face and wiped the moisture from the corners of her eyes, "I remembered Zhang Ban and I's marriage in the past. No one was optimistic about our marriage, but the two of us had a feeling of being connected. He also wrote to me at that time. , telling interesting things about him, I feel like I didn’t marry a farmer in the village, I married a man who shares my heart. No matter whether I am happy or unhappy, there is always someone who understands my heart. I am very at ease. I was very satisfied, but when I saw the letter he wrote to that woman, I suddenly felt that the things I thought I had were all bubbles and dreams, and they were all shattered all at once, and there was nothing left." Now, I don’t know where to go next, and I don’t have the strength to think about that. As for giving him a chance, I can’t do it. I don’t dare to believe him anymore, not even a word, because of what he did. It shocked me so much. I couldn’t imagine that it was what the man who had the same feelings as me did and wrote. He wrote such affectionate words to a second woman besides me. What did it mean? By the time he put pen to paper, his heart was already sinking in.”
"Today's incident happened. Due to the pressure from the parents on both sides, he was afraid. In order to save this family and to give Yan'er a mother, he had to come to admit his mistake and beg for mercy. If I am soft-hearted and give him a chance, wait until the time is longer. The shadow of today fades away, the love bud in his heart sprouts again, and the two of them get together again, what should I do then?"
"Even if he restrains himself from provoking that woman, and that woman comes to provoke him again, which man in the world can really remain calm in his pregnancy?"
"I only want to experience the same experience once, and I don't want it to happen again."
Xiaojie's words touched the hearts of Xiaohua and the others. They were all women and had husbands, and they were all afraid of such a thing happening.
Huang Mao, in particular, looked at Dajie with some worry.
"Dajie, I gave you two sons. Can you please tell me the truth in front of your sisters?" Huang Mao didn't know where he got the courage to speak directly in front of everyone. Ask Dajie.
This caught Dajie a little off guard. He glanced at Huang Mao angrily, "Don't make any more trouble. You don't even look at the time, and you don't act like a sister-in-law by asking these questions."
Huang Mao's tears welled up at that moment, "It's not that I don't look like a sister-in-law, it's that I don't have confidence in myself. I'm not as good as Xiaojie. I don't even know the words. You are also a candidate for promotion, and I am a high-ranking person when I marry you. If you are in I don’t know what I should do about taking concubines in Huguang County. I definitely don’t have the courage to divorce you for the sake of my son. But if I turn a blind eye and watch a new person come in, I won’t be happy for the rest of my life. I am also suffering, can you give me a guarantee?"
Huang Mao's persistent look made Dajie a little surprised and helpless.
Xiaojie wiped away her tears and looked at Dajie, "Brother, I have learned from the past. This kind of thing is very harmful to us women. Can you give a word to my sister-in-law?"
Dajie sighed, looked at Huang Mao, and said word by word, "I, Sun Dajie, am self-aware. I don't have much ability. I will only be able to raise people in this life. For the rest of my life, I look forward to raising my two sons and letting them take the exams." Jinshi, you are more promising than me. As for the other tricks, I don’t have any. When I married you, I didn’t really feel much about it. My mother said it was time for me to get married, so I should find a woman. I actually don’t feel much about women. I have no interest in anything, nothing good or bad, I am face blind, I just need to be able to get by, and I can make do with you."
What he said was that he really didn't know how to speak, and he didn't know how to please or praise his wife at all.
However, Huang Mao felt as if he had taken a reassurance when he heard it, and he felt relieved.
"I would rather you be blind for the rest of your life," Huang Mao said.
In fact, she is also face-blind. Dajie's appearance is really inconspicuous among the men. He wears glasses and is fat. He is just twenty-four this year, and his hairline has moved up a lot. He has doubted her twice. Will I go bald in the new year?
But these are not important. The two ugly monsters are living together, and the colorful world outside has nothing to do with them.
Feel at ease, feel at ease and be fulfilled.
Those ugly couples can experience what the talented and beautiful couples have experienced. On the contrary, because of their talented and beautiful women, they will cause more troubles. It's good for me to be simple like this.
"Brother, I hope you can match your words and deeds, and don't let your sister-in-law go through what your sister has gone through." Xiaojie said sincerely.
Dajie looked at Xiaojie with a complicated expression, "You don't need to worry about your brother and sister-in-law. It's your own business. You really have to think about it."
"Of course your previous concerns are reasonable, but there are no absolutes in this world. There is a saying that once disloyalty cannot be tolerated a hundred times, but there is also a saying that a prodigal will never return his money. Knowing your mistakes can make a lot of improvements."
"Zhang Ban is a classmate of mine. I actually agree with his character. His nature is not bad."
"I am sincere to you and Yan'er, otherwise I would not come here to ask for marriage. Your brother and I are a man. No matter how much love a man says to a woman, it is all false. The only way is to give her a marriage. Ming Media is marrying her and letting her be his wife. , this is the most real concern.”
"He is just like that horse. He is young and energetic. Maybe he ran a little off track and ran a little off the road, but fortunately he has not overturned. The woman on the other side was hired by the school to help sweep. The two of them may have gotten closer because they were close to the water, but fortunately, nothing serious has happened yet."
"If Zhang Ban can show enough sincerity to correct his mistakes in the future, for the sake of the children and yourself, I would like to suggest that you think about it calmly and don't divorce easily."
"Of course, if you really insist on making peace, your brother will support you for the rest of your life. No matter what happens, remember, you have your brother and your family to support you."
"Brother" before Dajie finished speaking, Xiaojie suddenly burst into tears and threw herself into Dajie's arms and hugged his waist tightly.
Dajie's eyes were also red, he raised his hand behind his back and gently placed it on his sister's head.
He rarely did this gesture of stroking his head, and it seemed even more awkward to sit up now.
But he still gently touched his sister's head and said, "Don't cry, there is no obstacle that you can't overcome."
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