When asked if Dabai had apologized to him for his regrets, Yang Huamei stopped laughing and sat down a little lonely, with a desolate look on his face.
"In front of my two sisters-in-law, I didn't say those arrogant words. I'll tell you the truth. Although I won't seriously argue with Dabai, in my heart, I still have some objections to my child's behavior."
Yang Huamei raised her finger and pointed at her heart.
"Since he was little, this kid has been more scheming than Xiao Hei. Xiao Hei was disobedient and was frightened after a few pats."
"But I understand that this child has matured early. You hit him, scolded him, and tried to reason with him, but he didn't listen and ignored him. He closed his eyes and cried for a while. We left him to dry. Other people's children will naturally become tired of crying. Well, it seemed that he would never get tired. Instead, he would bang his head against the wall. If he was not allowed to hit the wall, he would hit other places. He would hit wherever he caught, no matter what. My mother-in-law was frightened several times at that time. Later, we were all afraid of him and we did whatever he wanted."
"He lost his temper a lot when he was a child and punched and kicked me a lot. But at that time he was just a baby and didn't care about it. Now he is twelve years old and has been studying for four or five years. Speaking of which, As a scholar, I can't even say soft words to me like this."
"On the contrary, I patiently ran back and forth to serve him, feeling sorry for his legs, and he still got angry with me. To be honest, my two sisters-in-law, I really feel chilled. It is useless to raise a son..."
Yang Huamei said, picking up the corner of her clothes and wiping her eyes.
No use raising a son?
Bao Suyun and Sun looked at each other.
Sorry, they both have sons, but the sons at home are obedient and sensible, and know how to care about their parents.
"Mei'er, don't you not like hearing what third sister-in-law has to say." Mrs. Sun said.
"What you said earlier has nothing to do with raising a son. Don't worry about your son's daughter. It won't work if you don't teach him well since he was a child. Let's not talk about anything else. Just look at your fourth uncle's daughter. Is that a daughter? What's the result? ?”
Sun's words left Yang Huamei speechless.
Seeing Yang Huamei's expression on the verge of tears, Sun's tone softened a bit, and continued: "We all know that it was not easy for you to conceive the twins, and we also know that giving birth to the twins is a difficult time for the old Wang family, which has only a few heirs. , it’s like the stars and the moon falling from the sky, it’s so precious.”
"But Mei'er, which family's children don't come here like this? We parents love our children and have to think for them in the long run, instead of just satisfying their desires unlimitedly when they want something when they are young."
"**Things like this, let alone children, are just like a bag for adults. The bigger it gets, the more things they want to hold. The appetite is too big, It’s not good for the children. Suyun, don’t you think so?”
Bao Suyun nodded quickly: "I think it makes sense."
"When children are young, they are ignorant and want few things. A handful of candy canes and two small slingshots can satisfy them. But as they grow up, they want more things. They learn to compare and see others. The four treasures of the study suite are famous brands, but mine are just ordinary items, so I might feel unbalanced."
"When I see others wearing silk and satin, while I am wearing coarse cloth, I feel like I can't hold my head up."
"As parents, if we grit our teeth at this time, we might be able to satisfy his wish, but the desire to compare is always there, and he himself doesn't put in the effort. When he gets married in the future, he will want a magnificent mansion. , I want gold, silver and jewelry, I want to marry the most beautiful girl, I want to buy a carriage, and a farm shop is here to make the scene, do we parents have the conditions?"
"I'm not satisfied. Well, the marriage is ruined. I have to make noises at home all day long, beating and complaining about my parents. I am worried about why I was born in such a family. When that happens, what will we do as parents?"
"My heart is broken into pieces. I have to accompany him to grieve. I can't think of it anymore and I am so upset that I am useless and commit suicide! I am not an alarmist about this kind of thing. When I was in Qing'an County, there was an alley behind the restaurant. It’s something that happened to every family!”
"So I often tell my eldest daughter, in the future you can eat as much food as you want. If your parents can raise you up, they have fulfilled their obligations. If you didn't save any money when you got married, your parents can still help you." Once your daughter-in-law comes in, you have to hold up the house by yourself, do things down-to-earth, and provide for me and your father until the end of our lives!"
Yang Huamei was dumbfounded.
After Bao Suyun finished speaking, Yang Huamei was still looking straight at her.
"Fifth sister-in-law, I feel like my life has been in vain." She came back to her senses after a long time and said with a wry smile.
Bao Suyun sighed, "Mei'er, please don't say such depressing words. My third sister-in-law and I are not telling you these things intentionally to find fault with you and Dabai. We want to help you."
"Dabai and Xiaohei are not big now, and they are not small now. We will expose the past things. You have to help them plan for the future. When it is time to discipline them strictly, they will not be tolerated at all. Don’t be sloppy, otherwise, it will be too late to discipline her when it’s time to talk about getting married in a few years!”
Mrs. Sun nodded: "I have the same idea as Suyun. If you want to take care of it, you have to take care of it now. You can still bend the child right now even if you use your strength."
Yang Huamei said nothing, frowning slightly, but she made up her mind.
Yes, we must discipline the children well this time no matter what, otherwise we will raise two scourges in the future, especially Dabai!
"Did Dabai go to the town hospital for his foot injury? What did the doctor say?" Ms. Sun asked again.
Yang Huamei's face was full of despair: "I went to see him, and the doctor said that the child's feet cannot return to normal. Even if he can walk on the ground, he will be a little lame in the future. This way of studying will not work."
"I have discussed it with Shuanzi. As long as he can live well, do things down-to-earth, and is neither coward nor lazy, he will always have a mouthful of food in the future and will not starve to death."
Sun and Bao Suyun could only sigh at this.
To study, you need to have good facial features and no obvious physical defects. It is clear that the road to study is really broken.
"My eldest daughter is not lame, but he is not good at studying. He studied for several years and even sent him to Qing'an County to study. The last time he went to Changhuaizhou to take the exam with your eldest daughter and Xiao Hei, he didn't take the exam either. His father said he would be a scholar and take him to a restaurant in Qing'an County after the Lantern Festival, and then he would learn how to do business from him."
Mrs. Sun also laughed, "My Xiaoan is not a good student. When he didn't study, he went to the southwest battlefield with his brother-in-law, which worried me to death. Fortunately, he finally found a job in Qing'an County with his military exploits. I also feel at ease, every cow has grass all the way, and every cow can have enough to eat.”
