Cao Bamei fully agreed with Sun's words, "It's right to raise a son, and it's the same for raising a daughter. The key lies in how the parents teach them."
"My third child, look at how stupid he was when he was born. He is just like a clean piece of white paper."
"What we draw on this paper depends entirely on us as parents. As long as we draw well, we will be as sensible and upbeat as Da'an. If we draw poorly, haha, then we will be in trouble..." she said.
Mrs. Sun also smiled and narrowed her eyes.
"On the one hand, it is the education of the parents, and some of it is also related to the child's own temperament. Let's not talk about others, let's talk about Yongjin and Yongzhi. Which one taught them when they were young? Your father-in-law himself is crooked, and your mother-in-law Deaf and mute, unable to speak, Yongjin Yongzhi has grown up to be such an upright and responsible person, all because of himself."
"But with the same parents, Yongxian's temperament is different. He was spoiled to be a little selfish. As for Yongqing, haha, I won't comment on it. Fortunately, he is confused about everything around him and is not confused about his own daughter. , which is somewhat helpful.”
Sun's words made Cao Bamei laugh.
"Third Aunt, don't make me laugh. The wounds under my body will hurt if I smile too much!" she said.
Mrs. Sun quickly said: "Okay, if I don't tell you, I won't tell you. What? Your wound is relatively big. You need to take care of it. Don't be in a hurry to go to the ground this month. Take care of yourself like Xiaojie. It will be good for the future." .”
Cao Bamei said: "How can I not be as lucky as Xiaojie? I am both my mother and my mother-in-law. If you and my sister-in-law hadn't come to take care of me during my confinement period, I wouldn't even be able to eat or drink!"
Mrs. Sun said: "Don't worry, we have nothing to do in this winter. Your sister-in-law and I take turns taking care of your confinement. We women are the most careless in our lives. We have to take good care of them for a month or two. Some old people have to take good care of them." The root cause of the disease may even be cured during confinement, this is experience, you have to listen."
Cao Bamei smiled and nodded repeatedly.
"How many days can Yongjin stay at home during this trip?" Sun asked Cao Bamei again.
Cao Bamei said: "I asked him before and he said he has to leave in two days."
"Why are you in such a hurry? Why don't you wait for the child to finish nine baths before leaving?" Ms. Sun asked in surprise.
Cao Bamei said: "In winter, the business in the restaurant is at its peak, and it cannot be separated from people. He is not around to keep an eye on many things, and he is always afraid that the people below him will not do their best."
Mrs. Sun sighed: "Leaving Yong Jin to manage the restaurant really saves Qing'er's time. Even if Yong Jin is going to be tired, he won't be able to take care of you after you give birth to a baby."
Cao Bamei smiled and said: "My brothers and sisters should help each other. Besides, being able to be the shopkeeper of a big restaurant in the county is a dignity that many people can't envy! When it comes to thanking, we should thank Qing'er."
Mrs. Sun waved her hand: "We are all brothers and sisters, no polite words. Then, you can't sit for a long time. While the child is asleep, you can take a nap for a while to recuperate. I will bring you a meal at noon. .”
Cao Bamei said: "Third Aunt, Yongjin is at home these two days, so you and my sister-in-law don't have to worry about the food. Just let him take care of it."
Sun said: "That's fine. We'll wait until Yong Jin leaves and we'll take over again."
In this way, Yang Yongjin stayed at home for nearly five days. During the five days, he cooked delicious meals for Cao Bamei and others in various ways, and taught the eldest daughter Xiuxiu how to make confinement meals for Cao Bamei and how to change the diaper of the younger brother. , wash your buttocks...
After five days of careful conditioning and rest, Cao Bamei's wounds have basically healed, and she has long been able to walk around the house on her own.
Her energy and spirit were also very good in all aspects. Compared to Liao Meiying, Cao Bamei recovered much faster.
On the fifth day, Yang Yongjin reluctantly said goodbye to his wife and children, returned to the county town, and promised to go home early in the twelfth lunar month to refill the full-moon wine for his children.
Life in the village returned to calm.
The two granddaughter-in-laws of Lao Yang's family were each in confinement. Sun and Bao Suyun took turns going to the old house to deliver meals and bathing to Tan.
Old Yangtou and Yang Huazhong accompanied Yang Yongxian to stay in the county medical center for treatment. Liu, who was divorced, never returned to Changping Village since that day when her natal brother took her back to Liujia Village.
He'er, the three girls, and Kang Xiaozi were all thrown to Xiaojuan.
Coupled with Tiedan, Xiaojuan now has to take care of so many children, plus Feifei's dog.
Moreover, He'er has always been hostile to Xiaojuan. The two of them are almost the same age. They live under the same roof, and there is no Tan family to control them. Every day, the small farmyard at the south end of the village is full of noises, falls, and constant smoke. .
And Yang Huaming gets up early and goes to the Taoist temple every day to work, and is not at home. No, on this ordinary morning, another war broke out between Xiaojuan and He'er.
The cause of the matter is this:
Xiaojuan got up early and went to the kitchen to cook, while the three girls went to wash.
Kang Xiaozi and Tiedan were naturally playing, but He'er didn't do anything. After getting up, they didn't wash their faces, wash their hair, or comb them. They went to the kitchen and took two raw eggs and left.
Si Fang's life is now very tight, and there are only ten eggs left in the basket, which Sun secretly asked Yang Huaming to bring back a few days ago.
Xiaojuan originally thought that He'er wanted to drink the egg flower herself, so she didn't take it seriously.
As a result, Tiedan ran in and shouted to her: "Mom, sister He'er took the eggs to feed Feifei..."
Xiaojuan immediately rushed to He'er's house and saw He'er holding Feifei in her arms, holding the back of Feifei's head with one hand, asking Feifei to open her mouth, and holding an egg with the other hand to fly the egg liquid away. Squeeze it into your mouth...
"He'er, how could you do this? These eggs are for your two brothers to replenish their health. We are reluctant to eat them. How can you feed them to the dogs? You kid!"
Xiaojuan rushed over and grabbed the remaining egg on the table, feeling extremely distressed.
Feifei immediately barked at Xiaojuan and bared his teeth.
Yang Ruohe has no tongue and although she cannot speak, she still has angry eyes and hands and feet.
She raised her hand and slammed it on the table, pointed at the egg in Xiaojuan's hand, and said "Ahhh" twice.
Feifei also immediately raised the volume in response, barking at Xiaojuan.
The meaning of one person and one dog is very obvious. This is to ask Xiaojuan to be wise and return the egg quickly.
Xiaojuan was so angry that she said: "Your third aunt gave you these eggs a few days ago. Our family's life is not as good as it used to be. Your father gets up early every day and goes to the Taoist temple every day to earn money to support us. You just don't do anything." That’s all, you have to know something and don’t waste things, okay?”
Xiaojuan looked at Feifei in Yang Ruohe's arms again. The dog smelled so bad that the hair all over his body was knotted, as if he was wearing a raincoat.
"This is a dog after all. It would be good to give it some leftovers. Can you eat the good food first with your two brothers?"
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