"Father, mother, if you can support me, I'm so happy. I'll discuss it later with Uncle Luo, Grandpa Ga and my father to see what they think." Yang Ruoqing continued.
Listening to their thoughts, it was not that she was worried that they would stop her from doing this, but that she couldn't make up her mind on whether to build a temple or a Taoist temple.
Yang Huazhong said: "It's okay, everyone will definitely agree with this meritorious deed you have done. When the time comes, I will invite several elders in the village to my home, and we will discuss it together. Come up with concrete ideas!”
Mrs. Sun also suppressed her excitement and added: "Qing'er, no matter whether it is a temple or a Taoist temple, after it is built, there must be someone inside, right? Where can we find these monks and Taoist priests?"
Yang Ruoqing curled her lips and said, "Mom, don't worry. As long as I have money and the support of you guys, I won't worry about anything."
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Going home at night, Yang Ruoqing told Blacksmith Luo and the others about her plan. Without exception, everyone agreed.
The next day, Yang Huazhong went into the village with Blacksmith Luo and told the elders in the village about the matter. By the way, he also informed Lao Suntou and Lao Yangtou. .
As for the person involved, Yang Ruoqing went to Xiangjiazhuang with Xiaoduo to visit Shengnan's father, bringing gifts.
Seeing Xiaoduo and Yang Ruoqing going to Xiangjiazhuang, Feng'er became anxious and wanted to follow them.
"I'm going to visit relatives with my aunt!" Feng'er grabbed the corner of Yang Ruoqing's clothes and refused to let go.
"We have to go in a carriage, and my sister is riding a horse!" Feng'er added.
Yang Ruoqing smiled. Feng'er probably went to Zhoujiacun with her and Luo Fengtang to visit relatives last time, and left a deep impression on her, so she also wanted to go to Xiangjiazhuang this time.
Yang Ruoqing leaned down and coaxed Feng'er and said: "Feng'er, my eldest aunt and your little aunt are going to visit my uncle's house today. You are not allowed to bring children with you when visiting the doctor. If the illness is over, the children will get sick. When you are sick, you have to suffer. You can’t eat anything delicious, you are so pitiful.”
Going to Xiangjiazhuang to visit a doctor is just a visit to a doctor. Yang Ruoqing doesn't like to be like other surrounding villagers, who casually make up a ridiculous excuse to scare the child in order to get rid of the child's following.
What is similar to: My aunt went to fight a big tiger. The big tiger became very aggressive and specialized in eating children...
There are kidnappers there, who specialize in kidnapping children. You can't follow them...
Yang Ruoqing never told these lies to her children. For the same reason, she also communicated with the elders in her family to ask everyone not to do that to their children.
It is what it is. Don't use those absurd things to misguide your children's understanding of the world, and don't lie when you open your mouth. This will invisibly create a bad image for your children.
When the children grow older, they will also learn to lie casually.
You must learn to communicate with your children, present facts and reason, and your children will understand.
If he understands and can understand, that's best. If he understands but doesn't understand, then you can use other things to divert his attention.
If diversion of attention doesn't work and he starts acting up, then it's better to be polite before fighting, become serious, and show the majesty of a parent.
Let him understand that if you can’t do it, you can’t do it, and there is no such thing as luck!
Therefore, Luo Baobao and Feng'er, who grew up in this way of communication, heard Yang Ruoqing's reasons for not going. Feng'er fell silent and blinked a pair of big, spiritual eyes, as if analyzing and considering. The hardships you have to endure after being overtaken by illness, and make trade-offs and decisions based on this...
Next to him, Baobao Luo had prepared his schoolbag and walked happily towards Feng'er.
"Brother, visiting a doctor is not fun at all. You and your sister go to school. Mr. Han is going to teach us how to play games!"
Feng'er listened to her sister's words and nodded immediately.
Luo Baobao smiled and leaned down to help Feng'er tidy up her clothes.
Seeing the two siblings loving each other, Yang Ruoqing's eyes were full of warmth, as if she saw herself and Da'an and Xiao'an back then...
Mrs. Sun came from the backyard, carrying a bamboo basket filled with eggs.
"Qing'er, take these eggs with you too. Walk slowly on the road and don't break the eggs." Mrs. Sun warned as she came to the main room and put the basket full of eggs on the table.
There is another basket on the Eight Immortals table. The basket is padded with straw. On top of the straw is a hanging pork belly, which weighs five or six kilograms visually.
"Mom, don't worry, we two adults can still crack these eggs?" Yang Ruoqing smiled towards Sun.
Mrs. Sun also smiled, then looked at the gloomy sky outside and said, "I'm afraid it will rain again today. Remember to bring an umbrella. Do you really don't need me to go?"
Yang Ruoqing shook her head: "For this visit, Duo'er and I will go there. If you go too, mother, who will take Feng'er with you?"
Sun became silent.
After a while, Mrs. Sun said again: "It's better not to walk from a tree later, find another way!"
Yang Ruoqing said: "There are three roads leading to Xiangjiazhuang. One is over the top of the mountain. Obviously, it rained two days ago, and the light in the mountain is dark. There is a lot of moss and so on, making the road slippery and difficult to walk."
"The second option is to turn from a few villages over there. Xiangjiazhuang, which is three miles away, has to go ten miles away alive. It's not cost-effective."
"The third way is from the back of the village, walking up the river dam, passing the slope of 'One Tree', and going down the slope is Xiangjiazhuang. Mom, if you were us, which way would you choose?"
Yang Ruoqing's words stunned Mr. Sun.
Mrs. Sun smiled awkwardly: "Yes, you have to walk over to a tree. I'll call your father back and ask him to take you across a tree."
Yang Ruoqing stopped Mrs. Sun: "Mom, just be more at ease. What are you afraid of in this clear sky?"
"Besides, who am I, your daughter? Only ghosts have always been afraid of me, not me. What's more, I will soon build a building next to a tree. They fear me and are grateful to me before it's too late. Woolen cloth!"
After hearing Yang Ruoqing's analysis, Sun felt it was reasonable, "Okay, then I have to take the two children to school. The other children should be staring at the old maple tree, and I can't delay any longer."
"Go, go," Yang Ruoqing said with a smile, and told Luo Baobao and Feng'er: "When you get to school, you must listen to grandma. When the weather clears up in a few days, I will take you to the county town to play for a few days."
When the two children heard the promise, they immediately became excited and followed Sun out happily.
They went out, but Xiaoduo hadn't come yet.
Yang Ruoqing looked in the direction of the backyard and couldn't help but want to laugh.
This girl usually goes everywhere so neatly, but now she was dragging her feet and didn't leave the house for a long time.
You don’t need to guess to know that most of them are just dressing up. After all, this person is going to Xiangjiazhuang to visit her father-in-law as a prospective daughter-in-law.
Yang Ruoqing did not rush, but started to sort out the gifts. She believed that if Xiaoduo didn't come over, he must have not packed them well. When he finished packing them, he would definitely come over.
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