After hearing what Yang Ruoqing and Xiaoqin said, Ping'er felt a little less guilty about Huahua.
"Qing'er, there is one thing I want to trouble you with," she said.
"What's going on?" Yang Ruoqing asked.
Ping'er lowered her voice and said, "Huahua will be eleven soon. In three or four years, she will be old enough to talk about her husband's family."
"When the time comes, you have to help me pay attention. I'm bored at home doing needlework all day long. I don't go out often, and I don't know many people."
"You have a wide network of friends and connections, and you are good at judging people. When the time comes, you have to help me make decisions about Huahua's marriage," Ping'er said.
Seeing Ping'er's cautious look, Yang Ruoqing didn't know whether to laugh or cry.
"You also know that Huahua is only eleven years old? This is still a child, why are you so anxious!" Yang Ruoqing said.
"Be prepared early..." Ping'er said.
Yang Ruoqing rolled her eyes at Ping'er and said, "Some things can be prepared for a rainy day, and some things really don't need to be so urgent."
"You are so anxious to prepare for Huahua, which makes me feel bad. You know, my baby is only two years younger than Huahua!"
Ping'er was startled.
"What are your plans for your baby?" she asked again.
Yang Ruoqing said: "My baby has just turned nine. In the eyes of Tang Yazi and I, she is still a child."
"We are not as anxious as other people's parents. I want to raise my daughter until she is sixteen years old and then marry her at the age of eighteen or nineteen."
"I can understand that you want to keep your daughter at home for two more years," Ping'er said.
"But girls usually get married when they are fourteen or fifteen and have children when they are fifteen or sixteen. I am an old girl who didn't get married until she was in her early twenties and have children," she said.
Yang Ruoqing smiled and said: "Girls get married at the age of fourteen or fifteen. I don't know who set the rules, so everyone follows suit."
"The rule is that dead people are alive. I know some medical skills and have a general understanding of the structure of the human body."
"Actually, whether you are a boy or a girl, getting married too early or having a baby too early is not good for your health."
"When you are fourteen or fifteen years old, your body bones are still growing, so many girls have difficulty in giving birth, and many boys are weak because they got married too early."
"My baby, I will let her get married and have children at the right age."
Both Ping'er and Xiaoqin were shocked by Yang Ruoqing's words. After a while, Ping'er came back to her senses and said with admiration: "Qing'er, being the daughter of you and Tang Yazi is really a baby. Several lifetimes of good fortune.”
"In this world, with parents as open-minded and courageous as you, your baby will never be afraid of being bullied for the rest of his life!"
Yang Ruoqing smiled and said: "If she wants to avoid being bullied for the rest of her life, she has to rely on herself. Her father and I can't protect her for the rest of our lives."
Ping'er nodded, "That's true."
Yang Ruoqing lowered her gaze to Ping'er's pale face and said, "We are here to visit you today, and you are the protagonist."
"Ping'er, during this time, you have to change your impatience. You can do all the housework at home,"
"You have to take good care of your body first. Only after you take good care of your body can you do anything else." She said.
Ping'er smiled and nodded, "Brother Zhou Sheng told me the same thing. He said that our daughter is only seven or eight months old, and he also wants to have another child at this time. This child also came unexpectedly."
"Now that it has slipped, it can only be said to be God's will and no chance. It told me not to be sad anymore and to take good care of myself."
Yang Ruoqing said: "Even Brother Zhou Sheng said so, what else do you have to worry about? Take good care of your body, wait until your daughter is three or four years old, and you will give birth to her again at that time. If she gives birth now, you will not be able to take her with her. Both adults and children will suffer. !”
On the side, Xiaoqin couldn't help but joked: "I think it's been a month or two since we got married, and Bingbing's kid was standing in the middle, making it so noisy that Brother Zhou Sheng couldn't consummate the marriage with you."
"Later, we finally consummated the marriage. I didn't expect that I would get pregnant so quickly and give birth to a little girl. Brother Zhou Sheng is really amazing!"
Ping'er's face turned red and she lowered her head, embarrassed to speak.
Yang Ruoqing turned around and teased Xiaoqin, "Isn't your brother Damo awesome? He gave birth to a son in the first year of their marriage!"
Xiaoqin smiled and said: "Qing'er, don't tell me. The most powerful man here is undoubtedly your Tang Yazi. I just let your son and daughter be born together."
Yang Ruoqing's face also became hot, and she reached out and pinched Xiaoqin: "You shameless person, you can say such things."
Xiaoqin giggled and said: "We are all now raising children, what can't we say? Hey, Qing'er, I've been wanting to ask you, you haven't had a baby in the past eight or nine years. How did you do it?"
"What do you mean?" Yang Ruoqing asked.
Xiaoqin said: "I don't want to have another baby, but I don't know how to prevent me from getting pregnant. I just try my luck."
Yang Ruoqing said: "Are you really asking or are you joking?"
Xiaoqin said: "It must be a genuine question. There are no outsiders here."
Yang Ruoqing said: "Sure, let me ask you first. If you answer my question, I will tell you."
"You ask!" Xiaoqin said.
Yang Ruoqing raised her eyebrows: "Do you think it is Daping who is better, or my brother Damo who is better?"
When asked about this, Xiaoqin looked embarrassed.
Yang Ruoqing said: "Hey, did I ask you a question?"
Xiaoqin gritted her teeth and said, "Just say it, there's nothing to be scared of."
"The two of them, what should I say? I think it's more like Daping," Xiaoqin said.
"After all, when I married Daping, everyone was seventeen or eighteen years old, very energetic and fierce."
"And when I married Da Mo, Da Mo was in his mid-twenties, almost thirty, so he definitely couldn't compare with Da Ping in all aspects of physical strength!"
"And Daping is taller and burlier than Damo..."
"Hey, look at me, I'm really stimulated today. Why are you talking about this when you're so good!" Xiaoqin got upset again halfway through her words.
Yang Ruoqing said: "It's okay, there are no outsiders here."
Xiaoqin's eyes dimmed and she said, "I have to say that I was really happy to be with Daping at that time. We fell in love with each other the first time we saw each other."
"But, what's the use of saying all this now? The Daping people are gone, and the one who is with me now is Da Mo."
"Although Da Mo is not as good as Da Ping in that aspect, Da Mo is really kind to me and gave me a son."
"When a man and a woman live together, they can't keep their eyes on that one thing, right? I told Damo that in order to repay his kindness to me, I would give him two more children,"
"Da Mo said that having a mistress and two daughters is enough, and he doesn't plan to have any more."
"Qing'er, please teach me how to serve the men in my family without getting pregnant?" Xiaoqin asked.
Ping'er also looked up at Yang Ruoqing curiously.
Xiaoqin's words touched Ping'er.
