"Sister, you're asking this, I, I was caught off guard!" Xiaojie lowered her head, her face completely red like a monkey's ass.
Yang Ruoqing smiled and said: "This is a major event of your life. Think about it carefully, who will have a better first impression?"
"If you don't speak your mind bravely, your elders may help you make up your mind. If it doesn't suit you, this is not buying something."
"If you are not satisfied, you can return it for a refund. Once the marriage is decided, both parents will be angry. It will be difficult for you to say you are not satisfied."
After some analysis and guidance from Yang Ruoqing, Xiaojie sat there, twirling the corners of her clothes with her fingers, and whispered.
"Cousin, to be honest, this is the first time I've met both of them,"
"I can't say who I think is good or bad, but I think Fan Zhong is very attentive when we eat together."
"He helped me hold chopsticks and pick up food, etc. He was really attentive and thoughtful in taking care of me,"
"As for Zhang Ban, if we eat at the same table, he won't do this for me."
"And he rarely looked at me. I even doubted whether he had even looked at me after finishing the meal."
"He's cold, seems a bit dull, a bit indifferent, not enthusiastic at all, he doesn't even look like he's here for a blind date, and he doesn't even do anything to please you!" Xiaojie said.
Yang Ruoqing raised her eyebrows, "So, do you think Fan Zhong is better?"
Xiaojie hesitated for a moment, "That's not the case. I was just talking about their actions. However, when Fan Zhong and I were sitting close, I smelled his scent."
"The smell made me feel very uncomfortable and uncomfortable, even though he kindly served me food and smiled at me,"
"But I just felt uncomfortable and uncomfortable, so I wanted to move to the side to distance myself from him."
"With Zhang Ban, I smelled his scent, which made me feel very calm and friendly,"
"This smell really doesn't match his cold face at all."
"But it's strange. Fan Zhong and I ate together, and I had no appetite for that meal."
"But when we ate at the same table as Zhang Ban, I ate nearly two bowls!"
After hearing what Xiaojie said, Yang Ruoqing couldn't help but laugh.
"Xiaojie, what do you want me to say about you?" Yang Ruoqing said.
"I only know that when the dogs in our village grow up to get married and give birth to puppies, the dogs rely on each other's body odor to find mates."
"You also rely on smell..." Yang Ruoqing smiled and said nothing.
"Cousin, don't rush me. I'm serious when I tell you. I really feel that their tastes give me different feelings!" Xiaojie emphasized again.
Yang Ruoqing stopped smiling and changed to a serious expression.
"If this is the case, then deep down in your heart you may feel that you are more compatible with Zhang Ban," she said.
There is a safe distance between people.
This safe distance is a feeling and a mental one.
For example, when you are sitting there reading a book or watching a movie,
The person you are closest to usually walks around you, or touches your shoulder lightly when passing behind you, or puts his arm around your shoulders and sits down next to you.
You won't feel anything wrong, and your heartbeat won't be disrupted.
However, when someone just approaches you, even if there is a distance, even if your back is turned to him,
You will feel that every pore in your body seems to be open like eyes, paying close attention to each other's every move.
When he gets closer, gets closer again, and enters your psychologically safe distance,
Even if he hasn't done anything to you, you will take the initiative to put down the book, or turn around with the phone in your hand, and then ask him, 'What are you doing? ' or 'Something's wrong?' '
"Cousin, am I really more compatible with Zhang Ban? To be honest, I do prefer Zhang Ban's looks between the two of them," Xiaojie continued.
"Growing up, what I disliked the most was Fan Zhong's appearance,"
"The skin color is a bit dark and he drinks. Zhang Ban is different. He doesn't drink and is quiet. I actually don't like men who talk too much. I like men who talk less, like my brother-in-law." Xiaojie said.
Yang Ruoqing smiled, "Your brother-in-law, everyone used to say that he was dull. Even many women in the village said they had never heard him speak, and they wondered if he was mute or stuttered."
"I just like him who is so dull. He talks less and appears steady. He counts every sentence without saying any nonsense."
"I don't like people who talk a lot. They just say everything out of their mouths. But a man who talks less means that he is thinking in his head and heart." Yang Ruoqing said.
Xiaojie nodded repeatedly, her eyes shining brightly.
After giving a speech, Yang Ruoqing was almost certain in her heart that the person Xiaojie liked was Zhang Ban.
After chatting casually with Xiaojie about other common things, Yang Ruoqing took her leave.
Not long after returning home, Mrs. Sun came over eagerly to inquire about the results, holding Feng'er in her arms. Mrs. Sun went with her.
Yang Ruoqing said: "The person Xiaojie likes more is probably Zhang Ban. She doesn't have a good feeling for Fan Zhong."
"Ah?" Da Sun was surprised, and a little disappointed.
Obviously, it was Fan Zhong who was attracted by the eldest Sun family.
Conflict is coming.
Da Sun said: "This girl is young and her eyesight is shallow. What's so good about that spot? Will she regret it only after she suffers in the future? It will be too late to regret it by then!"
Sun said: "Sister, don't worry. Wait until Dajie comes back in a few days. Then invite the two young men to your home, and you can see each other in person."
Yang Ruoqing also nodded: "Well, let's contact her a few more times. Now I've only met Xiaojie once, but you haven't met me once, so let's not jump to conclusions yet."
Da Sun took a breath and had no choice but to do so.
I hope that the next time we see each other, this girl Xiaojie can change her mind.
Yang Ruoqing spent two days with Luo Baobao at home, and then planned to leave for Tianhai County.
But the little girl was clamoring to go with her.
Yang Ruoqing had no choice but to hug her and coax her patiently again: "Mom is going over here. After delivering clothes to dad, she has to go to Hangzhou to purchase goods. It's inconvenient to take you with me."
"Let's do this. Mom promises you that after the Chinese New Year, Mom will take you to the capital to see your brother Chen'er. What do you think?"
Tianhai County is currently experiencing a turbulent undercurrent, with forces from all sides intertwined.
It seems peaceful, but just one trigger point can bring down the entire Tianhai County.
Therefore, it is absolutely impossible to bring Baby Luo there.
What if the two sides fight and the child is lost? Yang Ruoqing didn't even dare to think about it, let alone take the risk!
