Seeing Yang Huamei's embarrassed look, Yang Ruoqing also smiled slightly and changed the topic again.
"So, it's better to be like us. In the past, we were not treated well by Nanny. Now she doesn't care what she does to Goudan, and we don't have any troubles in our hearts." She said.
"Auntie, don't feel that there is a gap. These ten fingers have different lengths when they are stretched out. Grandma is getting older. Now Goudan is the youngest grandson. This grandson is different from his great-grandson. Grandma It’s understandable to hurt him more.”
"You've eaten the chicken cake, drank the sesame paste, and your body has warmed up. All the depression has gone away. You have to go on with your life, so just look away." She said.
Not to mention Aunt Meier, even I must have this awareness.
Father Yang Huazhong and mother Sun really care deeply about the baby and their ambitions, and everyone can see it.
Once Da'an's baby is born, the parents' love for the baby and Chen'er will not diminish.
However, people's energy must be limited. They will allocate some of it to Da'an's children, and Da'an's children are their biological grandchildren. When the time comes, they will get along with them day and night.
Gradually, day by day, bit by bit, this energy and attention will be transferred to Da'an's children unconsciously.
As my grandson and granddaughter grow up day by day, they spend less and less time in their laps going to school and playing.
And the naive little grandson is at his knees every day. As time goes by, the emotional balance will gradually shift.
This is not to blame parents. There are parents everywhere, and their love for their children actually exists.
However, under the influence of energy, time, distance and other factors, there will be distance between people.
This is a pattern that cannot be reversed.
Therefore, we must learn to adapt, accept, see and understand.
Because when one day I become a grandparent, it may be difficult to treat my children with equal care, but my love for my children will always exist. This is enough!
After listening to Yang Ruoqing's enlightenment, Yang Huamei's heart seemed to be a little brighter, and she no longer felt so sour that she wanted to cry.
After she left, Bao Suyun and Yang Ruoqing were left facing each other to warm themselves over the fire.
Bao Suyun said: "Your Aunt Mei'er, after all, life was so good in the past. My parents held it in their palms and it hurt."
"If she were like me, haha, my natal brother died ten years ago, and I don't even have a natal family for me to pick on!" she said.
Yang Ruoqing stretched out her hand and gently covered Bao Suyun's hand: "Don't be sad, fifth aunt, you still have Dabao and Mianmian, and my fifth uncle too!"
"Besides, my mother and my father's side are your natal family."
Bao Suyun nodded lightly: "If you want to be content, your Aunt Mei'er is really good enough. Your grandma will never neglect her no matter how much she loves Goudan."
"It's not Fifth Aunt who is stirring up trouble behind your back. To put it bluntly, in your grandma's heart, even if Goudan ranks first, Big White and Little Hei will definitely rank second."
"The grandsons of Yongjin, Da'an and Xiao'an are all photographed behind the two grandsons, Da Bai and Xiao Hei," she said.
Yang Ruoqing smiled and said, "Fifth Aunt, you are not making trouble, you are telling the truth. Everyone in the old Yang family can see it, but we are just too lazy to care about it!"
"In the past, when my uncle was alive, I valued my uncle the most, my mother favored my fourth uncle the most, and I doted on my aunt the most."
"My father and my fifth uncle almost grew up with a few red flowers as green leaves to accompany them. But as a result, the red flowers have withered now, but these two green leaves have grown vigorously and bloomed. The family's little life It’s a prosperous life!”
Yang Ruoqing said, when she said this, her eyes were bright and her face was full of pride and pride.
Because they, a group of green-leaf and green-leaf children whose father and mother did not love them, relied on their perseverance to finally grow into towering trees, and the green shade enveloped the entire Old Yang family.
The twentieth day of the twelfth lunar month is a double day, and it is also the day when Ju'er's baby is bathed in the Nine Dynasties.
As a family member, Liu led the team, including Bao Suyun, Zhao Liuer, Yang Ruoqing, Yang Huamei and others to deliver gifts to Lao Chen's house.
Yang Ruolan originally wanted to go, but her daughter was sick and she couldn't leave, so she had to leave the gift at Yang Ruoqing's place and asked her to take it to Ju'er.
The conditions at home have improved, and we no longer have to ride in an oxcart in the cold wind of winter to visit relatives. There are two carriages. The carriage in front is occupied by five children, Kang Xiaozi, Dabai, Xiaohei, Luo Baobao, and Dazhi. Yang Huamei follows them to support them. order.
In the carriage at the back were Liu, Bao Suyun, Zhao Liuer and Yang Ruoqing.
"Oh, it seems like I haven't been out of Old Yang's yard for several years. If I go out today, it's really nice to see everything!" Ms. Liu stood by the car window and looked at the passing scenery outside, with a look on her face. excited.
Bao Suyun asked her: "Fourth sister-in-law, you are here to give gifts. Who will take care of He'er at home?"
Originally, Yang Huaming planned to ask the third girl to take things with Bao Suyun and the others to give gifts to Lao Chen's house today, but when he was about to leave earlier, he suddenly changed to Mrs. Liu.
Hearing Bao Suyun's question, Ms. Liu turned around and said, "The third girl is at home. Their youngest class has gone on winter vacation early. I asked her if she wanted to see her second sister. The girl said she didn't like to run away. I Just leave her at home.”
"At noon, when I'm cooking, I give He Girl a bowl. There's nothing else to do. Besides, I'll go back after eating here!"
After saying this, Mrs. Liu turned around and continued to look at her scenery.
To be honest, the scenery in winter is really uninteresting, but Mrs. Liu is like a bird flying out of a cage, greedily breathing the fresh air outside, as if she is reborn.
"Fourth Aunt, He'er should also know about Ju'er giving birth to a son, right?" Yang Ruoqing also asked.
Mrs. Liu nodded, "I must know. Your fourth uncle just came home from watching Ju'er's child that day, so he went to my room to talk about it. He'er even heard it."
Yang Ruoqing asked: "Does He'er miss his daughter? And over at Yujiacun, has Yu Jinbao come back?"
He'er disappeared a year ago, and Yu Jinbao came to Lao Yang's house to cause trouble.
He said that his daughter-in-law disappeared after returning to her parents' home. Did her parents hide her? As a result, she and Yang Huaming almost got into a fight.
Then the two nephews, Yang Yongzhi and Yang Yongbai, teamed up to give Yu Jinbao a good beating when he came looking for trouble. Yu Jinbao was so angry that he dropped a letter of divorce and ran back to Yujiacun with his tail between his legs.
He never came to Lao Yang's house again. At first, his daughter occasionally came to Ga's house to play, but then the child gradually stopped coming.
