I'm really sorry for everyone. I stopped updating for so long before coming back to update. It's really because I've been depressed about things at home for too long.
After my fourth uncle fell and fractured his lumbar vertebrae, the doctor said after examination that there were bone fragments that could penetrate the spinal cord and cause paralysis. So we did not dare to delay, so we rushed him to the hospital for surgery. As a result, the surgery was successful. It cost more than 70,000 yuan to lose. Money is a trivial matter, but the subsequent care is the most troublesome.
I won’t be afraid of making people laugh when I say this. In fact, my fourth uncle is mentally retarded, a real moron. He fell on his head when he was a child. So now he is in his 60s. He has never gotten married and started a family. He was always taken care of by my grandmother. Now my grandmother I'm getting older, I'm about to turn 90, so taking care of my fourth uncle has become a shared responsibility in our family, especially since he is my mother's brother. My mother is the fifth child in the family, and he is the fourth child, so I My mother also feels sorry for him, but my mother is also old, and there are differences between men and women, so it is not convenient. Especially the fourth uncle is fat, so it takes a lot of strength to greet him, so he is in the hospital after this operation. I stayed in bed for a whole month, and my two cousins and I took turns guarding her.
I originally wanted to pay for a caregiver, but after asking a lot, we were reluctant because we heard he was a moron, so we had to spend time on him. Although he has been discharged from the hospital, he can only sit up with difficulty. It’s just that it still needs a long period of recovery, and I don’t know how long it will take to heal.
When I say this, I am not actually complaining, but just feeling a little emotional, because I suddenly found myself in a very embarrassing period this year. Not to mention having children to take care of, it seems as if the elders have suddenly grown old overnight, one after another. One by one, I had physical problems. During the two months I stayed with my fourth uncle, even though I kept rotating, it always made me feel mentally exhausted and I didn't want to do anything else.
Mental pressure and financial pressure all come one after another, which really makes people feel breathless, but this is probably a stage that everyone has to go through.
I won’t go into details. In fact, I have been adjusting for a long time since my fourth uncle was discharged from the hospital. The updates must continue. The book I promised to finish must be finished. The new month begins, officially. I will resume updating, and I will finish this book in one go. Don’t worry, if you don’t want to continue chasing, you can save it and wait for me to finish it and read it in one go.
