When Lin Cheng came home from get off work, he saw his wife sitting on the sofa with a sad face and sighing.
He put down his bag and asked, "What's wrong?" while changing his shoes.
Then he brought the meat and vegetables to the kitchen.
I was thinking that I bought fresh fungus today and made it into fish-flavored shredded pork. Then I made baby cabbage soup. I didn’t add anything, just some salt to add flavor. The combination was perfect.
"My parents are busy, do you think I should go out and find a serious job?" She opened her eyes with aggrieved eyes.
Lin Cheng raised his eyebrows, quite surprised: "Isn't it nice to have you at home?"
It's pretty good.
She couldn't deny this without conscience.
No need to get up early, no need to squeeze into the bus, no need to clock in, no need to look at the boss’s face, no need to worry about conflicts with colleagues, no need to...
Couldn't be better.
Can--
"My parents have moved to Rongcheng. We are so close together. Aren't I afraid that they will think that I am sitting at home doing nothing? Instead of letting people rush me, I might as well take the initiative myself and gain some ears. Be quiet." The corners of her mouth curved down, her eyes widened, and her delicate face was filled with resentment.
You know what your parents are like.
Will definitely talk about it.
She said that all the books she had read would have been in vain if she didn't go out to work.
Just thinking about it makes me upset.
She would definitely consider selling her house and moving or even moving to another city.
His wife resisted, so Lin Cheng sighed, sat next to her, and stroked her long hair, "You are just working from home. It doesn't mean you don't have a job. You are making money. I believe your parents will understand. Besides, even if you don't So what about work? I can still support the two of us. We are getting married and will have a child soon. When the child is born, won’t you be able to go out to work? "
Moreover, there is also social fear.
It’s especially uncomfortable to be in a crowd, let alone communicate with others.
"How about..." Song Yuhuan hesitated again and again, but swallowed the word "moving". In order to be with her, her husband had sacrificed a lot. It was not easy to be here today, so she decided not to do it.
Moving...isn't as simple as it sounds.
Lin Cheng's eyes were gentle, "It's okay. If my parents have any objections, I'll tell them."
Song Yuhuan bit her lip and said nothing.
She is still too weak.
Not strong enough.
So even if you get married, deep down you still can't break away from your parents' control.
It seems that they are free, but in fact the string of the kite is always in their hands.
It's just sad.
The most important thing is that she knows very well and has nothing to do.
How to break the servility fostered by family affection?
Solve.
Song Shi didn't know about his eldest daughter's struggles, but he knew that as an adult, he had the right to choose his own life.
And be able to take responsibility and consequences for your own choices.
He has no objection at all to the lifestyle of a cheap eldest daughter.
As long as the couple lives a comfortable life, he doesn't want to be the annoying father-in-law.
The family's life is on the right track.
The seemingly peaceful life is like a lake without waves. Who knows if there are undercurrents lurking under the water, or when the wind will rise.
tornado.
Xu Cuifang found a cleaning job in a shopping mall. She mainly relied on machines and it was relatively easy. She earned a salary of 2,800 yuan a month and did not pay for social security.
Go home and cook after get off work.
On weekends, the family can go out to a park and have a picnic.
There could never be a more pleasant day.
Two months passed like this.
In the Song Dynasty, while moving bricks on the construction site, he also applied for the architect's examination, and very considerately gave his son a name, which is said to be a father and son who work together to make money.
Then I bought back relevant books, materials and test papers, and the two gentlemen could read them when they had time.
He's fine.
But Song Zidong is suffering.
That guy used to do soy sauce every day when he was in the eighth and ninth years of compulsory education. He had not yet finished the final exam, not to mention his books, and his schoolbag. After one year of vocational high school, he followed his parents and embarked on the road of building bricks.
Never looked back.
Who would have thought that after ten years of leaving school, there would be another day to prepare for the exam.
Here, I really want to sing a song about the cool ten years.
"Dad, I'm not good at studying!" Please let me go, I'm so bad at exams, you just want to treat me like a bastard!
He fought.
However, there are no eggs.
I still remember that his dad glanced at him and smiled extraordinarily gently and kindly. His eyes showed concern that he had never seen before, "Really? That's just right. Dad, I'm the best at polishing waste materials, and I guarantee that you will bring out the best value." .”
The ending never disappoints.
But the process is...
Well, as long as you are satisfied with the result, the process is not important at all.
Anyway, Song Zidong's arms instantly became covered with goosebumps, his back felt cold, and a chill rushed straight to his temples.
Oops!
I can’t fool you now!
He began a study career that wasted (tong) sleep (bu) and forgot (yu) food (sheng).
the other side.
Song Shi hung up the call from his hometown again, turned around and smiled at his coworker, "It's my old man. He was worried that I would be worried, so he called to report that he was safe."
The co-worker didn't know the situation at his house, so he took a puff of cigarette and said with a smile, "Then your old man is quite considerate of his children."
"Yeah, my dad is pretty good."
In addition to not caring about family when he was young, he was selfish when he was old.
not bad.
He dug out memories from decades ago from Yuan Zhi's memory.
When he was young, the old man was extremely selfish and extremely chauvinistic. He didn't get involved in anything at home, and he never cared about his children. He always beat and scolded him when something happened, and he had a bad temper.
Always be kinder to outsiders than to family members.
A good look will never be given to the family.
Just like, relatives and friends outside need to maintain a good relationship, but no matter how the family treats them, the relationship will never change.
This has been inherited by three generations of the Song family.
For several years, Song Zha couldn't find a job and couldn't make money because he couldn't find the tuition for his three children. Xu Cuifang was so anxious that she borrowed money from relatives and neighbors. He held the money in his hand and bit it to death. Not given.
Later, Yuanzha finally collected the travel expenses to go home for the New Year. As soon as he went out, he boasted about how easy it was to make money. In the next moment, he was drunk and coaxed by his cousins to play mahjong. On the night of New Year's Eve, he lost all his wealth.
That time, Xu Cuifang filed for divorce.
well.
They are all sad and tearful!
If he doesn't handle the old man's matter well, the matter will have to be brought up again after more than twenty years.
Yanghe Town, Songjia Village.
In a three-story independent building, an old man with gray hair wearing a good-looking shirt was standing in front of the phone with a cold face. He dialed a series of numbers and pressed the green button. The phone rang a few times. Soon, the person on the other side answered the phone. .
"Hey, Dad."
"Big show, dad is going to die. Come back and see dad. I'm afraid you won't be able to see the last time you close your eyes one day."
"What? Dad, are you okay? How are you feeling? Where's Ah Shi? Cuifang isn't home? If you feel very uncomfortable, call the village doctor quickly."
"How can I count on them? They don't want me anymore. They have all moved away, leaving me alone in my hometown, waiting for death in this old house."
"What! Dad, I'll call Song Shi right away!"
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