Are feelings important?
Of course feelings are important.
Xu Cuifang also has a place for two daughters in her heart, but she can't talk about money. Talking about money will hurt her feelings.
Whenever she thought about spending money for them, she felt uncomfortable all over her body, as if she were covered with little thorns, painful and itchy, and she was irritated and resisted.
On the contrary, she would feel awkward if her son didn't ask her for money for a few days.
At once...
She is used to being partial and treating others differently.
But she doesn't want her two daughters to be estranged from her son. She likes the family to be happy and free from any barriers. She hopes that her son will live well and everything goes well. She hopes that her daughter will be filial and sensible so that she can grow up.
"What about the dowry? Are you planning to change the dowry too?" Banquets and other items are only small amounts of money, and the gift money can be recovered a lot, but the dowry is the big deal.
The dog man is so fickle that the original estimate of 30,000 will have to be changed.
"How much do you think is appropriate?" Song Shi did not answer directly, but asked her instead.
Xu Cuifang: "..."
It's very difficult.
It's not appropriate in any way.
If you give me less, you will say that I am partial.
Give me more, otherwise I won’t be able to pass my level.
After thinking for a while, thinking about her husband's attitude tonight, she gritted her teeth and said, "Why don't we add another 20,000 yuan, let's just give it 50,000 yuan."
Woo hoo, my heart is bleeding.
Fifty thousand is real money, it's not just a piece of mahjong thrown away.
Song Shi nodded with satisfaction, "Fifty thousand is indeed not bad."
A forced smile appeared on Xu Cuifang's face. She didn't feel any joy at being praised, only strong unwillingness.
So be it.
Ran goose——
"Fifty thousand is indeed good, but when it comes to marriage, odd numbers are unlucky and not pleasant to hear. Why don't we make up an even number and give it eighty thousand? Eight, fat, has a good meaning."
Xu Cuifang:? ? !
In the end, natural resistance failed.
Originally, the dog was talking about rounding up and giving him a hundred thousand, but finally gave up after she strongly objected.
Another thirty thousand were lost, and rivers of blood flowed.
When Xu Cuifang called her sister Xu Cuilan to complain, what could the latter do? Comfort her and persuade her to accept it.
"Money or not, it's all for the children."
Then she took her two ancestors out for a walk, which made Xu Cuifang feel even more aggrieved.
My sister spent hundreds of thousands to buy a house for her children and borrowed various kinds of money. She even harped on the dowry of tens of thousands, asking who would be embarrassed to tell her.
Xu Cuilan hung up the phone and turned to complain to her husband Chen Yimin.
"My second sister is the most fake person. Even though she says her children are the same, in reality her son is her darling. After Huanhuan and Qingqing finished college, they never spent a penny from the family. That winter and winter, she took the driver's license test. I paid my second brother-in-law's tuition before going out to work, but I was worried and gave him 50,000 yuan for living expenses. The boy used it all in less than two months. The second brother-in-law was furious and said that he wouldn't buy a car even after passing the exam. , As a result, as soon as I arrived in Province Z, I went to see the car within two days, and immediately paid the full price for a car worth nearly 200,000 yuan."
"Fortunately, the second brother-in-law is not so confused that he knows not to joke about his child's wedding. To be honest, if his daughter's wedding is not successful, how can she be embarrassed? That is her biological child!"
"Just tell me this. Don't say it in front of the second sister." Chen Yimin reminded his wife while taking the measurements.
"I know, I'm not that stupid." Xu Cuilan curled her lips and said.
the other side.
Xu Cuifang secretly calculated the wedding budget for her eldest daughter in the room.
Wedding photos, wedding celebrations, wedding banquets, hotels, souvenirs, three gold coins, red envelopes... Finally, including the betrothal gift, if I go, I can get away with more than 100,000 yuan.
dizzy.
God wants to kill me!
According to this standard, the second daughter also has to come once, and the youngest son...
Grass! ! !
The wealth that I had worked hard to save for half my life was still emptied out by debt collectors.
What’s the point of a life that’s gone too far at this glance!
Xu Cuifang thought of giving up on herself.
On the third day of junior high school, Song Yuhuan and Lin Cheng completed their wedding photography. Taking into account the actual situation, they did not go to the location. They completed everything indoors and reduced the number of photos. In the end, they refunded part of the money.
After waiting for many years, he would finally form a legal family with his beloved. As a man, Lin Cheng could not bear all the burdens on his father-in-law's family.
He spent all his savings, which was not much, tens of thousands of dollars, and said, "Uncle, the money for the wedding banquet will come from here."
Song Shi glanced at him and did not refuse.
"OK."
Xu Cuifang is also very satisfied, which means she can lose less.
He's a nice guy, he's on the right track.
Mother-in-law's favor +10
Don't be proud, keep up the good work.
Lin Cheng only had seven days of vacation, so he went back to Rongcheng on the sixth day of the Lunar New Year. Song Yuhuan was working as a freelancer. This time she brought her computer back, and she took orders and made designs at home before leaving after the New Year.
Without the annoying future son-in-law, Xu Cuifang finally had a better attitude towards her eldest daughter.
Song Shi was very pleased.
The deal is done, what else can I do but accept it.
There was no way he could change his mind anyway.
Xu Cuifang secretly felt that something had changed in her life.
Until that day, that feeling suddenly became clear.
The younger son ran out of money again and asked her for it. She cursed a few times before taking out 10,000 yuan from the cabinet. When she was about to hand it to him, the man saw it.
What a coincidence.
However, the man said nothing and went inside to take a nap.
She felt quite guilty, but until night, nothing happened.
When I went upstairs to rest after dinner, I saw the man taking out a large stack of red tickets from the cabinet. The two of them had gone to the street to pick them up together a few days ago.
He walked out without saying a word to her.
"..."
Xu Cuifang hurriedly shouted, "What are you doing?!"
Where are you going to take the money?
Song Shi gave her a gentle smile, "Why don't I see you giving your son pocket money today? It suddenly occurred to me that I have been a father for almost thirty years, but I have never given my daughter a penny of pocket money or bought anything. This thing is so inappropriate, no wonder the two children are not close to me."
The Yuanzha couple always emphasize in front of their daughter that the family has no money, but they appear to be doing very well in front of outsiders, especially the man, who is very pushy, and the woman is always subsidizing her son.
The two daughters are not blind, and they are not fools. How can they still not understand?
Naturally, the relationship with my parents grows apart.
Besides, the relationship wasn't very close to begin with, so it was easier to drift apart.
It reminds me of the previous life when Song Yuhuan cried hysterically to the original couple, complaining about their grievances and not being loved. The two of them still had expressions like "What are you talking about, people who are decades old, and you are so pretentious?"
Really not a good person!
Parents always let their children understand them, but who will feel sorry for their children and their childhood that is full of knives that will never heal.
money is not everything.
But this thing is very important at certain times, such as now, it represents fairness and equality.
Xu Cuifang realized what he meant, her pupils were shaking, she quickly stopped him and growled, "You're crazy!"
"They both have a salary, so what pocket money do they need? Aren't we working hard to move bricks? This year is not over yet, how much money have been spent!"
"Then Dongdong also has wages, how can you pay them back?"
"Isn't my son out of money?"
"Oh, then how do you know Huanhuan Qingqing still has money?"
"How is this the same?"
"How is this different?"
Facing her husband's question, she tightened her lips and turned her head away, "We will be supported by our son in the future, and our daughter-in-law will take care of us when we grow old."
The water that was thrown out will only come back as a guest.
I heard my husband sneer.
The voice was extremely cold and full of ridicule. Xu Cuifang's cheeks were a little hot from laughing and she felt guilty.
"Rely on your son to support you? Rely on your daughter-in-law to take care of you? Yes, I believe you. But seeing is believing, and hearing is false. I will call my mother-in-law, eldest brother and eldest sister Zhiyong Cuilan later and ask them to come and testify tomorrow and establish the evidence as evidence." , after Huanhuan Qingqing gets married, it has nothing to do with us in terms of food, clothing, housing, transportation, illness, medicine, buying a coffin and making a shroud. Then we find a law firm to do the notarization. You believe in your son so much that your heart is devoted to him, even to the person you have never met. A daughter-in-law who doesn’t even have a single character is more trustworthy than a daughter who has been raised for more than 20 years, so she definitely approves of it.”
Xu Cuifang:...
Your face turned pale with fright, okay?
"no I do not..."
"You don't mean anything. Don't you believe in your son? Don't you believe in your daughter-in-law? In fact, this is easy to handle. Look at yourself, look at Zhou Congzhen next door. If it doesn't work, look at your parents-in-law, siblings, they are all human beings. My wife's food is just for reference." Song Shi curled his lips, "If I remember correctly, my mother has eaten at my brother-in-law's house for the past two months, and she should come to our house next month."
Xu Cuifang's lips trembled, and her face seemed to have been slapped several times.
daughter-in-law...
She is also a daughter-in-law.
She doesn't want to be stuck at home hanging around the old man at all!
If she doesn't want to, will her daughter-in-law be willing?
Compare your heart to your heart...
Song Shi lowered his eyes, this was just the beginning.
