Let me give you an analogy. It’s like a friend of yours who usually has a good relationship with you. But he defrauded you of 600,000 yuan and abducted your wife. You hate him until your teeth are itching, but the other person is still alive. Even if it evaporates, you won’t be able to find him.
Later, more than 20 years later, this person suddenly appeared, and then gave you 800,000 yuan, saying I'm sorry, I will pay you back the money in full, and give you an extra 200,000 yuan.
You ask him: Where is my wife?
He tells you: The money can be returned to you. My wife is not coming back yet. I would like to return it to you, but she fell ill and died last year. If you are unhappy, I will give you another two hundred thousand.
You are confused and ask him why he paid back the money. He says that he recently suffered from a terminal illness, so his conscience found out that he wanted to make up for his past debts and pay off the debt in the hope that his illness would get better.
Everyone, this money is enough, but my wife is gone. Do you think you can forgive him happily?
Even if you accept the money, can you never hate him again for the rest of your life? Can you hope that he gets better?
Impossible, right?
Because if this guy lives a good life, he will never think of paying off the debt. He is not paying off the debt for you, but for himself!
So, the same goes for repaying yin debts. No matter how much money you give, it is just a way to make up for it, but it is impossible to completely eliminate karma and resentment.
People often come to me and start complaining, saying that everything is not going well for them. I say that your karma is too heavy and you have too many yin debts. Then they ask me if everything goes smoothly after I pay off the yin debts. Career and love are improving, and all obstacles have been eliminated? Everything will be fine?
Whenever I meet such a person, I feel really helpless. The path of life is complicated, every road is full of unknowns, and every decision you make will produce various variables.
If doing a ritual can make everything go well for you from now on, then everyone doesn’t have to work hard to live a happy life. Just do a ritual and you will get better. There is no need to accumulate virtue and do good deeds. Anyway, if you do bad things, just do a ritual. You say this is it possible?
If you spend a little money to pay off a debt, your karma and karma can be wiped out, then this karma is too worthless, right?
In this case, would anyone still be afraid of karma? Are there still people who dare not do bad things? Will anyone still take karma seriously?
The so-called repayment of yin debts does resolve and repay some of the things you owed in previous lives, but cause and effect cannot be completely resolved, and some things must be experienced by yourself.
Another example is to eliminate disasters and resolve them. In fact, disasters cannot be completely eliminated. The correct explanation is to reduce and alleviate them, and to turn major events into minor ones.
For example, some people performed religious rituals, then turned around and fell into a ditch, breaking their bones. Then they might aggressively accuse them, saying, "What kind of religious rituals did you do? I did it and fell into the ditch."
In fact, this person may have had serious karmic obstacles in his previous life. If he does not do this ritual, he may suffer a bloody disaster in a few days, and may even lose his life.
Now I just let him fall into the ditch, which solved his disaster and saved his life, but he doesn't understand the mysteries of heaven and earth, so I am very helpless when encountering this situation.
After rambling for a long time, the book returned to its true story.
At that time, I told the mother and daughter how to resolve this matter. Of course, I did not recommend my religious practice, so as not to be suspected of taking advantage of the opportunity to make money, I asked them to find a regular temple for salvation. .
But we must remember that the motivation for salvation is not for ourselves, but to sincerely repent and atone for our sins, even if they are not the ones who committed the sin.
Because the perpetrators of the evil are their parents and ancestors, the karma of their ancestors will be passed down. This is called common karma.
However, there is no need to cry out for bad luck or grievance for anyone who encounters this kind of thing. You did not do any good things in your previous life, so you were reincarnated here to bear this karma.
There is a saying that old people often say: Blessed people will never fall into the land of unlucky people.
If you were born into such a family, it means that you are an unlucky person. Complaining is useless. Accumulate virtue and do good, and atone for your sins, Amitabha.
Fangfang thanked me very much and said that for so many years, she only knew that things were not going well at home, but she never thought that such a terrible thing could happen.
I said you're welcome. Didn't you treat me to dinner? I'll tell you some of the things I saw. As for what to do specifically, it's up to you. I can't help with this.
After explaining these things, the dinner ended. Fangfang said she wanted to talk to me again and asked her mother to go back first.
The two of us walked around and somehow came to a small forest next to a river. There were several stone pillars next to the forest.
It was already very late at this time, and there was no one around. Firstly, I was tired from walking, and secondly, I was thinking about updating my novel, so I said let’s stop talking and it’s time for me to leave.
She refused and said that if you are tired, just sit down and we will stay for a few more minutes.
I said fine, but there’s no place to sit here.
Without any explanation, she pushed me onto the stone pier next to me and asked me to sit down. I am an honest person, so I said this is not possible. It is just a stone pier. I sit on the stone pier and you stand. I am sorry, so you should sit down.
She said oh, you can sit down and don't worry about me, I have a place to sit.
I was stunned and said, where are you sitting?
She looked at me, smiled, and then sat directly on my lap...
Not only did he sit on my lap, he also put his hands around my neck and looked into the distance with a shy look.
Oh my god, this sudden sweetness made my head buzz, and I was stunned on the spot. I didn’t know where to put my hands.
I said you... you are Gaha, someone...
She said there was no one there, there was no one in the woods at night.
As she said that, she came over and kissed me while I wasn't paying attention.
...So I became even more confused, thinking in my mind that this is Gaha, you have something to say, and I can't help you much. Why do you have to commit yourself to this?
At this moment, when she saw that I was motionless, she leaned into my ear and said something.
"I have lipstick on my mouth."
I didn't react for a moment and said in a daze: "Ah... lipstick... yes... what happened?"
She stared at me coquettishly and pouted: "Fool..."
The voice was sweet, and I became more and more nervous. At the same time, I also understood what she meant. Was she asking me... asking me to kiss her?
My heart was beating wildly, and it would be a lie to say that I was still pregnant, but I looked at the situation and realized that my occupational disease had returned, so I looked around like a thief.
She pulled my head and said, "Oh, I told you no one is here."
My nose was filled with the fragrance of her body, so I smiled bitterly and said, "No one is there, but there are ghosts."
Her body stiffened: "Don't scare me, where did it come from...where did this ghost come from..."
I pointed to a tree about ten meters in front of her: "I really didn't scare you, your dad is standing there..."
