After listening to this guy talk about this, I basically understood his life trajectory.
Isn't this just a poor kid from the countryside who went to the city to do some small business, finally got a girlfriend, and then started messing around with a rich guy and kicked him out?
He was so angry that he went to the house to make trouble, was beaten up, and was blackmailed out of a sum of money, which made him bankrupt. Now he has nowhere to stay and is penniless, so he can only be forced to live in a place where no one dares to come. Living in a ghost house.
It happened that he had stayed in that hotel a few days ago and knew which room door had a broken lock, so he had the courage to sneak in in the middle of the night, and I lost my wallet.
So, things in this world are really intertwined. What seems like an accident to you has actually been arranged by the Creator for you.
Who would have thought that this kid came to Suifenhe to do small business a year ago, had a date and had her kidnapped, resulting in Wu Xiaofan and Mr. Wu losing his wallet?
Sometimes, those people who come to me for divination always want to get to the bottom of things. I say don’t ask so many questions, don’t speculate on some things, just let things take their own course.
Because the more you know, the more variables there are. Even if I tell you, your single thought may change the trajectory of all subsequent events.
Just like this kid, if his parents had stopped him when he wanted to go to the city to do business, would I be able to lose my wallet today?
After hearing what he said, I looked at him speechlessly and said, "Actually, you don't have to do this at all. It's almost the Chinese New Year, and it's not easy to find a job in the cold weather. Why do you have to waste time here? Besides, This building is haunted, aren’t you afraid of living here?”
He smiled sadly: "Brother, I now feel that poverty is more terrifying than ghosts."
This sentence touched me a bit. What he said makes sense. If you are so poor, what do you have to be afraid of?
He sighed and said, "I'm so poor that no one around me is willing to get close to me. You think, besides ghosts, who else is willing to talk to me now? From this point of view, ghosts are better than humans." ah."
I deeply agree. When I was too poor to eat, I didn’t have any friends around me, so Zhuang Yuwei followed me every day.
But this is not absolute, so I advised: "Don't think so. You don't have any friends here, but you still have parents and relatives in your hometown. If you can't survive here, then go home and rest." , try again next time.”
Tears fell from his eyes: "Brother, I have been out here for more than a year, and I have no money left. My girlfriend has also run away. Now I am just like a homeless man. How can I have the shame to go home? I will follow you To be honest, I wanted to jump off this building last night. I hesitated for a long time and was not willing to die because I was too hungry. I wanted to have a full meal before I died today, so I went to steal your wallet... "
I got angry when he mentioned stealing his wallet, but seeing him like this made me even more angry.
What made him angry was not that he stole the wallet, but that he wanted to die.
So I told him word for word: "I tell you, I have experienced most of the difficulties you have experienced. I also once had no food for a day and a night, and watched other people's wallets trying to move, but I finally controlled it. Own."
"Because I know that as long as I am alive, all difficulties will be temporary. People will not always be poor, nor will they always be in difficulty."
"If the money is gone, you can still make it again. If your job is gone, you can still find it again. If your friends are gone, you can still make them again. If your love is gone, you can still make them again. Every one of us comes into this world with a fucking You’re naked, you already have nothing, why are you afraid of starting all over again?”
As soon as I said these words, the boy burst into tears. He sobbed and said, "It's easy for you to say, but each of us comes into the world with bare buttocks, but some of us have food in our mouths." Holding a golden key, some people hold a golden lock, and someone like me was born holding a fucking blade of grass, how can I compare myself to others?"
I took a deep breath, looked at him and said: "So what if I was born holding on to grass? Most people in the world were born holding on to grass, but everyone is working hard to live. Remember, life must be met by encounters. When mountains open roads and rivers meet, we build bridges. Even if there is no road in front of us, we must still find a way out. This is what a man should do."
He was still sobbing: "What am I going to do for a living? I can't even keep a girlfriend, I can't do a small business well, everyone laughs at me, and calls me a waste..."
I curled my lips: "Looking at what you said, you are really hopeless. Let me tell you something, a truly strong person does not look at what he has or conquered, but what he can bear. Gaining is not necessarily a blessing. "Loss is not necessarily a disaster. In life, everyone has a crossing and a return boat. Don't be afraid if you fall. The key is to stand up. Otherwise, how can you see the scenery behind?"
"But, I really feel like living is boring..."
"Fart, are you worthy of the parents who gave birth to you and raised you? Are you worthy of your own previous life? Do you know that if you can be reincarnated once, your previous life will require several lifetimes of hard work and several lifetimes of good deeds. Will the result be good? It’s easy to be a human being, but you’re going to die just because you want? Why do you want to die? Do you think your life is yours alone?”
After hearing what I said, he finally fell silent and gradually stopped crying, looking thoughtful.
"Brother, thank you for enlightening me, but I'm really about to collapse. I don't know what else I can do, and I don't know how to go next."
I laughed: "It doesn't matter if it breaks down. Everyone has broken down once, but being able to move on even after a breakdown is what a man should be like."
He nodded slowly, there was a slight light in his eyes, but it quickly dimmed, then he lowered his head again and sighed heavily.
In fact, I know why he sighed, because everyone can say the words I said, but they can't solve his actual problem at all.
As the saying goes, a man who is full does not know that a man who is hungry is hungry.
I thought about it and said to him, "Come with me. I'll take you to have something to eat. If you have any questions, we'll talk to you after you're full."
He became more energetic as soon as he heard about the meal. He stood up awkwardly and clutched the hundred yuan I gave him at a loss.
"Brother, how about...I'll treat you, I'm so embarrassed..."
I was happy: "You can pull it off and treat me with my money. You can tell me, let's go. I'll treat you. It doesn't matter whether it's money or not. I have to thank you for not throwing away my ID card." And my wallet..."
I took my wallet, which was obviously worn out, and waved it in front of him.
"I don't mind if you take other things from me, but this wallet was given by my previous girlfriend."
In fact, I never said that this wallet was given to me by Zhang Wenwen. It has been several years, but I still use it and am reluctant to replace it.
He made a look of realization and said, "Brother, how was your ex-girlfriend so pornographic?"
"It's not too bad, she went up the mountain."
I put my wallet away, turned and walked out the door.
The boy scratched his head: "Then...brother, please show your condolences."
I turned around and cursed: "Excuse me, she became a monk and became a Taoist priest. She's not dead. Come out for dinner with me. I've been working hard all morning and I'm damn hungry!"
