The young man didn't get angry after I said a few words to him. I guess he has lost this function or is used to being scolded.
He sighed and told me that he actually wanted to work hard, but every time he went out to work, things didn't go well. He felt like those people were targeting him and causing trouble for him, which made him very distressed.
Therefore, he could not hold any job for long. He once tried to start a business, but he failed after a short time and did not make any money.
Then his relationship didn't go well either. Every time he finally got along with his girlfriend, she said goodbye to him after a while.
He had sought fortune-telling from many people for this reason. Some said he was destined to be a boy, some said he was a man who rejected marriage, and some said he was a young monk in a temple in his previous life and came to the human world to suffer hardships.
Then he complained to me, saying that he actually had a twin brother who started his own business after graduating from college, and then everything went smoothly and he could do anything.
But when I got here, not only did I fail to get into a good university, but now I can't find a job, and I feel that my life has been a failure.
So he didn't understand very much, and asked many fortune tellers why he and his brother were twins. It was logical that they had the same fate, but how could their fate be so different?
Then those fortune tellers told him that although they were twins, their innate talents and personalities were different, including the slight difference in birth time, which might lead to different fates.
So he couldn't figure it out, because he and his brother had almost the same personalities and hobbies when they were young, but they were born five minutes apart. Why is there such a big difference now?
Uncle Ma once said about this issue that it is normal for brothers to have different horoscopes, even if they are twins. But as those fortune tellers said, everyone has different talents and personalities. Of course, their fate will be different the day after tomorrow.
But beyond that, there are several reasons.
The first is the difference in time. Although twins are usually not very different from each other, if they happen to be at two different times, the fate of the two children will be different.
For example, the eldest child was born at 10:55 in the evening, and the second child was born at 11:10 in the evening. Although they are only fifteen minutes apart, one is Hai hour and the other is midnight, one is the same day, and the other is the next day. The situation is completely different.
Even if they are all born in Haishi, everyone is born with different levels of Qi.
The ancients divided an hour into eight quarters, each quarter lasting fifteen minutes. For example, the eldest child was born at 9:50 pm, and the second child was born at 10:50 pm. Although these two times are both Haishi, the eldest child is more angry. , because the second child’s birth time is already close to the Zi hour, he will be affected by some Zi hour, so his energy will be shallow.
The second is the difference in age and gender. Although the eldest and second child were both born on the same day, the yin and yang attributes of that day have different effects on the two people.
There is a saying that if twin brothers are born in the yang period of the yang day, the older brother is stronger than the younger brother. If a person is born in a yin day on a yin day, the younger brother will be stronger than the older brother.
If they are twins born in the yang-yang hour, the younger sister will be stronger than the older sister. If you are born on a yin day and a yin hour, your older sister will be stronger than your younger sister.
In the same way, if a dragon and a phoenix are born in the yang-yang period, with the dragon first and then the phoenix, the brother will be stronger than the sister. If the phoenix comes first and the dragon is born, the older sister will be stronger than the younger brother.
And for the same destiny, some are suitable for men but not for women, and some are suitable for women but not for men.
There is such a discussion in the "Three Lives Conference". If you are interested, you can read it.
There is another very important difference that everyone should remember. I don’t tell ordinary people about this.
It is the strength of the person born on the day of birth. If the person born in the horoscope is too prosperous, then the person born later is better, because the person born first has diverted part of the excessive energy, and it has been neutralized by the second child.
In the same way, if the Sun Lord of the zodiac sign is too weak, then the person born first is better, because the energy field is already weak, and it is given to the eldest child, and it becomes even weaker when the second child is born.
If the horoscope is very peaceful, then the level of destiny of two people in life is basically the same, and then it also depends on the influence of the ten gods. This is also related to the age, so I won’t go into details.
In fact, I think that the above are all things in fate, which are innate, but the key to a person's life achievements and deeds depends on the day after tomorrow.
So this third point is the influence of tomorrow.
Generally speaking, twins have five things in common since childhood: the same size, the same appearance, the same birthday, the same parents, and the same clothes.
But there are five differences: different names, different spirits, different environments, different worldviews, and different combinations of couples.
Some people say that the environment of twins should be the same. In fact, this is not necessarily the case, because some twins may not live in the same room, and the feng shui of different rooms in each house is different.
What's more, when two people grow up, they may not be in the same school or the same unit, and their learning and working environments may also be different, including their outlook on life, worldview, and values. There will also be different changes.
As the saying goes, there are no two identical leaves in the world. Even if what I said above are all the same, there must be subtle differences between the two people in terms of bones, faces, palms, including behavior and personality, not to mention the names of the two people. It will definitely not be the same, and the impact of names on life is actually quite large.
As the saying goes, a slight difference can make a huge difference, so even if they are twins, they cannot be exactly the same due to the influence of the day after tomorrow. Their fate will definitely be different. In this world, there will only be similar fates, but they will not be exactly the same.
Therefore, each of us is actually a unique being.
At that time, I explained these truths to that person in a nagging way, and he was very convinced after hearing it. He said that he and his brother were indeed the same in everything when they were young, but after they went to different universities, there began to be differences.
My brother is like a duck in school, surrounded by noble people, and he is also the main player of the basketball team and a cadre of the student union. He is sunny and energetic, and a lot of girls like him.
He was pretty good at school, he also liked playing basketball, and was a student union cadre, but there were too many villains around him, there were constant disputes, and the girls who liked him were often snatched away.
This led to changes in his character. He could no longer maintain his energy for anything, his temper became irritable, and he became discouraged when encountering any setbacks.
As time goes by, the difference between him and his brother becomes bigger and bigger.
So, he came to me today just because he wanted me to save him and do some kind of ritual to pull him out of the darkness.
He told me that if I could help him, he would immediately swipe his credit card to pay me!
