Her mood is a mother's love for her child, and I actually understand it very well.
As I said before, I never say this to others. Your children have difficulties at certain ages, serious illnesses, and car accidents. If they are not resolved, they will not be able to survive.
To be honest, the things in life are just a manifestation of fate. We can only use it as a reference. We must not live by looking at the horoscope.
Fate does not represent everything about a person, nor does it represent a person's life. As the saying goes, one fate, two fortunes, three feng shui, four accumulations of yin virtue and five readings, a person's destiny can be changed, and it is also in his own hands. The key is Do you want to change or not?
Never use fatalism to easily determine a person's life.
So, for those fortune tellers who are always trying to scare people, look at this mother’s personal experience. Because of your words, she hasn’t had a good night’s sleep in ten years and is terrified every day.
If this is to seek good fortune and avoid misfortune, then I don't agree. I would rather write my own destiny with my own efforts and good deeds, than let an irrelevant person ruin my life with just one sentence.
What's more, this mother's child is not destined to be a child at all. There is no such thing as a marriage evil spirit or five ghosts. What do you think you are trying to scare her for? Is it worthy of your own conscience?
At that time, I comforted this mother, I said to you, don’t be afraid of anything, live openly and aboveboard, cultivate your mind more often, do more good deeds every day, shine your own light, and don’t be influenced by anyone.
She was so moved that she shed tears because the stone that had been weighing on her heart for ten years was finally let go and she could live a good life in the future.
I am also very pleased, so a fortune teller's words can harm someone or save someone.
But the premise is that this person must know how to distinguish between true and false, good and evil, and know right and wrong. Otherwise, if I say that her child is not destined to be a boy, she will ask me why all the fortune tellers in the past said that it is a boy. Just you. No, you must be inaccurate!
If that's the case, then I have no choice. It's hard to persuade a damn ghost with good words.
So, this mother knows how to let go of her burden, which is a good thing.
Then she told me that in fact, not only her children, but also herself, because it was her birthday in the first year of junior high school, many people said that she was guilty of the five ghosts, this and that, all kinds of bad things, and they also said that she would not live to be 33 years old. .
Therefore, she herself lived in fear, and then she had to live in fear again when she gave birth to a child. It was so sad that it was difficult to describe it in words.
I told her that the birthday of the first day of the lunar month actually has something to do with metaphysics in some way, because it is necessary to offer incense to gods and Buddhas on the first and fifteenth day of the lunar month. These days are quite special, so everyone generally believes that the birthdays of the first and fifteenth day of the lunar month have something to do with metaphysics. Children born on the same date have some problems.
There is some truth to this view. In fact, there are many examples to verify it. However, if someone tells you that if you fall into the Five Ghost Pass on your first birthday, you will suffer from all kinds of bad things, and your life will be short and you will not live for many years.
Then I can tell you responsibly, let him go away.
If you have the money to save money, you might as well donate it to the impoverished mountainous areas to do some good deeds. If that doesn't work, you can buy some fruits and visit the elderly.
Or you can go to the temple to burn a few sticks of incense and pay homage to the gods, which is better than giving it to those people.
After I read this hexagram, the mother was grateful and thanked her repeatedly. In the end, except for the hexagram gold, I did not let her do any rituals and spent no money.
Then I was a little puzzled, so I asked Uncle Ma: "Uncle Ma, are these great immortals really not afraid of retribution? Why are they so wicked? They don't have a substitute, so why do they have to let them do it?"
Uncle Ma sat on the chair, glanced at me, and said with a smile: "Who is as down-to-earth as you? Don't even think about it. If everyone in this world has nothing to do, who will support the immortals?"
What this means is that people in this industry basically don’t work and rely entirely on this to make money.
However, after watching that mother just now for ten years, doesn’t she still have a conscientious immortal?
I always feel that this shouldn't be the case. Although this industry is in deep water, there are still some good people.
Uncle Ma shook his head and said, "You misunderstood. Sometimes it's not the great immortals who lose their conscience, but their lack of character and cultivation."
Next, Uncle Ma gave me an example. He said that a mother came to read divination for her child and asked if there was a substitute and whether it was a boy's destiny.
If this great immortal knew the horoscopes and the Book of Changes, and knew how to read a boy's destiny from the horoscopes, he might have checked it out honestly.
But in fact, many great immortals don't understand Bazi or Zhou Yi at all. There are many great immortals now, all over the world, and there are very few who have real abilities. They basically rely on their own induction.
For example, if you give him a horoscope, he will take a look at it, but he is not looking at it. He will tell you that it is his immortal who is checking it.
But in fact, you don’t know whether his master has checked it or not, and neither does he.
Then after reading your horoscope, he said based on his feeling that you were destined to be a child. He thought it was the induction given to him by the immortal, but it was actually his own psychological inertia.
Because in this business, everyone has a mental desire to make money. Think about it, if your child is not born as a child, wouldn't this business be ruined?
Therefore, the balance in his heart is biased towards the fact that your child is destined to be a boy, so he will naturally think that way, and then he thinks that the immortal told him.
If I say something like this, wouldn’t it be deceiving?
Uncle Ma said that was not necessarily the case. After all, some great immortals were really capable, and one could tell whether a boy's destiny was right or not.
But sometimes, he won't give you a careful look at it at all. As long as you go to his house and you say that you paid back the child, he will automatically assume that your child was born a virgin.
Because you yourself said that your child was destined to be a child, and you are a substitute, so just go with the flow.
If you ask him again whether the substitute has been successful, then he will definitely tell you that he has not been successful, otherwise he will be sorry for himself.
Who wouldn’t take a bite of this fat meat?
Of course, there are some conscientious immortals, such as Aunt Hu and Aunt Bai. She will ask you how you returned the substitute. If the method is right and there is nothing wrong with the child, she will never let you return it again. .
All I can say is that the child’s mother was so unlucky that she didn’t meet a single good person.
At this point, Uncle Ma narrowed his eyes and sighed: "Xiao Fan, it's rare to have such a temperament like yours, but are you afraid that in this materialistic era, your state of mind will one day be changed? I don't know. Have you unconsciously become the kind of person you hate the most?"
My heart sank slightly and I said, "Uncle Ma, I know I won't become that kind of person, but I don't know if my own mood will change, so I try not to make too much money from others, just for fear that I will be Money is my obsession, and in that case, I might get lost without even realizing it."
Uncle Ma nodded: "You're right, people often lose themselves unconsciously. So if you want to keep your true colors and never forget your original intention, I will give you a way, which is a bit cruel. I don't know if you can do it. arrive?"
Uncle Ma's tone became rarely serious, and he looked at me with his deep eyes, like a stern teacher, waiting for my answer.
I took a deep breath and said, "Uncle Ma, tell me, as long as you don't let me stay away from women from now on, I will agree!"
