At that time, not long after the child was diagnosed with leukemia, it was announced that his life had entered a countdown and it was basically difficult to save.
This news was like a thunderbolt from the blue to the child's parents, because the hospital had no choice but to look for help everywhere with a glimmer of hope.
In more than half a year, they found many folk miracle doctors and masters with various opinions. They also thought of various methods and spent a lot of money. Not only did they spend all their savings, they even sold their house.
However, the child still has not improved, and the fire of life is dimming day by day.
When I heard what happened to this family, I sympathized with them, but to be honest, I didn’t have any good solutions. If I were asked to deal with it, it would be nothing more than doing rituals to pray for blessings and eliminate disasters and illnesses.
Because I took a look and found that there was no false illness in this child, nor was there any ghost or fairy. There was absolutely nothing wrong with this, it was just a real illness.
And even if he had any ailments, so many masters and masters had done rituals for him before, and they would definitely be resolved.
If no one can be saved anymore, then maybe this is what life is meant to be like.
So I was helpless, and I didn’t even know how to say words of comfort, because any language was almost useless in the face of this situation.
Finally, I decided to show this child his horoscopes.
To be honest, I have always only used the information in Bazi as a reference, because strictly speaking, Bazi science includes the study of Yi, which is essentially a science of probability, and was developed by the ancients for more than two thousand years.
The horoscope is not absolute for everyone. For example, according to the horoscope, this person may be a widow, or be destined to have no money or official position.
But this is only something that happens with a high probability. People who are destined to be widows may have a gentle and virtuous personality, and their marriages will be very good. Those who have no money or official positions may have good interpersonal relationships, or may have a legacy from their ancestors, but they may have a good marriage. Let him have official wealth.
However, if a marriage is not good but it will be good, if there is no official wealth but it is good, then such a person must be lacking in other aspects, such as poor health, unfilial children, good luck in middle age, and good fortune in his later years. But desolate.
So God is fair. From the perspective of "Tao", everything is balanced. Even if it is a little off, it will always be found elsewhere.
At that time, when I looked at this child's horoscope, I saw that it was pretty good, and there was nothing bad about him, except that he was a little bit against his father.
Then I looked at my father's horoscope and found that he had very little luck with children. In layman's terms, it was difficult to have offspring.
The father told me that he had indeed gone through a lot of trouble to have this child. He had been married for almost six years before his wife became pregnant. In order to have the child, he sought medical advice everywhere, prayed to gods and divination, and prayed to the Guanyin Goddess of Mercy every day at home. .
As a result, I finally managed to get a child, and when the child was brought up to such a big age, this happened again.
With tears in his eyes as he spoke, he said that when he and his wife were preparing to get married, he went to someone to tell fortunes and asked if this wife was his perfect match.
He was told at that time that if your wife is so good, if your horoscopes are compatible, and if you are compatible in every aspect, you are a perfect match.
But in fact, the two were fine for the first one or two years of their marriage. Later, they quarreled over various trivial family matters, and even more so over having children. Both parents had objections.
He was also very distressed. The fortune teller clearly said that this marriage was a good match, so why was it so unsatisfactory?
I say that there is no such thing as a right relationship. It all depends on how two people get along. The so-called right relationship is nothing more than that the two of you are on the same wavelength in many aspects and are very compatible.
But even if you get together again, you will inevitably encounter all sorts of things in life. At this time, relying on the same channel is no longer of much use. Instead, you need to rely on understanding, tolerance, and mutual understanding.
Therefore, if you ask me for fortune telling, I will never say whether you are a good match or not, because falling in love or getting married is a matter between two people. Only your feet know whether the shoes fit well, so why should you ask an outsider?
Some people say that a good relationship depends on whether the person is honest and kind, hard-working and positive, and can treat his wife well.
I don't think so.
For example, if someone comes to see me for marriage advice, and I see that the man has evil intentions or a bad temper, isn’t this a good match?
This is not necessarily true at all, because the woman may have the same evil intentions and the same bad temper. In this way, they are on the same wavelength. Everyone says that the man is not good, but only the woman thinks it is good, then this is her perfect match. .
Furthermore, even if a man has evil intentions and a bad temper, he is very kind and gentle to his wife.
On the other hand, if a man is honest, kind, hard-working, positive, makes a lot of money, and is nice to everyone, but he is harsh on his wife and engages in domestic violence.
How can this be considered a positive fate?
It’s a bit far-fetched. Anyway, when I looked at these two people’s horoscopes, it was clear that children are more likely to be inferior to fathers, and that father’s destiny is to have a weak relationship with children. I said that you have done all the rituals that you should do, and have thought of all the ways that you can think of. I also helped. Nothing to do with you.
After saying that, the family had no choice but to leave, but when I sent them to the door, I quietly said a word to the father.
I said you may not have this child in your life, just let it happen. If this child wants to live, you, the father, may experience a catastrophe.
This is a bit cruel, but it is indeed true.
After hearing this, the father walked away thoughtfully.
At that time, I didn't take this matter too seriously, but I was just a little sad, because in my opinion, the child would not survive more than half a year.
The ending of the story seems to have been doomed from the beginning.
I told this story to Uncle Ma, and he was very sad, saying that people are like this, sometimes life has to have something, but life has nothing, so don't force it.
If you insist on seeking something that is not in your life, then the result will be like this, you cannot keep it.
I deeply agree with this view.
However, less than a month after the family left, I heard shocking news.
The father usually worked at the construction site. I don’t know what he did exactly, but one day there was an accident at the construction site and it collapsed.
He and another worker were buried underneath, and he had every chance to save himself and escape, but in order to save the worker, he lost the chance to escape and was submerged in the mud and water.
At that time, the construction site immediately launched a rescue operation, and the person was fished out in about ten minutes. However, if the person suffocated for a few minutes, it would be almost impossible to save him, let alone ten minutes?
By the time the person was fished out, he was already dead.
When I heard the news, I didn't sigh with regret. It's true that hemp strings are cut at the smallest points, and bad luck only seeks out the poor.
In order to treat his daughter's illness, he dragged his tired body to work on the construction site and saved up a little life-saving money. As a result, he left first before the child's illness recovered.
