I was in a bad mood that day. Uncle Ma called me to eat at noon. I said that I wanted to change my career. I would go sell TV sets with Wang Xiaoyi tomorrow and quit.
Uncle Ma said what's going on, who made our baby angry again?
I told the story about that woman. Uncle Ma thought about it and said to me with a smile: "Silly boy, have you ever thought about the reason why she refused to send you to prison, called you unpleasant words, and asked you to refund your money?" What?"
In fact, I knew very well what was going on. I told Uncle Ma: "The first thing is to do it for nothing. Anyway, I told her what happened, and she can get the money back after scolding her. How great."
Uncle Ma laughed loudly: "Yes, this is also a reason. She may be doing it for nothing. But there is another reason."
I continued: "Yes, I understand that those words may not be what she said herself. It is the ghosts in her that interfere with her and make her think confused. To put it bluntly, those ghosts don't want to leave, so they asked her to scold me. Let her stop this idea."
Uncle Ma clapped his hands: "Yes, this is the most likely reason. If you want to send those ghosts away, they will definitely stop you, so you have to suffer this loss."
I picked up my rice bowl and said, "So, good words can't persuade the damn ghost. Although those things interfered, she didn't want to send her away at all. If a person's heart has firm beliefs, the ghost can't do anything to her. Moreover, she didn't want to send her away at all. When I saw her face, I saw that she was greedy, lazy, and had evil intentions. She didn’t want to go to work, but just wanted to make money through this.”
Uncle Ma coaxed me: "Forget it, forget it. How many disciples in the world are willing to save people from suffering?"
I was still panicking in my heart: "But every disciple in the world talks about rescuing people who are in trouble. Shouldn't this be our original intention?"
Uncle Ma's expression became rich again, and he said after taking a sip.
"Haha, you are so naive. How come there are so many people helping people in need? Let me tell you, in fact, the original intention of many people is just to not go to work!"
This sentence is truly true.
This incident also made me feel unhappy for two days. I thought to myself that if I were to save people, if anyone else was involved, I would probably ask that woman to go to the house and start a new one. It's her consumption.
In the end, I asked her to send her away, which not only saved her money, but also saved her life. Instead, they didn't appreciate it and scolded me.
What the hell am I drawing?
But what Uncle Ma said at the end was straight to the soul.
As he said, the original intention of many people to take action is indeed not to go to work, but also to dominate at home.
I have seen such a person. After she established a court, she showed off her power at home. She pretended to be an immortal at every turn. She wanted to eat this or that. If anyone had any objections or said something bad about her behind her back, she would pretend to be an immortal. The old immortal pointed his nose at people, cursed them, and even hit them.
The family members did not dare to offend her, for fear that if this really happened to the old immortal, no one would be able to fight back and would have to endure it.
Ma Yunfeng introduced me to this matter. I asked Aunt Jiang to tell you about it...
That day, Ma Yunfeng, whom I hadn't seen for a long time, came. While chatting, I told him what I had been scolded a few days ago.
He burst out laughing and said, you deserve it.
I said, how come I deserve it? Is it wrong for me to save people?
He said you don't know how to guess the psychology of customers at all. You don't even ask them what they want to do. You just ask them to send you away. Why don't they just blow up your hair?
I said that's right. It was almost a ghost palace. Her life was almost gone and she still wanted to continue to pay tribute. She should be sent away. After she was sent away, we would observe her to see if she wanted to protect her family or leave the prison. , this is the only solution.
Ma Yunfeng shook his head and said, "That's not right. Your solution may not be what the customer wants. We tell people's fortunes. In fact, it is also a commodity. You have to look at the customer's needs and speak to the customer's heart, so that people can believe you." , can I be willing to spend money with you.
I said I didn’t do it to let her spend money. Aren’t we here to help people in need?
Since when has it become a commodity to take action and judge things? I still have to figure out the customer's psychology and say what she likes to hear?
Ma Yunfeng spread his hands helplessly and said: "Yes, it's like when you go to buy a TV. Your house is small, so logically you can only buy a 32-inch one, but you just want to buy a 60-inch one. All the shopping guides Everyone tells you that 60 inches is too big, but there is one person who says that 60 inches is fine and the larger one looks more comfortable, so you must spend the money on him, otherwise he will think you are wrong."
I scratched my head: "What the hell...do you have to be so stubborn?"
Ma Yunfeng said: "Yes, there are not many stubborn donkeys in this world? You all know that good words can't persuade a damn ghost, so why are you trying to persuade her? She has nothing to do with you? So you said, are you? Do you deserve to be scolded?”
I have to admit that what this guy said makes sense, and I also understand the clichés of those unscrupulous disciples.
For a person like this, if she wants to make a career, then you have to praise her and tell her how powerful her team is and how huge her team is. If after you get out, your team will become more powerful, you will have to Make a fortune.
If you say that, she will be cute and listen to it, and then she will obediently pay for it.
As for what it will look like after it is completed, only you know.
Sometimes she knows in her heart that you are deceiving her, so she also likes to hear it and is willing to be deceived by you, because she feels that what you say is what she thinks.
But I couldn't say these words, and I felt blushing. My principle in doing things is to seek truth from facts, and I never say an exaggerated word.
If there's anything that makes me blush, it's that I didn't do things well for others, or that I didn't see through something.
Uncle Ma often said that with a personality like mine, I would inevitably offend people in society because I couldn’t say what those people wanted to hear.
It can be seen from this incident that people really can't think too much about others, and it's the same with judging others' affairs. People like me who only serve others well deserve it.
The matter has come to this, let's learn from it and gain wisdom. Next time something like this happens, she loves her life and death, and she doesn't even think about it. Who do I care about her?
Ma Yunfeng said, don't be angry. There are many people like this in life. As a cultivator, why do you have common knowledge with such people?
I said I wasn't angry either. I knew exactly what this kind of person was thinking. I just felt that their good intentions were being treated like a fool.
He said it doesn't matter. In the future, you will often be treated like a donkey with good intentions. Gradually, you will get used to it...
I said fuck her grandma, there will never be another time like this!
Ma Yunfeng said, let's change the topic. I have a problem that I need your help with. This woman also came forward, but it was very annoying and too powerful. Her family members begged us to persuade her.
I said this woman is a person from the Xian family, or is she a person?
Ma Yunfeng said that he came to us for help because he didn't know. This woman has not gone to work since she was born. She has been making trouble at home every day. It's all over...
