I was speechless, thinking that you didn’t listen to a word of what I said back then.
I asked her, how does it feel after making it into a necklace?
She said that after wearing it for a while, she felt very at ease, as if her parents were really by her side, and she slept much more peacefully.
But less than a month later, people around her said something was wrong with her. Her face turned blue and white, her eye sockets were black, and she began to feel trance-like.
After another month of this, she often felt irritable and depressed. She didn't like everything she saw and always quarreled with people. It was like she was a different person and couldn't control her emotions.
Later, she started to have nightmares again, all kinds of bizarre nightmares, in which there were either dead people or ghosts, or cemeteries and crematoriums.
Moreover, she always dreams that her dead parents are back, standing beside the bed every day, saying that they want to take her with them...
Although she is a filial child, she can't stand being treated like this.
At this time, she remembered what I had said and felt that she had done something wrong, so she held the necklace and muttered, "Dad, Mom, I think you are right, and I want you to come back and accompany me, but you can't do this." He always wants to take me away, but I still have to live well.
Then she didn't dare to wear the necklace anymore, so she put it in a drawer and locked it.
In the end, this didn't work. She still had nightmares every day. Moreover, she happened to be pregnant just after her parents died, but suddenly one day she had an inexplicable miscarriage and couldn't keep it.
Later, she couldn't stand it anymore. She felt like she was going crazy. She was upset at work and when she came home. Sometimes when she saw a car while walking, she wanted to hit it...
Just like that, she found me again embarrassedly and wanted to ask me what to do.
I am really speechless. For someone like her who is disobedient and messing around, logically we should not care about her and let her go to whomever she likes.
I've been told not to bring the ashes of dead people into your home, but if you still get a necklace and wear it around your neck, isn't that asking for death?
But I still held back and told her it didn't matter. You can find a temple now, send the necklace there, hang two tablets for your parents, and ask them to stay in the temple and not go back to find you.
Then you do a ritual to ward off misfortune and send away ghosts to clear yourself, otherwise they may come back.
She was very sad and said that I wanted them to stay at home with good intentions, but why couldn't I just do well and have to harm me? They were my biological parents.
I said I told you a long time ago that people are different when they are dead than when they are alive. You cannot judge them with human thinking, let alone treat them as living people.
But you just don't listen, who can you blame?
She was still a little confused, saying that she had a colleague who did the same thing, but nothing happened after several years. Why was she so miserable and couldn't survive even three months?
I said, can people be the same? People may be strong in their horoscopes and can withstand it, but over time they will become useless. But if you are born with a weak horoscope and have a bad physique, what can you do to withstand it?
She didn't say anything more then, saying that she completely trusted me and would do whatever I told her to do, as long as she could get better, no matter what.
So I said, she is just causing trouble by herself. There is nothing wrong with missing her parents, but there are many ways to express your longing, but don’t do it randomly, remember that people and ghosts have different paths.
But before doing anything, I have to communicate with her parents first. After all, this is not like an ordinary ghost. If she bumps into her accidentally outside, she can easily send her away without any communication. Just give her some money. Just ran away.
But if this kind of family member has a bond or cause and effect relationship with her, then it must be discussed first and they agree before doing anything. This will have better results.
Normally, I communicate directly through photos and use spiritual thoughts to sense her, but this time it was a little different. I felt that her parents were obviously resistant and did not want to talk to me.
In other words, the communication connection is not very good, as if there is something blocking it in the middle.
As a result, I sensed nothing for a long time.
I said this won't work. They refused to talk. It seemed like something was blocking it. Why don't you give me your address and I'll take the time to visit your home.
This woman's home happened to be in Harbin, so she sent me the address. I didn't waste any time and drove there that afternoon.
She was very grateful. After inviting me into the house, she poured water and gave up her seat. Her husband even handed me a cigarette.
I said I don’t need anything, I don’t want to drink water or smoke, but your two old people are sitting on the sofa and staring at me.
The two of them were startled and quickly looked towards the sofa, but of course they couldn't see anything.
In fact, I couldn't see it, but her house was very dark, and I felt chilly as soon as I entered. At the same time, I could see two hazy shadows on the sofa.
If you take a closer look, you can see that they are the girl's parents. They don't look too old, in their fifties.
I told her about the general appearance of her parents, and she said yes, absolutely correct. They both fell ill and died one after another when they were only in their fifties. That’s why she was very unwilling. She always had a knot in her heart, feeling that she had not yet Do your best to be filial and sorry to your parents.
I say don’t think like that. Their life span is determined by their destiny. Now that you have a family and a career, their life span is up and it’s time to leave. No one can do anything about it.
Next, I came to the sofa, looked at the two phantoms, and then used my spiritual thoughts to communicate.
This sounds quite mysterious, but it is actually a conversation in the mind.
I said in my heart: "Two old people, your daughter is very filial and wants to keep you at home, but this is very bad for her. After all, Yin and Yang are separated, and humans and ghosts have different paths. If you stay here, she will feel uneasy." , you are also uneasy, why not go where you should go, once we are separated in this life, we will be together for two lives, so there is no need to be greedy for the old home."
After I finished chanting in my mind, after a while, there was an echo in my heart.
The voice speaking was a woman's, probably her mother's.
"We don't have to stay at home. This child is filial and always thinks about us. She cries every day and thinks about us every day. She also made a necklace to wear, which makes us feel sad. Moreover, she also made a wish in front of the Buddha and Bodhisattvas. There is nothing we can do if we are left at home."
The woman told me before that she indeed made a wish to the Buddha and Bodhisattva to keep her parents by her side, but I don’t know the specific details of the wish.
So I turned around and asked, "You made a wish in front of the Buddha and Bodhisattva before, that you wanted to keep your parents at home. What did you say?"
She was a little embarrassed and told me: "I really made a wish because I have never had a child. I finally got pregnant and had a miscarriage. I just want to ask the Buddha and Bodhisattva to bless me so that my parents can be reincarnated together and have a twin. I will be their mother, and I will take care of them in this life..."
