Early in the morning, I quickly found my cousin and asked him to tell the news to his family.
He was also very puzzled at the time, saying that he should have burned the paper, so how could he not receive it?
As a result, he called and asked around and found out that his cousin's family had forgotten about the burning of paper on the day of the funeral.
Because my cousin was in poor health, her cousin's brother took care of her funeral affairs.
This younger brother of his is... rather fucked up. He has always had a bad relationship with his cousin, and his humanity is not very good. It is said that when his cousin was hospitalized, he didn't pay a penny.
But he was his biological brother, so he had to take care of the funeral affairs, and he didn't want to pay for it, so he made it so simple that he even forgot about burning paper.
In fact, I didn’t really forget it, because I bought paper money at the time, but forgot to bring it to the scene, and later found a remote place to burn it.
But this one has no grave and the other has no expression. Burning it is just like not burning it, and you can't receive it at all.
At first, his cousin didn't believe it, but his uncle told him that Xiaofan had seen him last night, wearing a blue cloth shroud and being escorted by two ghost guards.
When my cousin recalled that she really wore a blue cloth shroud during the funeral, she quickly called her cousin's brother, and then she realized that the paper burning incident had completely gone wrong.
I was very speechless, and then my cousin took action and quickly helped my cousin burn a lot of paper money, so that the matter was settled.
This kind of thing where the dead come back and ask for money is actually very common, but I can sense it, but ordinary people don't know about it.
So sometimes, if there is a new year coming soon, such as Qingming Festival, Ghost Festival, or Chinese New Year, you should pay attention and it is best to go to the grave in time to burn paper.
If your ancestors are short of money and have trouble, some of them will come to you to ask for dreams, but most of them cannot ask for dreams, which will make you feel uncomfortable, such as inexplicable chills, nausea, stomachache, and other symptoms.
At this time, you can't see anything if you go to the hospital. Injections and medicines won't help. Just burn the paper and it will be fine.
This is indeed miraculous, and sometimes it’s hard not to accept it. Although I always let everyone believe in science, this... I really can’t explain it.
At that time, my cousin's family sent money, which made me feel at ease. I thought, cousin, if you receive the money, you can live a good life down there, so you don't have to come to me.
But at this moment, I didn’t know who it was, and suddenly laughed, and then an idea popped into my mind.
"Don't worry, he will definitely come to you to thank you."
The result is really...
Three days had passed since this incident, which happened to be the first seven days since my cousin's death. I didn't meditate that day, I was just lying on the bed reading a novel.
At that time, I happened to be reading "Tomb Raiders Notes", and I was very fascinated by it. However, I didn't buy the book to read it. I read the e-book on my mobile phone.
It's just that at that time, mobile phones still had 3G signals, so you could surf the Internet, but the speed was slower. Reading novels was no problem, but doing anything else was very difficult.
I had seen a scary clip and was concentrating on it when I felt a sudden cool breeze coming around me.
Immediately afterwards, my cousin appeared.
I looked up and saw that he was still wearing the same clothes as last time, and there were still the same two ghosts next to him.
But this time, his expression was obviously much happier, and he no longer looked depressed and frightened.
The attitude of the two ghosts was much better than before.
I put down the phone helplessly and said to him: "I told you, you don't need to come to me, you still come..."
My cousin smiled and said to me: "What comes comes comes. You have helped me so much. I have to thank you. I can't just take the money and walk away."
He is quite polite, so he is a good-natured person, very kind, and very particular.
I comforted him: "It doesn't matter. You can live a good life down here after you get the money. Your life span is already determined. Everything is fate. If you accumulate virtue and do good deeds every day, you will surely be reborn in bliss as soon as possible."
He sighed: "Well, I don't think about myself. What I miss most right now is my family. Your sister has just entered junior high school. Your aunt is not in good health. She has no source of income now. How will she live in the future?"
I had no choice but to tell him: "How you live your life is all their business. You must not miss them all the time, and don't go back to see them. After all, you are a person in the next world. It will not be good for them if you go back all the time. Just don't I have so much to worry about, and besides, there are so many relatives at home, so I won’t just watch and ignore it.”
He sighed again without saying anything, then turned around silently and slowly left with the two ghosts.
I only heard his faint voice coming from somewhere in the dark.
"Alas, after decades of living in this world, it's over, it's over..."
After my cousin left, he never came back. As I said, he never went home to see his wife and children.
After all, there are different paths between yin and yang. If a person always misses his family after his death and wants to go back for a visit when nothing happens, this will not be of much help to his family and will only cause trouble. Moreover, thinking about him and staying in the world for a long time will also affect his own death.
Later, my cousin's life was also very difficult, but she was very self-reliant and did not ask for support from her family. She worked while she was sick. Later, she raised her child and sent her to college.
Now, that child has become a teacher, teaching and educating people.
I think my cousin can still smile even if he is under the influence of Jiuquan.
This story has happened only two days before the National Day holiday.
At this time, the weather in Harbin has turned cooler, and we have begun to prepare for winter.
Generally speaking, after the National Day holiday, the heating is almost ready...
I can’t remember whether it was October 2nd or 3rd, but Bai Xiaoyan arrived as promised.
She didn't come alone, she also brought a best friend with her who was also her former colleague. The two of them have a very good relationship.
After we met, I saw that Bai Xiaoyan was tall and long-legged, with big eyes and double eyelids, and two dimples when she smiled. She looked even better than in the photo.
So I took the two of them to the restaurant and ordered a table of Northeastern dishes, such as pot-wrapped pork, three delicacies, fried meatballs, shredded sweet potatoes and so on...
It was the first time for the two girls to eat Northeastern food and they were very happy. They said they had wanted to try the legendary Guobao Pork for a long time and finally had it today.
During the meal, Bai Xiaoyan kept looking at me with a pursed smile. She was so generous and called her "Master" one after another, which made me feel embarrassed.
At this time, I have made an appointment with Aunt Hu, and I will go over there tomorrow morning to set up an appointment.
Moreover, I basically know everything about her, so there is nothing I need to investigate further.
Bai Xiaoyan said that when she came to Harbin this time, her white dragon also came with her. When she took the plane, the white dragon flew outside the plane the whole time, and she saw it from inside the plane.
I said that was too hard. After all, it was a thousand miles away. Why didn't he follow you? Why did he have to fly by himself? How tiring was that?
