We all said that Yuan Li was blessed, but she asked us why she could never make any money, her life was tight, and she had a mother who was bedridden all year round.
Where is this blessing?
When Yuan Li asked this, I had a lot of words in my stomach, but I didn't say a word. I just told her to do more good deeds and keep her heart, and blessings will come.
Ma Yunfeng is not stupid either. He also didn't say much and just made a few jokes to expose the matter.
In Ma Yunfeng's words, girls, even if they have something unhappy, they will forget it as long as they coax it.
But in fact, being blessed does not mean prosperity, nor does it mean abundant wealth, nor does it mean family happiness, nor does it necessarily mean peace and health.
Blessings often mean that you can turn misfortune into good fortune, that you can turn good fortune from adversity, that you can avoid danger when you are in danger, and that you can always be happy when you are sick or frustrated. With the help of noble people, you can always see the light.
But this blessing does not come easily and will be obscured by many obstacles.
Some of these obstacles come from the outside world, which are called external obstacles, and some come from oneself, which are called internal obstacles.
Therefore, it is not enough for a person to have blessings. You have to cultivate your mind, do good deeds, and eliminate these obstacles so that you can achieve the blessings.
For example, your real father is the owner of a listed company and gives you a lot of money to start a business, but you are a prodigal who cannot support you. You have no ability at all. You only know how to pick up girls and pretend to be cool. How much compensation does your father give you? I can't help you either.
But these words are easy to say to outsiders. I can say them less and never more to acquaintances.
Even when my relatives who don't move around very much contact me occasionally, I never say what I do. When asked, they just say that I don't have a job and that I am just messing around.
In fact, many people in our industry are like this.
In front of outsiders, the more accurate our words are, the more we will be regarded as an expert, or even a life mentor, a guiding light.
But those relatives and friends, if you say this in front of him, even if you are very accurate, he will only think: Why is this child so nagging now...
So I don’t want to say anything about Yuan Li at all.
But I don’t know why, but within less than two months of being in a relationship with Ma Yunfeng, something happened at home again.
Yuan Li's father was working on a construction site. One day, he had an accident and one eye was pierced by a nail or a steel bar.
At that time, Yuan Li was in a panic and looked for hospitals to treat her father's injuries. Ma Yunfeng also followed him around, but in the end the eye was still not saved.
The construction site did not compensate him much, saying that he had violated operating procedures and was given some token medical expenses.
Yuan Li cried so much that she wanted to file a lawsuit, but she didn't succeed. The construction site gave her an extra 20,000 yuan, so the matter was settled.
This incident had a great impact on her, and Ma Yunfeng was also very upset. He came to me to complain, saying that his life was too hard. It was difficult for him to have a girlfriend. Just two months after we met, his future father-in-law turned into a one-eyed dragon. .
I told him: "One-eyed dragon has nothing to do with you, and you don't live with your father-in-law."
He said: "It doesn't matter. Now my burden will be heavy. I can't do much work with only one eye left. I'm still young, so you have to rely on me?"
I was a little speechless and said, "You have a lot on your mind. We've only been with you for two months. Have you already thought about what to call your child?"
He said: "That's not true, but her mother was originally bedridden, and now her father is one-eyed. I really..."
He didn't say the next words, but it was already obvious that this boy was afraid of causing trouble for himself in the future and didn't want to get along with other girls.
But I didn’t say much. Everything was his decision and it had nothing to do with me.
But Ma Yunfeng is actually just saying that he is very good to Yuan Li, and he can be regarded as spending the most difficult time with her little girl.
Later, Yuan Li came to me and said that she wanted me to show her why there was so much suffering in the family and why she was said to be blessed, with her mother lying in bed and her father blind?
I originally didn't want to show it to her, but when she took the initiative to come to me, it was of a different nature, so after she told me two or three times, I decided to check it out for her.
This kind of thing seems simple, but it is actually quite difficult.
Generally speaking, if you want to check a fairy or a ghost, this is easier. But if you want to check why a person has a bad fate, there are too many things involved.
That day I burned incense at home and meditated. Yuan Li sat next to me nervously, not even daring to breathe.
I closed my eyes, and soon several pictures flashed through my mind.
This scene looks like a hunter hunting in the woods.
I clearly saw some injured animals struggling for their lives, and some animals being hit by animal traps and having their legs broken, struggling and wailing.
The clearest thing is a brown-haired fox, whose waist was broken somehow, dragging its legs and crawling hard on the ground...
I opened my eyes and looked at Yuan Li.
She hurriedly asked me how I was doing. I sighed and said to her, "Did your ancestors hunt?"
Yuan Li looked confused and shook her head: "I don't know. I only know about my grandfather's generation. He was an ordinary farmer. I have never heard of it before."
In fact, most people are like this now. Few people know what happened three generations ago.
This situation is much better in the south, because there are families and inheritance, ancestral culture, and many families have genealogy passed down from generation to generation.
But here in the Northeast, the situation is different.
Because there are not many aborigines here, many of them came from Guandong in the past, including myself. My ancestors’ hometown is in Shandong.
So when asked about what happened a few generations ago, most people don’t know.
But in fact, four generations from now, that is, my great-grandfather’s generation, it happened to be a time of war and chaos. Soldiers, beards, hunters, killed people, and died violently. In fact, it was particularly special. Much.
It is precisely because of these reasons that more and more people are taking action now, but in the past few decades, there were very few such things.
As for the specific situation, I will tell you about it later when I have the opportunity.
In short, Yuan Li was confused at the time and had no idea that her ancestors hunted.
I told her that actually he may not be a hunter, he could also be a beard in the mountains. Not only does he hunt, but he may also kill people.
She asked, what does her ancestors’ hunting and killing have to do with her?
I smiled and said that this was a big deal, as future generations would have to shoulder the karma created by our ancestors.
And I also saw a creepy scene in the picture just now.
That is, a deer was pierced through the eye by a sharp arrow, pierced deeply into the brain, kept flopping on the ground, and soon died.
Yuan Li asked, what does this deer have to do with her family?
I glanced at her and reminded: "Think about it, is your father's eye similar to that of that deer?"
Yuan Li was stunned for a moment, then suddenly shuddered.
