Yang Lili told me that since her divorce, she found another partner and they have been living together for more than half a year.
The man is younger than her, quite handsome, and treats her well. He doesn't dislike her for having a child, and she is quite content with him.
But the current situation is that the two of them have no jobs, no luck in wealth, can't make money no matter what they do, and stare at each other at home every day.
As long as they have some money in their hands, something will happen to their family, so they can barely make ends meet with the little money they earn throughout the year, and they also owe a lot of foreign debts.
She always thought it was caused by something wrong with the hall, because since the hall was established, it has been turned over seven or eight times.
But the results turned out to be more and more chaotic. The leader of the head church has been changed several times, the leader of the Monument King has also been changed twice, and all the immortal families have also been up and down several times.
In short, it was messed up once and for all, and an unknown amount of money was spent. It was of no use at all, and she was about to collapse now.
She has also tried to meditate and communicate with the Xian family countless times to ask what the difference is, but all the responses are chaotic and a complete mess.
Constantly going to bed also made her in poor health. She was in pain here and there all day long. Even though she was only in her twenties, she felt like she was seventy or eighty years old.
Later, someone said that if she could offer three Buddha statues at home, the situation might be much better.
That's why she came here and spent almost a thousand yuan to buy three Buddha statues, namely Sakyamuni Buddha, Guanyin Bodhisattva, and Maitreya Buddha.
It was a good thing to ask the Buddha, so I naturally said something nice.
In fact, listening to her talk, I didn't expect that Yang Lili's life would have changed so much in just two years.
So I told her not to ask questions anymore, because many times she listens to too many people and makes her family more and more messy.
She said what should she do if she didn't change her mind? The relationship was not stable either. Something happened every day at home, especially when it was almost March 3rd. Her whole body felt uncomfortable and her waist almost broke.
I told her: "If you can't figure it out after going through the church, don't believe anyone else. Just talk to the church carefully. These people will come up today, and those people will go down tomorrow, and then the day after tomorrow, and change the leader over and over again. That’s amazing.”
She said a little aggrievedly: "Then what can I do? I can't sense it myself. It's useless to burn incense and meditate. Everything is in a mess. The leader has been changed several times."
I thought for a while and said, "If you do this, after you go home, you offer incense to the church leader. No matter who the current leader is, you tell him that you won't change the church leader in the future, and you won't change the leader. Just invite him." Manage the hall, keep those who are capable for a period of time, and leave those who are incompetent. You give him two months. During this period, you completely trust him and let him do everything. But if it still doesn't work after two months, Then don’t be a leader anymore.”
When she heard what I said, she asked in confusion: "Is this possible? Then the leader must not be angry? I don't dare to offend the immortal family. I am always respectful and cautious."
I patiently said: "You should respect the Xian family, but you don't need to be too cautious, because the Xian family sometimes follows others. If you are too weak, the Xian family will not be strong. So you have to be tougher. Just do as I say and let the leader manage it for two months, and then you can see what happens. If it doesn’t work, replace him."
She hesitated and said: "Then let me go home and give it a try. The Buddha just happened to invite me back. Let's see what happens this time. If it doesn't work, let's talk about it again."
By the end of the conversation, she had arrived home. I won’t say the location. In short, she lived in the suburbs. Her home was a bungalow with a small yard.
It was a bit inconvenient for her to carry several big boxes by herself, but I didn't feel obligated to send her home to avoid misunderstandings.
Before leaving, she asked for my mobile phone number and said she could contact me often in the future.
Looking at her back, I had a hunch that something must happen in her family.
Moreover, it can be very troublesome.
After returning home, I didn't take this matter to heart. I first enshrined the Earth God and the Earth Grandma, placed wine glasses and water cups, and a set of offerings, and lit two ever-burning lanterns.
There is nothing much to say here. The only thing to pay attention to is that the Lord and Grandma of the Earth cannot be enshrined in a high place. The shrine must be placed on the ground, lower than the Buddhas, Bodhisattvas and other gods at home.
Because he is a god in charge of a land, the first factor is to be grounded.
But it cannot be placed directly on the ground, as that would be disrespectful. Just use a shrine.
In the incense burner, many people use millet. In fact, you can also use emery. If there is too much incense ash, it is better to just use incense ash, because the cost of emery is high, and if millet is not used, it will easily breed insects.
This time, there was finally something new in the hall. Shangfangxian and Tudezhen were both offered, and it looked particularly festive and peaceful.
In fact, according to He Yuchen, I should also set up a Buddhist hall for worship, so that the Immortal Family should all follow the Buddhist path. This would also help their practice.
Logically speaking, I have invited all the Patriarchs of the Sanqing Dynasty, as well as the Nine-Tian Xuannv. It doesn’t really matter if I invite Buddhas and Bodhisattvas. Some people may think that Buddhism and Taoism are in conflict, but here at Chumaxian, it doesn’t matter.
The only thing that bothers me is that this place belongs to Uncle Ma. Uncle Ma is a Taoist priest from Zhengyi. Although he has been expelled, his Taoist status is still there.
If I were to make offerings to the Buddha at his home, it would be disrespectful and a bit embarrassing.
Although I usually chant sutras and other things, that is two different things from worshiping in a Buddhist temple.
So the days passed like this again, looking at the divination and the sky every day, watching the weather getting warmer day by day, and the trees outside slowly starting to turn green, with little green buds sprouting out.
This is the vitality of spring and the miracle of life.
Therefore, Harbin is really a good place with beautiful scenery in all four seasons.
As long as you have a heart to discover beauty, beauty is everywhere.
By this time, several days had passed since March 3rd, and I no longer felt uncomfortable. I just felt weak every day and felt sleepy in the afternoon.
So after lunch that day, I planned to go back to the house and take a nap. As soon as I lay down, my phone rang.
The call was from Yang Lili. Her voice sounded a little depressed, and she didn't chat with me and went straight to the topic.
She told me that some time ago, she had asked the leader to take good care of the church as I said, and it seemed to have some effect. She could also clearly feel the changes in the church during this period, and it was indeed a bit more stable.
However, since she made offerings to the Buddha, she felt that the aura at home was a bit off. After March 3rd, she no longer felt uncomfortable, but her partner began to feel uncomfortable.
So, she wanted to ask me to help her take a look.
