Xiaowo looked like he was speechless.
She asked Xu Zhiyi:
"Sister Zhiyi, do you think she is pretty, sweet-tongued, well-behaved and sensible, like a villain?"
After hearing her description, Xu Zhiyi thought about his impression of Qiaoqiao and said, "Well, yes, she is very lovable. Isn't this a good thing? What are you worried about?"
This is the trouble of the nest.
That's right, this little guy always wants to please people.
At home, I kept looking at Xiaowo and Wang Yue's faces, trying every possible means to make them happy.
This is not only true at home, but also in kindergarten.
She never dared to say "no" to any child. When other children bullied her, she did not dare to resist, so she used her own toys and snacks to please her.
This made the nest very angry.
She brought Qiaoqiao back to Hangzhou and kept her by her side, just because she didn't want her to be beaten and scolded like she did when she was a child, and look at other people's faces all day long.
Qiaoqiao is only five years old, and she is at the age where she can play unscrupulously. But as a child, she has not let go of play all day long, and is always focused on how to make others happy. What is happening?
Also, if you don’t resist when you are bullied, how can you do that?
If things go on like this, no one will dare to attack her.
Is she still a doormat?
It’s okay not to be this kind of clever and sensible person.
Children should be like children, innocent and carefree.
She has told Qiaoqiao many times not to worry about others, and she will deal with whoever hits her. Don't be afraid, her mother will support her.
But it's no use.
The child was still young and couldn't understand, but she said it too many times, which made Qiaoqiao feel that she had made her angry, so she watched her face more carefully to please her.
Xiaowo asked for help: "Sister Zhiyi, you said Qiaoqiao always behaves like this, what should I do?"
When Xu Zhiyi heard this, he also felt worried for her.
Those who major in education have studied psychology.
She knew that Qiao Qiao had a please-pleaser personality.
Qiaoqiao lost her mother when she was two years old. From a psychological point of view, the period between two and five years old is a critical period for the formation of a child's personality.
During this period, she was ignored by Wang Yue for a long time and lived with her grandparents who favored boys over girls. She was always in a state of being denied.
In order to attract the attention of adults, children instinctively want to cater to them and please them, hoping to be liked by them.
Over time, pleasing behavior becomes a habit.
To put it bluntly, it is caused by the poor quality of original ecological families, who always put their own needs in an unimportant position.
In fact, she had it more or less when she was a child.
Later, as I grew older, I gradually realized this and deliberately overcame it, and then I gradually got better.
Ever since she met Octavia, she almost no longer had this mentality.
When it comes to what to do in a situation like Qiaoqiao's, it can't be solved in one sentence.
This requires a lot of patience from Xiaowo, and he needs to make changes bit by bit in his daily life.
Xu Zhiyi thought for a while and said:
"Xiaowo, if you want to solve this problem, you have to have a good communication with Wang Yue. Educating children is not a matter of one person. It requires two people to work together.
Also, you have to study it yourself. I recommend a few easy-to-understand psychology books for you to read. "
Xiaowo nodded, still frowning.
She knew that she would eventually have to resolve this matter herself.
Take your time, what else can you do?
The two of them talked about Su Yingxue again, and both lamented that they were not from the same world, so they should be well on their own.
As he was talking, Xiaowo suddenly thought of something and said:
"By the way, Sister Zhiyi, please send a message to your cousin-in-law. Tell him that Wang Yue has long wished that he would go it alone, and reassure him that Wang Yue will follow him wherever he goes. That villain named Zhang Hao is not alone. Want to poach him.
Not only will he not be poached, not even one of the core players he brings will be taken away. "
In the evening, Xu Zhiyi said this to Octavia.
Mingrui smiled and said: "Wang Yue also said this in front of me. It seems that your cousin's pillow blows well. Thank her for me and tell her to keep blowing and don't stop. This is the key At this critical juncture, I don’t want to let anything slip here.”
That's right, Octavia and its Shanghai headquarters have officially had a showdown.
Previously, the choice faced by the Shanghai headquarters was between him and Zhang Hao.
After seeing the situation clearly, he made his own choice.
He likes to have the initiative in everything in his own hands.
The next step is how to leave the Shanghai headquarters.
This is a protracted battle, and in the end it depends on endurance, who can outlast the other.
Including the competition of human, material and financial resources.
In the days that followed, Octavia shuttled between Acropolis and Yincheng. In addition to finding new partners, the most important thing was to communicate with government departments.
Wind energy and photovoltaic projects require project approval from government departments. Without the support of government departments, it is difficult for companies to become bigger and stronger.
After government approval, all initial investment is required. Only after a large amount of infrastructure is built and repeated experiments will output be gradually produced.
In the output stage, support from government departments is also needed.
Nothing is easy when it comes to government departments?
Octavia has an official background. It is undeniable that the official background will reduce a lot of resistance for him in the general direction.
But it’s impossible to rely on background for everything. You have to rely on yourself to do the specific things.
He relied on his background for everything, and the Ming family was already finished.
The Ming family has been able to stand firm for so many years, and the bottom line and red line are determined not to be touched.
In early November, Octavia went to the Shanghai headquarters.
Before going to Shanghai, he first went to Hangzhou.
Xu Zhiyi is seven months pregnant and will give birth in two months.
His visit to Hangzhou this time was to facilitate Director Feng's visit to the Acropolis.
Originally, he wanted to use Ming Huaiyuan's connections to set up an exchange project for obstetrics and gynecology experts from the east and west through the health department.
Funding for the project was provided by him.
After the project was launched, he negotiated with Director Gu, and with Director Feng's consent, Director Feng went to Weicheng Hospital as an exchange expert to guide exchanges.
It lasts for three months.
But, later, he found a better opportunity and did not need Ming Huaiyuan's help.
In August, the day after Xu Zhiyi was rescued, he took Xu Zhiyi to see Dr. Yu for a review. He happened to see the cover of the meeting information handed to Dr. Yu by the intern.
It says "The First Exchange Conference of National Medical Industry Experts".
He keenly found a breakthrough.
To this end, he communicated with the leaders of the city hospital and proposed that the city hospital continue to hold the second exchange conference, and he would provide the funds.
His condition was that in the name of the city hospital, he would invite Director Feng from Hangzhou to Weicheng Hospital for on-the-spot guidance and exchanges.
Not less than three months.
With financial support, city hospital leaders can only dream of it.
There is a clear gap in the medical level between the East and the West. Having more exchange meetings like this will greatly promote the skills and concepts of hospital doctors.
The invitation from the city hospital has been sent to Director Feng, and Director Gu from Hangzhou has also approved it, but there has been no reply from Director Feng.
He came here this time just to have a good talk with Director Feng, to find out the reason, and to persuade her to accept the invitation as soon as possible and leave for the Acropolis.
