Xu Zhiyi was shocked when he heard Ming Shiyuan's words.
Octavia was indeed right.
He told Xu Zhiyi that Ming Shiyuan would come to Xu's house to talk to her later, and Ming Shiyuan's first sentence would be to ask her how to solve the current problem.
He is really smart, and he did not get the No. 1 prize for nothing.
"Zhiyi, remember, in front of an absolutely strong person, never confront someone head-on. If you are tough, she will be tougher than you, and you will be smashed to pieces; you must learn to show weakness, show weakness, show weakness again, use softness to overcome toughness, my aunt will Eat this."
Octavia told Xu Zhiyi this before leaving.
She nodded obediently, but she still felt unsure and said uneasily:
"Brother Octavia, do you think I can really do it? Which of your Ming family members is not better than me? In front of them, I am already weak and don't even need to show it. If they don't want to listen to me, I won't even be able to speak. There is no chance, as long as you are willing to listen to me."
Octavia held her face, with an encouraging smile on his lips, looked directly into her beautiful peach eyes, and said firmly:
"So, for your trust in me, I will fight for your right to speak in the Ming family.
Crying children get sweets. Only by making this matter a big deal and alarming everyone in the Ming family will my parents truly feel the crisis and truly realize that their attitude towards you is wrong, and then they will face you and respect you. Ming family Others will not ignore your ideas.
Zhiyi, I will give you a sufficient sense of security. If you encounter problems in the future, don’t run away. Solve them with me, okay? "
Xu Zhiyi looked guilty, took the initiative to hug his neck, kissed his lips, buried her head in his warm neck, and said sincerely:
"Brother Octavia, I'm sorry for making you sad. I will never be like this again, and I will never back down again, I swear."
Xu Zhiyi finally chose to believe in Octavia and marry him.
When Octavia respected her opinion and said that the marriage was too hasty and that he was too anxious and took the initiative to take all the responsibility for the cancellation of the wedding on him, she was shaken.
She was the one who temporarily regretted the marriage. Even though she had such concerns and reasons, in the end the root cause still lay with herself.
It's because she's not strong enough in her heart, not confident enough, has the instinct to run away from trouble, and doesn't have the courage to solve problems.
And the man in front of her is so responsible and considers everything for her. Even if he convinces her, he will not put pressure on her with the consequences of regretting the marriage. He really puts her feelings first.
When Octavia asked Xu Zhiyi that she just didn't want to get married and didn't want to break up with him, Xu Zhiyi suddenly realized that if she missed Octavia, she would regret it for the rest of her life.
There was no one in the world who was nicer and more considerate to her than Octavia.
Every family has its own problems. Even if she chooses an ordinary family with an ordinary man, there will be other problems.
For example, even if the man does not dislike her family, he may dislike her for not being able to cook, clean, etc.
Some families favor boys over girls, some families engage in cold violence or even domestic violence, and some families fight over trivial matters.
It is impossible to want a husband's family with no problems at all.
The most important thing is to look at what you care about most.
The moment Octavia asked her, she told herself that she cared most about Octavia's attitude towards her.
That's right, as long as Octavia treats her well, cares about her, and stands by her when things go wrong, other people and other problems won't matter.
In this case, what reason is there not to marry him?
Xu Cheng likes the writer Liu Qing very much and often uses the writer's famous quotes to educate her and Xu Zhian. Especially in every major exam, he quotes a famous quote from Liu Qing.
"Although the road of life is long, the most important steps are often only a few steps, especially when one is young."
For her, the high school entrance examination is an important step. If she cannot go to high school, she will have no chance to go to college.
The college entrance examination is another critical step. If she couldn't get into college, she wouldn't be where she is now.
Working and studying for graduate school is the only way for her to move up to the next level. From a certain perspective, without this step, she would not have met Octavia.
Now, marriage is an important and important step in every woman's life.
Octavia told her that his marriage would be a new beginning for her life, and he would put her first.
Enough, these are enough, enough to completely withstand the occasional storms in marriage.
When she saw Octavia's expectant and sincere eyes, Xu Zhiyi immediately broke her guard and apologized to him in tears:
"I'm sorry, Brother Mingrui, I made you sad. I never thought about breaking up with you. It's not that I don't want to marry you. I know how good you are to me. I just, I just don't know how to face you. parents, and others in your family.
I'm afraid that I can't do well, that I'll put you in a dilemma in the future. I'm afraid that if I keep relying on you to solve everything for a long time, you will be tired and annoyed. In the end, you may hate me...
That's what I think. You said that we need to communicate and not be cold-blooded. I will tell you my thoughts. I know that I will have to face these problems sooner or later. After we get married, you must help me. I am slow to respond. Please be more patient, okay, okay? "
Mingrui held her tightly in his arms and choked with sobs:
"Little fool, I said that you are the most important person in my life. I will love you, love you, pamper you, protect you, and understand you. How could I still have a good relationship after we get married? Hate you? Zhiyi, thank you, thank you for marrying me, thank you."
After the two hugged each other for a long time, their emotions completely calmed down.
Only then did Xu Zhiyi feel embarrassed, and worried that if other people in the Ming family found out about her regretting their marriage, they would have a worse impression of her.
After she made such a fuss, many people knew about it, and Zhou Feng was also present. It would be impossible not to let other people in the Ming family know about it in the future.
After thinking carefully, Mingrui said to Xu Zhiyi:
"Zhiyi, from now on, you and I are of the same body, advancing and retreating together. Since my parents' attitude towards you makes you so uneasy, then we will take the opportunity to deal with this matter thoroughly."
What he meant by taking the opportunity to deal with it was to make the matter bigger and not give others a chance to tell the rest of the Ming family. He would directly tell the Ming family personally and put the matter out in the open to resolve it.
After making the phone call in Xu Zhian's bedroom, he returned to Xu Zhiyi's room and told her:
"Zhiyi, this is a secret between us and our couple. No one can tell it, not even your mother. Do you understand?"
Xu Zhiyi nodded solemnly, "Well, brother Mingrui, don't worry. I'm very strict with my mouth. I won't tell anyone. I won't tell anyone. This is our secret, ours."
Mingrui was amused by her serious and cute look. He held her in his arms and kissed her again and again, and then told her the most likely next move of the Ming family, asking her to deal with it well.
"Zhiyi, no matter what my aunt says, in terms of strategy, you just have to be careful and show weakness. In terms of goals, remember, to achieve the goal of getting the Ming family to accept your love, then give up when you see it. Do you understand?"
"Well, I understand. I just want to make the elders feel that as soon as they advise me, I will listen to them, give them face, let them have a step forward, and they will think that I am good and reasonable, right?"
Octavia scratched her little nose and said, "Yes, that's really smart."
Now that everything is going according to Octavia's prediction, Xu Zhiyi trusts him even more.
Ming Shiyuan asked her how to solve this problem, and she had to follow the plan.
