Zhang Fu'er thinks about it, he always has to get used to it slowly.
"As for your sisters who are estranged from you, it's not just that everyone has their own way and gradually drift away. In this person's life, you will meet many people, and there will also be many people who will drift away from you and become strangers. "
"Like me, there were many sisters in the house in the past. In the end, except for Ah Luo, they all became strangers. Maybe when I was young, there were no grudges and we could all play together. But as we get older, each of us has his own agenda. , gradually drifting away, that’s all.”
"And in life, it is rare to have a few trustworthy confidants. If you have more, you will be forced to do so, and you will not be able to cope with it. When you have free time, it is already very difficult to go out with your friends for a walk, have tea and listen to the opera. So happy."
Zhang Fu'er paused slightly when she heard the words, and saw that the hand holding the pastry froze. After a long time, she said: "Madam is right, it is rare to have a few close friends in life. I can't have everyone treat me sincerely. "
"It's just drifting away."
Zhang Fu'er figured it out and felt much more relaxed and no longer entangled.
"Madam, today's pastries are so delicious."
Su Wan smiled: "Is it delicious? Ah Shi also likes to eat it. When I go back to the kitchen to make it, ask them to make an extra portion for you."
Zhang Fu'er was extremely happy: "Thank you, madam."
Although Zhang Fu'er is no longer the little girl she was before and has become much calmer, she still has not changed her nature as a foodie.
"By the way, my sister-in-law has been feeling a little unwell these past two days. My mother said she might have another baby."
Su Wan's hand that poured her tea paused slightly: "She has a baby again? Why didn't she tell me?"
Zhang Fu'er said: "I'm not sure now. I'm afraid it's not accurate, so I didn't say anything."
Su Wan calculated and found out that Zhang Boliang was already five years old. It had been five years, so he could have another child, so she said, "Then please ask the doctor at home to come and take a look."
The Li family has always had a doctor. Su Wan and Zai Zai usually see a doctor once a month to make sure there are no health problems. If there are any problems, they are also treated.
Zhang Fuler said: "My mother said to wait for a while before inviting me. It's still early days, so just be careful first." After that, she sighed, "I really hope that my sister-in-law will give birth to a girl this time."
The boy is really naughty.
Su Wan said: "Be it a girl or not, your sister-in-law can be considered a son and a daughter."
Su Wan really wanted to have a girl before, but she also gave birth to her son, and she loved him the most, and she was very satisfied in her heart. She felt that her children were equally good.
And she is afraid that she will never have another child in her life.
The Li family had a large business and had always raised only one son to prevent brothers from fighting each other. If she gave birth to a child, it would be fine if the second one gave birth to a girl, but if it was a son, she would have to worry about success.
And it’s very difficult to teach.
You say let it go, but the eldest brother has been carefully taught and trained by his father, and will be the heir of the Li family in the future. If he gets nothing, he will definitely be unhappy, which may lead to dissatisfaction and injustice.
If they are taught well, it will take no one to know how much effort it takes to educate one person, and no one knows how much effort it takes for two people to do so.
And even if they are taught well, everyone will have the same starting point in the future, and it is impossible for the Li family to divide everything equally among their brothers.
In this way, the eldest brother gets everything, and the younger brother gets a little, and it is inevitable that he will feel dissatisfied.
And I am afraid that Achi does not want to have a younger brother to share his parents.
Because of all these, neither of them had any intention of having a second child.
Just as he was talking, Shi Zai came out of the house wearing his shoes, as if he hadn't woken up yet.
"Mother..."
"What's wrong?" Su Wan saw him running, stretched out his hands to pick him up and let him sit in front of her, "Are you awake?"
Shizai yawned slightly, and then nodded like a chicken pecking at rice. Maybe he was a little bored. He pulled on his mother's sleeve and said, "Mom, we have to go find daddy."
Su Wan rubbed his scattered hair: "It's very cold outside. Do you want to go find your father?"
He thought for a while and then said: "I have to go find daddy."
Su Wan thought he might be really bored. After Li Lin took him with him when he had free time, he would take him out most of the time. Even if he was working, there would always be guards accompanying him to play or go out for a walk.
The weather has been cold recently, so Li Lin didn't take him out. At first, his mother was with him and there were a lot of fun things at home. He didn't have any objections, but after half a month, he became a little bored.
Probably wanting to go out.
"It's very cold outside, I'm afraid it's going to snow. Even if you go to find your father, you'll stay in the house and can't go out." Su Wan explained warmly, "If you follow me and don't insist on going out to play, mother Tell your father tonight and let him take you."
"Can't you go out?" he asked.
Su Wan said: "It's very cold. Otherwise, go and have a look at the door. It's very cold everywhere outside now."
It's already late November. It's not cold. It's probably going to snow in a few days.
Although this side of Licheng can be called the south, it occasionally snows in winter, occasionally one or two times, and the winter is also very cold.
Su Wan had previously thought that a brazier would be enough to spend the winter in Licheng. When winter came, she felt that she was being looked down upon. Fortunately, the main house had been laid with floor coverings when it was built.
"But you can go, it's better than staying here with me." When the weather is cold, she doesn't like to move very much. If nothing happens, she won't even go out of the house. The child has been with her for a long time, and the house has become dirty inside and outside. After touching it once, it felt boring.
Moreover, Su Wan never let his maid play with him.
Shizai didn't want to stay at home anymore, so he nodded: "Then I want to follow daddy, and I want Uncle Youyou and Uncle Shasha to play with me."
"Okay, let them accompany you."
Zhang Fu'er also played with Shi Zai for a while, had enough to eat and drink, and then left.
When Li Lin came back in the evening, Su Wan told him about the matter: "You should take him with you. I see that he is a little bored at home."
"It's much colder over there, and there are no earth dragons..." Li Lin hesitated.
During the winters of the past two years, the child was still too young to be trapped at home. This year, he has started to be active and active everywhere, and it is obvious that the family can no longer trap him.
However, he is still young and his body is still very weak. It is really inappropriate to take a three-year-old child out in the winter.
Su Wan also knew this: "Then what do you think we should do?"
Li Lin thought about it and said: "How about I work at home for a while and then take him to the outer courtyard. However, when the New Year comes, it will be very busy and there will be many people coming and going, so it will not be suitable to take him. "
"Okay then, let's wait until the end of the year in the outer courtyard. I should be able to coax him for a while."
