Murong Xian was stunned for a while. She thought about Su Zhi's nanny. She was indeed a submissive person and a little timid. She always liked to keep her head down.
When they were looking for a nanny before, they were afraid that the child would be bullied, so they found an obedient one. However, as the child grew older, the nanny was probably afraid of being driven away like others, so she became more cautious and submissive.
Murong Xian frowned.
It's not that she doesn't care about the child, it's just that there are too many things going on in the house and she can't take care of them. The nanny took good care of her, so she kept him. From this point of view, it seems that she can no longer take care of her. Stayed.
If the child follows her every day and learns that little family spirit, then that's fine.
"Thank you for reminding me, I understand."
Su Wan nodded, hugged the child better, and did not talk about this topic again.
Previously, she and Li Lin had discussed how to educate the child. They planned to wait until the child was six months old and then feed him some cereal and porridge. If he ate it, they would prepare to wean him at ten months and send the wet nurse to him. Send away.
When the child was more than one year old, she followed her more often. When the child was two or three years old, Li Linduo was asked to take care of him. Although he was still young at this time, he had already begun to learn something instinctively. What kind of people should he follow? , it will be easier for him to learn from him.
Although this is not entirely the case, it has a great impact on the formation of the child's personality. She hopes that the child can be like his father. Although she does not want to flatter him, Li Lin is indeed an excellent person.
At the age of three, it's time for him to be enlightened, it's time for Mr. Xue to come, and it's time for the master to make arrangements.
Some people say that life is short, and there is only so much time to be carefree. He should not be allowed to bear so many things, but Su Wan knows that only by laying a solid foundation in the front can everything be smooth sailing in the future.
Life may not be a smooth road, and many unpredictable things may happen. What he needs at that time is to have the ability to deal with all the wind and waves. Those who have the ability will ride on the wind and waves, and those who have no ability will be knocked down on the beach.
At that time, no matter what happens, nothing can stop him. At that time, he will have everything given by his ancestors, and the rest of his life will be smooth.
Of course, it is also because he will have a heavy burden in the future and must not be raised crookedly.
She had discussed a lot with Li Lin, so when she met Su Zhi's nanny, she felt something was wrong. It would be easy for him to learn this from a child following a submissive person.
Su Zhi, the eldest son of Su Jian and Murong Xian, if he learned this and couldn't get over it in the future, he would really have no tears left.
Not long after, the Wang family, Li family, Su Luo and the Yuan family came together. Su Wan looked at it and felt that something was missing, and then suddenly remembered that Li family members were not here.
At first, Mrs. Li was a little confused because of the affairs of the Li family. Later, her niece entered Sui Prince's Mansion as a concubine. The Li family also wanted her dowry and family wealth. She had a quarrel with the Li family because of Su Xun and Su Luo.
Later, King Sui's rebellion was defeated and he was demoted to a commoner and taken to guard the imperial mausoleum. The Li family's wealth had long since disappeared, and Li Yuyan became a female dependent dismissed by the palace and returned to the Li family.
As the Li family became poorer, they became even more jealous of the dowry she had taken away. They came to beg for it many times, which made it very ugly. Su Xun asked her to convert the money from the dowry back then and give it to the Li family. But if the Li family wanted it, This money will be used as if I don’t have this daughter in the future.
The Li family finally asked for the money, and the couple pooled the money together to give it to the Li family. Ms. Li was also completely disappointed with her natal family. Later, the Li family took the money and tried to reconcile. She was extremely afraid that the Li family would come again. Calculate her money and ignore it.
In her opinion, the things she has been running for many years should be given to her children. When Su Wan got married, people were jealous because of her red makeup. Su Luo was her sister, so she couldn't be too bad, so she decided to leave Li Li. The family is far away.
Su Xun politely asked the person to leave.
After repeating it a few times, he became impatient and said harsh words. If they bothered him again, they would not be able to stay any longer. The Li family was a little afraid of him and would not dare to come again. The two families gradually drifted away.
Even for Su Luo's hair-raising ceremony, Su Xun sent people to warn the Li family not to come. Although it was inappropriate to say that no one from the grandfather's family came on such a day, most people in the imperial city also Knowing the grudge between the two families, it's hard to say anything.
Besides, Su Xun was fed up with the Li family and didn't want to let out any news that would make people think that he was willing to reconcile with the Li family. This was his attitude no matter whether it was the Li family or people outside.
If you want to cut it off, you must cut it off cleanly, so that these people will not cause trouble to Sanosuluo in the future.
Mrs. Wang thanked today's guests and then asked everyone to use their chopsticks. The courtyard was bustling with everyone eating and chatting together or having a few drinks.
What the female guest prepared here was fruit wine. The fruit wine had a hint of fruity aroma, was not intoxicating, and tasted just right. It was rare to get together, so it was good to drink two glasses.
It was difficult for Su Wan to eat while holding the baby in his arms. The baby saw so many people eating, and there were many things on the table and various plates. He was a little curious and started to stretch out his hands.
Su Wan held him down, sighed in her heart, took two bites and asked the maid to spoon a bowl of fish soup for her to drink, then stopped eating.
Su Luo sat next to him, stretched out her hand and rubbed his little head: "Ashi, if you are disobedient, your mother needs to eat. If you make any more noise, you will be beaten."
Zai Zi shook his head and refused to let her touch him, staring straight at the plate.
Su Wan said: "Eat your own food and leave him alone."
Yuanshi said: "Why don't you let someone take you down so that you can have a good meal?"
Mrs. Wang said: "This one in her family is very smart. Except for her parents, she won't let anyone hold her, so she can only carry her with her."
Yuanshi remembered this incident, and she frowned slightly: "Then how do you eat on weekdays? Hug?"
Su Wan said: "Just pull up a small bed next to it, we both eat, he lies down, and the older one can play by himself for a while, or let Xiao Sang and the others give him a hug. When they are at home, Ah Shi is still willing to let him hug him, but It can’t be longer.”
"But when I get to a crowded place, I won't give him a hug."
If you encounter him crying, eat faster to prevent him from crying all the time.
There is nothing we can do about it, and no one knows what to say.
After a banquet, Su Wan only ate a few chopsticks and a bowl of soup. When the guests were full and full, they said their goodbyes and left. The couple quickly left with their children.
The child is too young to go out.
After getting on the carriage, he put the child on the wooden couch and watched Li Lin play with him for a while. Su Wan finally breathed a sigh of relief.
Raising children is indeed not easy.
