Putting aside how the couple discussed "how to be interesting" and "whether it was interesting" at night, on the second day, Mrs. Daxi came with someone to take her dowry away.
After she left Lanxi Garden yesterday, she went to look at the yards for sale. She quickly fell in love with a yard with three entrances and a garden. She signed the deed this morning and went to the government office to file it. The yard is now owned. She had it all.
While loading things onto the carriage, Mrs. Da Xi also gave Su Wan an invitation: "I will hold a flower viewing party in my new yard in three days. Mrs. Su must be sure to show her favor. Several people I know are here." Let’s go.”
"At that time, I will invite some handsome young men to make tea."
Su Wan's hand froze when she reached out to take the invitation, and she felt that her backache was getting worse. She refused: "I won't go. Thank you Madam Daxi for your kindness. I won't join in the fun. "
Mrs. Daxi raised her eyebrows: "What's the matter? Are you afraid that the one in your family will have an opinion? Don't worry about his opinion. Young men like them are not going to visit this building today and listen to the concubine from that family playing the piano, singing and dancing tomorrow. We all have our own fun, and each of us seeks our own happiness."
Su Wan only felt that the openness of the Western Wei Dynasty was simply poisonous. The couple could actually have fun on their own.
She took a deep breath, and then said: "It's better to say goodbye. This guy in my family is a jealous man. He doesn't go looking for these kinds of fun himself. Naturally, I won't go either. Otherwise, he will fall out. Besides, , How can this fun be more interesting than that of my family?"
When it came to the word interesting, she was a little afraid to look directly at it, thinking that it would be better to say this word less in the future.
"You are looking for your own fun, and I am also looking for my own fun. I won't disturb you anymore. But I also want to thank Madam Daxi for the invitation. If there is a chance in the future, let's enjoy the flowers and have tea together."
Now that I have said this, if I continue to say it, it will be a bit difficult. Mrs. Daxi smiled and said: "In that case, I will not invite Mrs. Su, but the relationship between Mrs. Su and Mr. Li is really good. Okay." It’s a bit enviable.”
Su Wan rarely had the time to explain to her: "The relationship between husband and wife is actually managed. They give to each other, tolerate each other, and warm each other. You can't let people be so affectionate and infatuated with you as soon as they get up and are willing to do it for you. To give everything you have and never give up is something that is only in the storybook."
"When we first met, there was probably only a little affection, but as time went by, it gradually grew more."
At first, Li Lin might have thought she was good, a smart, smart, gentle and pretty girl, but it wasn't that she was the only one.
As for herself, she also felt that he had a good knowledge of life. Both her parents were dead and her family was not allowed to take concubines, and she was still very poor. She could let him do whatever he wanted. After weighing the pros and cons, she thought it was a good choice.
Later, as the relationship deepened, everything naturally changed.
Mrs. Daxi shook her head: "I am different from Mrs. Su. It is definitely impossible for me to tolerate others. I was born in the Daxi family and was born as a noble daughter of the clan. Only others support and pursue my status. If you ask me to bow my head, I will definitely not be happy."
Su Wan thought to herself, no wonder she and Mr. Qi came to the point of reconciliation. Mr. Qi was not a good talker, so naturally he would not coax her and support her. Therefore, she felt that this life was not what she wanted and felt that it was boring. It's like a pool of stagnant water, so I want to get out of it.
Su Wan looked at Mrs. Da Xi's back leaving in a carefree manner, and sighed deeply. She stood at the door for a while. When she came to her senses, she returned to the study to work with Li Lin and complained along the way.
"Why do you think it's so strange that the Western Wei Dynasty is so open? Men keep concubines, and women keep pretty boys. You look for your fun, and I look for mine. I wouldn't even dare to write this in a book."
Even if it is a marriage of wealthy families in modern society, they are not so open in private. In the end, they have to live up to their reputation and cover up these things tightly. They are like the Western Wei Dynasty. No matter whose family is better raised, a couple can't live together and divorce is like eating.
"It's just a playground for the rich and powerful in the clan. Once you are powerful, there is no distinction between men and women."
Li Lin described it in the book without even raising his eyes, "The Western Wei Dynasty was not like this in the past, but it became like this later when the clans flourished, the royal court declined, and the clans controlled a large amount of the country's wealth and power."
"Let's take the matter of raising a face as an analogy. Madam, just imagine that a royal princess has raised a face, two other princesses have also raised a face, a noble girl from a clan has raised a face, and two noble girls from a clan have also raised it. Gradually, , and formed such a worldly thought, thinking that it is just a matter of keeping a good reputation, and it is not something too outrageous or embarrassing. If you can do it, I can do it."
"If there is no distinction between men and women, Madam, you can look at it this way. If the nobles of the clan raise ordinary human beings for fun, it will be the same."
Su Wan rubbed his goosebumps on his arms: "These clans are really fun to play with. I heard before that the Western Wei Dynasty was about elegance, style and character, but now it seems that this style is too romantic and has no character. As for the elegance, only the fun is left. If such a national system is not overthrown, the people will never have a good life."
At this point, she leaned over and said, "There's just something strange to me. I remember you once said that you had been to the Western Wei Dynasty. The situation in the Western Wei Dynasty was not formed overnight. Why haven't you been there all these years?" What kind of action should we take to let it develop?"
"As my wife said, if such a country is not overthrown, the people will never have a good life. It's just that Licheng has never cared about these dynasty changes. Once it feels troublesome, it stays out and waits for the new life that will always come. There’s nothing wrong with it. Secondly, there’s just no good candidate.”
"If there is a person like Afu there, I will naturally be willing to help and save less blood in this world."
Su Wan smiled: "After all, your rules are just that you can do whatever you want."
Li Lin looked up from the Kanyu map and smiled when he heard this: "Madam, you need to understand a truth. Sometimes some things in the world are not stubbornly fixed. As for the current actual situation, they can be adjusted according to the situation. These rules and principles are dead, but talents are alive.”
"The rules of feelings are just an undirected reference. If you don't want to control it, then it's just the rules. I'm really sorry. If you want to control it, it means the rules are dead and people are alive. Being stubborn and not knowing how to adapt is not advisable."
Li Lin smiled: "It's exactly what Madam said."
