Su Wan asked curiously: "How is the Song family?"
"Hey, there was a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Wasn't Sister-in-law Song's daughter-in-law happy? She happily packed her things and went to the Imperial City, saying she wanted to take care of her daughter-in-law. But in the end, she ran back crying. .”
"No, I don't know what happened."
This is also a sad thing to talk about. It is said that marrying a noble girl into the family is a matter of smoke rising from the ancestral graves. It means that the son has a bright future and the family will have to change the lintel in the future. But among them The sadness is unspeakable.
After all, this is not the right family, and the status is not equal. The man has to be bullied by the woman, just like a mother-in-law and a daughter-in-law, even the daughter-in-law. But for the sake of the son's future and the happiness of the family, he can only swallow this sigh of relief. .
Even if the dispute is not so tense, in daily life, the mother-in-law has to be tolerant to her daughter-in-law, and she has no choice but to endure it when she is wronged.
If you meet someone with a domineering personality, you will definitely not have a good life. Even Su Wan, who has a better temper and is easy to talk to, will at most be polite to you and respect you on a daily basis, but once you offend her , maybe he will fall out at the next moment.
Just like she did to the Shi family, they would fall out if they said they wanted to, and they wouldn't interact with each other if they said they didn't want to. They have a lot of confidence, but they won't keep it down.
If you want her to serve your husband and your parents-in-law like any other little daughter-in-law, don't even think about it. If you offend someone, she might overturn your family.
In short, if you marry a noble girl, you don't have to think about arrogating to your mother-in-law. You can't afford to offend her, and you can only swallow it yourself if you feel wronged.
"The Chongshan family has also been very worried recently. They are worried that the noble daughter of the Minister's Mansion has a bad temper. If she has a bad temper, what will she do in the future?"
Zhou was very happy at first. Shi replied that he wanted to marry a noble girl. In the future, he would also have the support of his father-in-law in his official career, and his future would be smoother.
But after she was happy, she calmed down, and she was worried about whether the noble daughter would have a bad temper, and whether she, as a mother-in-law, would have to make a living by looking at her daughter-in-law's face in the hands of her daughter-in-law.
Thinking of this, Mrs. Zhou felt very uneasy, and she was also very worried these days.
"I don't think there is anything to worry about them." Someone said speechlessly, "In the future, they will all be the wives of officials. It is not our turn to worry about them, peasant women."
"You know what you sow is what you reap. Since you married a noble girl for the sake of your future, do you still want her to serve you like a little daughter-in-law and serve you tea?"
"Don't marry someone else's daughter if you can. Just find a hard-working girl from one of the nearby villages and take care of her. She will serve you every day like you are your ancestor."
Just to hold on after eating enough!
Now that you have chosen this path, you know what situations you may need to face. If you can get along well, then live with it. If you can't get along, just come back and live in the village. It's far away, that's it. No more contradiction.
Besides, all the people in the village are relatives of the same clan, and they have lived here for half their lives, so it is not impossible to survive.
Looking at them like that, it is possible that they hope that their sons will marry noble girls, and they also hope that their daughter-in-law will serve them tea and water as their little wife.
Su Wan listened to the people in the room talking for a while. Some people felt that a daughter-in-law should be filial to her mother-in-law and stay humble. Some felt that since she married a girl from a higher-ranking family, she should be prepared to tolerate her daughter-in-law.
Su Wan didn't want to care about what kind of life the Shi family would live after marrying Miss Cao. She was just a little worried about Qu Lingzhu and Song Zhan, and she didn't know how such a thing happened.
Song Zhan was in the middle, but he couldn't handle the matter between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? Let your own mother run away and complain everywhere?
Su Wan thought that when she returned to the Imperial City, she had met Li Lin and Song Zhan, and wondered if he knew what was going on. With this thought, she looked around the crowd, but did not see him. .
After searching carefully among the noisy voices, I found that he was chatting with someone in the yard. His voice was clear, gentle, and very recognizable.
She thought about it and realized that the matter wasn't urgent anyway, so she could just ask later when she had time.
The women in the room talked for a while about the Shi family and the Song family, and then mentioned the fruit trees bearing fruit this year. The room was always lively.
At the beginning of the afternoon, the groom and his men set off to pick up the bride, and many people in the yard followed to watch the fun.
Su Wan took some time off, licked her dry lips, took a pear candy to soothe her throat, and then figured she still had time, so she went to take a rest before returning to the new hospital.
At this time, there were several people in the guest room who were sorting out the return gifts for a while. There were baskets densely packed in the room, with several packages of things in them, filling the baskets to the brim.
Su Wan lifted the hem of her skirt, walked up the steps to the door, and asked the people who were busy: "How many of these return gifts have you prepared?"
Those few people were the servants of Jingpingyuan. When they saw that she was coming, they stood up and saluted: "To tell you Madam, I have prepared a total of eighty-eight copies, which is just an auspicious number."
Su Wan did the math, there were more than fifty households here on the stone bridge, if everyone came and there were still some left, even if there were others who came to add joy, that would be enough.
"Who will be here to return the gift later?"
"Manager Zhang said that he would ask Aunt Shi Liu and Mrs. Zhang to help later. Aunt Shi Liu is familiar with the people in the village and no one will dare to take duplicates."
Su Wan was relieved after hearing this. She took Xiao Sang and Xie Si'an back to the Ming Hall. The room was empty except for Li Lin, who was sitting in a chair nearby. She walked up.
Seeing this, Xiao Sang and Xie Si'an stayed at the door and did not follow them.
Su Wan walked over, sat down on the chair next to him, took out a pear candy wrapped in oil paper from his sleeve pocket, and shook it at him: "Mr. Sun had someone prepare the medicinal ingredients earlier. The boiled sugar is said to relieve throat discomfort, would you like to take one?"
When Sun Xiang was not pregnant, she often liked to tinker with these things, such as digestive sugar, pear sugar, and countless kinds of balms and powders. Su Wan used them, but felt that the things she made were particularly good.
He took it and untied the greased paper and threw the candy into his mouth. It tasted sweet and slightly cool, not as sweet as other candies, so it was still acceptable to eat.
"Won't you eat, madam?"
"I just ate one." She stretched out her green-white fingers and gently placed them on the tea cup. Her red nails seemed to make her hands whiter and more tender.
Although he didn't like others to see her, he didn't deny that she looked better like this.
