Shi Chongshan's face suddenly turned cold, and he said: "What's the point of Heli? Women should take good care of their families and take care of their families. Look at the eight villages nearby. Is there any woman who wants to Heli?"
Shi Chongshan became very angry when he talked about this: "If she makes peace, my Shi family will lose face!"
Shi Chongshan is a man who cares about face very much. He also has the patriarchy of this era. He feels that after a woman is married, she should serve her husband well, take care of the family affairs, and have children.
In his eyes, men can have three wives and four concubines, but women should keep to themselves and obey the four virtues. Even if they are unhappy in every way, they will still have to break their teeth and swallow their blood, and a daughter-in-law who has lived for a thousand years will become a mother-in-law.
Peace and separation? !
That is absolutely impossible!
Shi Chongshan would never allow it. If Shi Huiqin reconciled and left, where would he put his face and where would the Shi family's face go.
In his opinion, Shi Huiqin's current broken body and bones are of no use to Li. Even if he dies, he must die in the Li family, enter the Li family's grave, and be worshiped by the descendants of the Li family.
If she dies after the reconciliation, the Shi family will not recognize her, nor will the Li family, and her soul will have no resting place after her death.
Why bother? I don’t have a few more years to live anyway.
What else are you fussing over? !
Shi Huiqin's physical condition is just getting through the day now. Although Shi Chongshan thinks it's bad for his son-in-law to be entangled with a widow, Shi Huiqin has been ill for so many years and can't touch her, so it's hard for him to say anything.
The only thing that bothers him is that his son-in-law didn't keep the matter a little tighter, and now everyone knows about it, which makes him lose face.
Shi wrote back and advised: "Dad, it would be best if the eldest sister can reconcile. She is not in good health and the Li family doesn't care about her. If she comes back, my mother and second sister can take care of her."
Shi Huixin did not put face as more important than life like his father.
Shi Huiqin injured her body when she gave birth to a child. She has been on the sickbed for these years. She cannot do without medicine for three meals a day. Her health is getting worse and worse. Unless she finds a magic pill to cure her, she will not be able to survive for a few more years.
Since she is not having a good time in the Li family, if she wants to make peace with her, then just make peace with her.
As long as she lives the rest of her life comfortably, she will avoid being bullied by the Li family all the time.
"Shut up!" Shi Chongshan glared at his son, shook his wine glass on the table angrily, and cursed with a flushed face, "Don't talk nonsense if you don't understand. The girls married by my Shi family never divorced their wives. There is no reason for reconciliation, even if she dies, she is still a member of the Li family!"
"If you dare to mention this again, I will beat you to death!"
Shi Huixin was scolded and scolded, so he kept his mouth shut and did not dare to say a word. He looked at Li Lin from time to time, hoping that he could help with a few words.
Shi Chongshan would still listen to Li Lin's words.
Li Lin didn't seem to see Shi Huixin's gaze. He sat there without saying a word and looked at Shi Chongshan scolding Shi Huixin. Shi Su, who was sitting next to him, wanted to help and say a few words, and then together scolded.
When Shi Chongshan was tired of scolding and sat down again, Li Lin poured him a glass of wine.
He said: "Why is uncle so angry? My cousin is also thinking about my elder cousin. We are a brother and sister. It is right for him to feel sorry for my sister's bad life."
"Let's just talk about getting married. In fact, it's not a big deal." Li Lin pinched the wine glass with his fingers and said with a smile, "I've been to many places where widows get married again, or couples lose their relationship and divorce. Marriage is also common.”
"This life lasts only a few decades, and at most it only lasts a hundred years. Just live happily, so why care too much."
Shi Chongshan dared to lose his temper with his son, but he did not dare to get angry with Li Lin. After hearing the words, he stopped and said: "Jingyuan, you don't understand. When this woman is married, she is from her husband's family. She is born into her husband's family." People, death is the ghost of the husband’s family, how can there be reconciliation.”
"If the Li family dares to divorce his wife and does not want the girl from my Shi family, I will have to have him beat to his knees and beg for mercy, but the girl from my Shi family has no reason to reconcile!"
"Besides, with her body like this now, if she disappears in the future, she won't be a lonely ghost."
"Your cousin-in-law did go too far, but after all, your cousin's health is not good." Shi Chongshan said, "When the time comes, we will beat your cousin-in-law and ask him to cover up his actions in the future. Don't let others spread these things again. talk."
All in all, they wanted to settle the matter, Shi Huiqin couldn't reconcile, and even if Li Lan wanted to get along with the widow, he had to cover it up and not let anyone know.
Everyone be well.
Shi replied and frowned: "But the eldest sister will definitely feel uncomfortable. She is not in good health to begin with. How can that be done if she is so angry every day?"
Li Lin said: "Uncle, it's better to let her live happily for the rest of her life. If she wants to make peace with her, just let her make peace with her. As for her reputation, don't worry, uncle. It's the Li family who did something wrong. , even if you lose face, then the Li family will lose face too."
"The Shi family has been in Shiqiao Village for many years, and their reputation has not been established overnight. How could they lose their face because of a divorce from a married girl?"
"In my opinion, if a married girl is wronged and her mother's family doesn't care, that would be truly cold-blooded and indifferent."
"If we take care of it, people outside will only say that the Shi family is kind-hearted and does not want the girls of their own family to suffer. People who marry girls from the Shi family in the future must also be careful and not dare to bully girls from the Shi family."
"If you keep silent, others will know that the Shi family cares about face too much, and they will bully the girls of the Shi family as much as they want."
"When you should be tough, you must never give in. If you keep swallowing your anger again and again, others will only think that the Shi family is timid and fearful. The men in the family are incompetent and cannot even protect their married sisters."
Shi replied and nodded vigorously: "Dad, my cousin is right. The Li family has bullied the eldest sister so much. If we don't care about it for the sake of face, then the girls married by our Shi family will be allowed to be bullied."
Shi Chongshan was a little dazed by what Li Lin said, but he actually thought it was quite reasonable. If he swallowed his anger again and again, it would give people the impression that he was really easy to bully.
"But, if we break up, she will have no one to worship her in the future and she will have nowhere to go. Wouldn't she become a lonely ghost?"
Li Lin smiled and said: "You don't have to worry about this uncle. My eldest cousin Heli, let's just bring the child back. In the future, when she becomes her own family, the child will change her surname to Shi. In the future, there will be no children or grandchildren." Worship.”
Huh? !
Shi Chongshan's eyes lit up and he felt it made perfect sense.
If Shi Huiqin takes the child away, her descendants will worship her in the future, and her soul will not be without a home. It will also show the attitude of the Shi family and achieve Shi Huiqin's wish.
This is the best of both worlds.
only......
Shi Chongshan frowned: "Then the Li family will allow Huiqin to take the child away?"
