Yue Shuang was stunned.
Su Wan asked her again: "But do you understand?"
Seeing that she was still stunned, Su Wan sighed: "Before you do anything in the future, you also need to think about other people's situations. Don't carelessly hurt others. Do you understand?"
Yue Shuang thought for a moment and nodded: "Cousin, don't worry, I've figured it out and won't run out."
"Oh? Have you figured it out?" Su Wan was slightly surprised and in disbelief, "Have you really figured it out?"
"Yes." Yue Shuang nodded, "I have been thinking a lot about this for so long at home. It is indeed my fault for worrying my grandparents and my parents."
"When she learned that the eldest sister and eldest brother-in-law had returned with their children, my grandmother even cried. She said that the eldest sister and her eldest brother-in-law were careless and had to go to a place like a border town, but she couldn't stop them. The children of the military general's family had to go to a place like a border town. You have your own responsibilities and need to protect your home and country, that is..."
Even if he died there, on the battlefield, he would have died a worthy death.
Yue Shuang couldn't say anything else, so she bit her lip and said, "I know there is a huge gap between me and the eldest sister. The eldest sister is a woman who is not inferior to men. She is a female general guarding the border city. I don't know how much she suffered there." suffering.”
"And I was eating and drinking well at home. Instead of taking care of my grandparents for my eldest sister, I insisted on going my own way, which made the whole family worried and scared. It was really wrong."
Previously, she didn't think there was anything. She just wanted to be a bird, fly to the outside world, and see the outside world. However, this home and relatives were the ropes that bound her to fly, and they were also the ties that could not be let go.
She couldn't let go, but she felt very annoyed and disliked it, and she didn't want to listen to other people's advice.
They are sisters from the same family, but compared with the eldest sister, she looks like a naughty and reckless bad boy, ridiculous and bad.
She had been very distracted in the morning, and had been a little absent-minded all day.
Even if she is not as good as her eldest sister, and does not have the spirit of her eldest sister and her eldest brother-in-law to sacrifice their lives for the country, she can at least be a girl who will not worry her family. There are enough things at home.
"Cousin, I won't mess around anymore in the future. Even if I like to travel around the world and run outside, I will tell my family that I will go out with a guard, so that I won't worry my family anymore."
Su Wan took a breath and took a serious look at her. For a moment, she was thinking, could this girl have also had her core changed?
"Are you telling the truth?"
If she just likes to go for a walk and bring a guard, the town government may not let her go. She has only been a girl for the past two years. Since she likes it, let her have her way while ensuring safety. It’s not necessarily impossible.
When you get married in the future, there won't be such a good thing.
As for the Zhenguo Duke's Mansion, I'm afraid as long as she doesn't sneak out on her own and make people worry.
"Of course it's true, cousin, I'm obedient now." Yue Shuang laughed twice, then opened the box, "Cousin, thank you for your help in giving this gift. I will definitely not run out and embarrass you. "
After opening the box, she saw a butterfly-encrusted hairpin inside. She reached out and touched the butterfly's wings, then inserted it into her bun. She reached out and touched it, as if she cherished it.
"Cousin, do you look good?"
"nice."
"I said before that I wanted a butterfly hairpin like this, which looks like it's dancing. I didn't expect that he actually got one for me."
Seeing her happiness, Su Wan smiled and nodded: "If you like it, it's not in vain."
As for other things, Su Wan didn't say anything more. This girl is still not enlightened. As for the future, it depends on whether they have such luck.
"You can figure it out, I'm happy in my heart." Su Wan said, "The hearts of people in this world, whether they are close relatives or not, are grown from flesh. If I treat you a little better and you treat me a little better in return, then I will definitely treat you better in the future." Hello three points.”
"But if you keep stabbing a heart, no matter how hot it is, the blood will drain out and it will cool down. Sometimes when you have accumulated enough disappointment and shed too many tears, that feeling will also be lost. That’s gone.”
"What is left is only disappointment and hatred. I wish you would go far away. It is best not to show up for the rest of my life, so as not to recall the past and be hurt."
Yue Shuang didn't understand and looked at her in confusion.
Su Wan smiled and said: "People who are favored can feel confident because they are favored and protected by others, but this preference is not just asking for it without giving anything."
"It's like your grandparents prefer you because you are their granddaughter and they feel sorry for you, but you break their hearts over and over again. This preference will naturally disappear as time goes by. "
"No matter what kind of feelings it is, they are all mutual. Children and grandchildren who are filial will always be favored by their elders. But if they are unfilial children and grandchildren, when they think back, they will only feel disappointed and heartbroken. Many times, they even mention it. I don’t even want to mention it, I don’t even want to see it.”
"I'm not teaching you any tricks to win the favor of your elders. I just want to tell you that you have to be a filial child to be worthy of your elders' love for you."
Su Wan has always felt that feelings are mutual. For example, she and Wang were very transparent when the original owner was here. Wang probably just remembered that she had such a granddaughter, and asked them how they were doing when they met. Okay, that's it.
But after Su Wan came over, Mrs. Wang felt sorry for her because of Su Fu's affairs, and took good care of her. Su Wan thanked her in his heart, and honored her in every way. He often asked her about her well-being, and came and went. As time went by, she The relationship between the ancestors and grandchildren of the Wang family is also there.
Another example is Wang and Su Fu. It was not that Wang didn't love Su Fu at the beginning. On the contrary, she was the one who loved and valued her the most. However, she disappointed Wang again and again and even embarrassed the Jinning Palace. Implicating the entire mansion.
Today's Wang family doesn't even want to mention Su Fu, let alone meeting her.
Yue Shuang was stunned: "Cousin, are you telling the truth? If I make another mistake, will my grandparents stop loving me?"
Yue Shuang had never thought about this. She had been loved by the elders in her family since she was born. Whether it was her grandparents, her father, mother, uncles, aunts, or even her brothers and sisters, they all pampered her to no end.
According to my cousin, that's called preference.
She didn't dare to think that in the future, no one would love her anymore, or even look at her with only disappointment and disgust.
Thinking of this, she felt very empty and panicked.
"Cousin! Cousin! Are you telling the truth?!"
"Maybe it's true. So, if Shuang'er wants to be a filial girl, I don't need you to be very filial. At least, you have to not make the elders in the family worried or sad. Can you do that?"
Yue Shuang was really frightened by Su Wan. She opened her eyes wide and nodded vigorously: "Cousin, don't worry, I can definitely do it."
